since this was brought up...why would a woman ever fake it? EVER?

makes no sense to me...

if you are in a relationship then you obv want to have the best sex possible and would be willing to move your man in the right direction and give as much help as was necessary...

if you were in a one nighter why would you even bother? to protect his ego? why would you care? isn't your time/energy better spent in leaving and doing it yourself if its not gonna happen with this guy? or better yet, just give him help too since you are already ****ing and you might as well enjoy it...

i've been told by some girls that they fake it when they are leaving a relationship, but that doesn't make sense to me either...if you are planning on leaving the sex is for totally selfish reasons so your goal would be to get yours so might as well either do it yourself or give instructions to get it done for you...

splain yourselves women?

ok, you got me. This is very true of course. Good point, td.

I've faked it once or twice. The girl was so into getting me to cum and it just wasn't going to happen....so....oh...OH...YEAH BABY!

Snore.

i don't get why you would do this...what was your relationship to this girl? is it covered in my post about faking above?

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Because the mental portion of sexual excitement is very crucial to a woman, there are times when it's just not gong to happen. (You're tired as hell, etc. etc.)

But, you're partner is extremely caring about you sharing in the pleasure, and their ego is wrapped up in there too.

So rather than bruise their ego........

I don't fake it (because my man is just that good). Even if I didn't get off, I would not fake it, i would just be really disappointed.

I'm guessing that girls fake it because they are tired and want the guy to get off them already. Or maybe they have given up and think they will not be able to achieve orgasm and they think it's what the guy wants.

at that point why not just do it yourself? or take his hand but use yours to control the pace or whatever...that way you get yours and he gets some instruction...plus watching a woman please herself is hot...

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okay i'm going to try that next time (should i be saying this? )

thank god you're here finally. i was wondering where you were.

I often find this impossible when needed. WHen you have mad sex for a while, I feel that I get kind of numb from the action/pressure on it, so using the hands afterwards gets it nowhere (this is without getting softer).

So, in that case, is what you're saying that we're in control of your equipment?

Several things:

1) What do you do when new relationships/partners spell the end of old sex acts that you enjoyed? Do you just lament the loss of what once was, or try to convince new partners to give it a whirl? If they are adamantly against it, how do you not then feel like some sexual deviant.

2) Most people are familiar with the term whiskey dick. I have the reverse problem at around 4-6 beers. Cannot orgasm, but can keep having sex for long periods of time. Anyone else have a similar reaction to being kind of drunk?

How can you not stand it? I do agree that most partners are horrible to mediocre at it, but i love it regardless.

Re. the kissing after part. My logic tells me that if your partner doesnt want to kiss you afterwards, there is probably a reason why you shouldnt be down there in the first place.

Try, always try (atleast after a while) if you don´t ask blame yourself, if she doesnt want to blame her (unless you actually are a sexual deviant )

Standard imo, it´s a good price to pay to be a stud on one night stands.

heh. i guess i am. But i still maintain that we don't misfire willy nilly like the rest of you.

1: im guessing that if the girl is deadset against it then you have to just get over it (unless you are alanDyer, kidding )...i suppose you could try to tell her you really enjoy it that it would make you happy etc, but some people just have no interest in certain activities...doesn't make you a deviant...

2: see my post above for what i would do in those kinds of situations...perhaps going from sex to oral/hand would work? for me this entails ditching the condom which by itself makes things somewhat easier...

someone mentioned location being important to having great sex...this makes sense to me because bedroom sex can get old, new location excitement, chance of getting caught etc...

are all you people that are doing it in changing rooms and on the beach etc going bareback? seems like these are places you do it because of passion "i need you right now" kind of situations...how does that meld with taking out and putting of a condom?

condoms are the worst, amirite?

How do guys come to these conclusions? How do you have sex without kissing? BTW, I've had alot of one night stands.

i didnt come to any conclusions...i only asked questions for clarity on other statemnts you have made...

I'm usually a 45 second to 2 minute wonder....wife calls me al bundy....
when I hurt my back they gave me ultracet and baclofen.... take 2 of each and I can litterally almost not finish positions must switch because neither of us can handle the action for as long as it takes....

If anyone else has 45 second problems find a back doctor and get that prescription !!!!!!!!!!!!

She's happy I'm happy and now I can fall asleep 10x faster when done than I could before (usually translates into 1 minute from 10

baseball>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>sex

boy what a trainwreck if my wife finds this thread.....

Not really she prob thinks knitting >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>better than sex with me !!!!!!!!!!!

it was just easier than explaining why I wasn't going to pop. ("You don't think I'm attractive - waaaaah!") Who needs that? It was with no one special.

WAT ?

You must be a millionare with a private beach...

Jesus I can't even sneak a cigarette or a beer on teh beach let alone sex...

I'd problably get harpooned anyway

I've never really had the first problem. Dom is strong like bull.