So I have a question BBV4L, I came here to ask it because I know like 1/4 to 1/2 of you guys are actually stalkers.

Here's the story: So flashback like 9 months I meet this really awesome girl out one night and we exchange numbers. Go on a couple dates and bling, blang, blaow I fall in love with her and it's the best relationship I have ever been. She's beautiful and we get along great, like, I never fight with her and I fight with any and all women.

Anyways, after we go on a couple dates I find out that like a month before we met she had broken up with this dude. Their relationship lasted like 12 months and include several break-ups, all her breaking up with him. However, he was just that persistent kind of guy and she is pretty laid back and really nice so she took him back one to many times. Anyways, around this same time I am talking to her on the phone one night, she was out with her friends and telling me goodnight, when all of a sudden she was like wtf I have to call you back. So like a 30 minutes later she calls me back and she says, "Hey sorry. I just found out my ex has been using track my iphone to track me and followed me out tonight". She said that he had called her and told her he was watching her and that she was a slut and a bunch of other garbage. Obviously I was pissed and worried about her, however, we both agreed that it we would just let it go and I chalked it up to being a slightly pyscho ex kind of thing. Well fast foward to now and this guy, imo, is full blown stalker. Not only did he show up at her place of work after this, but, he has shown up around 10ish times at her normal haunts and places were she would likely be. For example, he showed up at the happy hour that she and her co-workers go to three weeks in a row....by himself. He also had a night where he called her 39 times literally almost non-stop from like 11pm-2am. He shows up at a farmers market where he knows her mom has a stand that she always helps set-up, although at this he is actually friends with the guy that runs it. Then to top it all off he shows up at a concert where her favorite band is playing, it was a small venue, and stands about 6ft from us.

In my mind this guy is no doubt a stalker. The thing that makes me worried worried is that she is kind of being non-chalant about it. She did say that if he does it again we will contact the police. We already had a lawyer talk to him, he is an attorney himself, and tell him that everything he is doing is being recorded and if he crosses the line charges will be pressed. Yet he keeps doing it. Anyways I just want to know if any of you guys have ever experienced anything like this and what did you do? Is he just your typical jilted boyfriend or just a bonified pyscho? I would love to here from the girls too.

No pics of GF but threadsavers obviously...

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Also, take note this is in a city of +500,000

yeah youre a stalker

I only stalked your mother. You need to get over that....she wanted it.

I've been stalked a few times. it's a pretty nice ego boost but just plain unhealthy. imo you need to man up and tell this guy to **** off. worked for me.

cliffs:

Lots of words and a pic of a pretty girl

Get over yourself. Having bill collectors after you is not considered stalking.

I did that. He ain't leaving bro..

No cliffs it will take like 2 minutes to read and I don't know who the girl is.

what's a bill collector?

you're not scaring him OP. do you want this girl for the rest of your life? if so, go tell him to **** off and this time MEAN IT!

Or he could give her a teddy bear

teddy bear works every time

Whenever he comes around take your pants off and then casually walk over and stand in his personal space until he leaves.

+/- slow jerkoff gesture

Amazing advice. Will possibly try this and report.

ask him to pull your finger

upon further reflection..I have a better plan.

If not already, you will soon be able to have him arrested, right? That means that you could pretty much do whatever you wanted and he'd just have to take it b/c the alternative is going to jail/being charged for stalking.

PIE.IN.FACE.

lol

srsly, how often does one get this opportunity? I've been waiting my whole damn life!

It's not stalking, it's monitoring.

Serial killers do it. Keep that in mind OP.

HOLY WALL OF TEXT BATMAN!

any1 offering up cliffs?

stop stalking

Take her phone on a "date", deep in the woods/desert/(choose a desolate location near you), deep hole, lime, problem solved.

I didn't read that whole OP, but the solution seems right.

GL

cliff/s

- an ex bf is stalking/monitoring OP's current gf A LOT and gf doesn't mind much atm. stalker is being told that he will be reported to police and blah blah blah.
- OP is a woman trapped in a body of a men

cliffs of cliffs?