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06-15-2009 , 09:56 PM
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?

Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
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06-15-2009 , 10:02 PM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?

Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
I'll get back to you when I date one <_<
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06-15-2009 , 10:03 PM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?

Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
dishonesty. even though i tolerated that for too long in my last relationship.
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06-15-2009 , 10:05 PM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?


Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
does not like sports
too tall
lies
when she says can i siiyp?
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06-15-2009 , 10:05 PM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?

Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
im the wrong person to ask about the whole dating thing, but i feel like touching on a couple of those points. smoking-dont care at all either way. Waiting too long to have sex- in general my dick can only be teased for so long before i start resenting the amount of time and effort put forth, if i haven't been laid after 2-3 weeks in all likelihood I will have moved on. Its 2009 theres plenty of wet vag for everyone. Taller than me-don't care at all when shes on her back.
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06-15-2009 , 10:08 PM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?

Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
A woman that has a type A, super high-maintenance personality. I think it's highly attractive and will gladly have a purely sexualy relashonship, I just can't handle a long-termer, been there done that donotwant
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06-15-2009 , 10:09 PM
oh also, visible sores
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06-15-2009 , 10:11 PM
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Originally Posted by jmitchell42
dishonesty. even though i tolerated that for too long in my last relationship.
annnnnd this.
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06-15-2009 , 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?

Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
waiting for sex is one... i am too lazy to grind out three dates


mini TR on one turn down that i did....

when i was a young guy in the military a buddy cockblocked me and took a chick that i had invited to a dorm party for my pleasure to his room for a week. i was pissed cause she was hawt and i was like dude wtf. overall it wasn't a hudge deal and we got over it... then she showed up at my room alone, drunk and ready to score. as we were just about to kiss i noticed her teeth were nasty greenish and her breath was fetid. i was already drunk and i am always sensitive to smell... i yelled "WTF" and ran to the bathroom to vomit.... she left and i never saw or heard from her again.
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06-15-2009 , 10:24 PM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?

Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
None of the above.

Dullness. Vanity. Trying to play games.
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06-15-2009 , 10:30 PM
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Originally Posted by pelicanpoker
does not like sports
too tall
lies
when she says can i siiyp?
so how tall is too tall? And where's your sense of adventure, no love for the strap-on?

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A woman that has a type A, super high-maintenance personality. I think it's highly attractive and will gladly have a purely sexualy relashonship, I just can't handle a long-termer, been there done that donotwant
I'm like that with outgoing, crazy guys. Fun to flirt with but i cannot handle long term.

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waiting for sex is one... i am too lazy to grind out three dates
wow

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mini TR on one turn down that i did....

when i was a young guy in the military a buddy cockblocked me and took a chick that i had invited to a dorm party for my pleasure to his room for a week. i was pissed cause she was hawt and i was like dude wtf. overall it wasn't a hudge deal and we got over it... then she showed up at my room alone, drunk and ready to score. as we were just about to kiss i noticed her teeth were nasty greenish and her breath was fetid. i was already drunk and i am always sensitive to smell... i yelled "WTF" and ran to the bathroom to vomit.... she left and i never saw or heard from her again.
yeah, nasty teeth and breath are bad
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06-15-2009 , 10:32 PM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?

Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
Indecisiveness paired with passive aggression:
"Hmm, a Mongolian restaurant. Never had that. Feel like giving it a try?"
"Sure."
Later...
"That was good."
"I knew I wouldn't like it."

--Late
--Intolerance of or smugness or lack of graciousness about people unlike her.
--Lack of curiosity about life, people, or the world around her.
--Thinking she knows everything she needs to know already.
--Laughing only when she knows it's socially acceptable, and refusing to laugh until she's sure it's socially acceptable.
--Wouldn't crack a book to save her life.
--No internal core or life: Does things according to no coherent standards, goals, or ideas of her own, so quickly becomes a slave to either fad or tradition without necessarily caring about either, or anything else, and is incapable of showing real courage in her convictions.
--Always talks about her feelings and how nobody pays enough attention to them, while never paying any attention to anyone's feelings herself.
--Guilt tripper
--Talks about money and material things all the time
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06-16-2009 , 04:17 AM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?

Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
Good question, but I have a few.

1) Being more than 2-3 years younger than me. I prefer girls my age or older. Milfs also welcome.

2) Tattoo's on breasts. Nothing says trash to me more than this. Tattoo's anywhere else though can be cool.

3) Smoking, auto deal breaker especially as my mom recently died of bronchitus, unless they're showign real signs of quitting then they are out

4) Dykish short hair cuts. I like my lady to look feminine thank you.

5) Small breasts - I don't think I could get hard for a girl with an A or B cup if i'm honest

6) Swearing - nothing worse than a foul mouthed bitch

7) Women who can't stop talking through sport - I'm not the kind of guy who regulary makes my girlfriend sit down and watch sport with me, infact if i'm planning no seeing her the sport is usually off. But on the rare ocassion it does go on, please don't talk to me about curtains, cushions, shoes, make up, etc etc
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06-16-2009 , 08:10 AM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?

Smoking? Waiting too long to have sex? Taller than you? Random things that automatically make you say "no way"
I don't mind smokers. It gives her that 'smoked meat' flavour when kissing....


Waiting too long is a deal-breaker, because if I can't charge up her erogenous zones to overcome that, we're not compatible. However, sometimes you get annoyed and just wait...and when you do ****, it's a grudge ****, which is pretty good.


Being a miserable cow who answers 'nothing' when you ask what's wrong is probably the one for me though. I ain't got time.
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06-16-2009 , 09:22 AM
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Originally Posted by Kristy
1. Please explain the appeal of socks as masturbatory catch-all
when fapping in bed it is much easier to just grab a sock than go find tissue

2. Showering together...Yay or Nay?
it's not as interesting as it used to be and the actual penetration part of shower sex is not great, although watching water dripping all over terts is nice

3. If all the women in the world were listening right now..what is the one thing you'd tell them to do more?
stop being so insecure and prudish
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1. What is the filthiest thing you've always wanted to try sexually..
i've pretty much done everything I wanted to try (a2m was prob the "dirtiest"). i'm pretty much completely uninhibited when it comes to sharing sexual experiences with someone i care about, but i draw the line at fecal matter, vomit and animals apart from horses obv


2. I think relationships are almost always a mix of three dynamics, which are you:

a: equal partners (99.9% of people who say this are lying)

b: Mother/son (She takes care of you, does your cooking, cleaning, keeps track of your commitments etc) "the nag"

c: Daddy/daughter (You spoil her and tolerate all sorts of unreasonable demands, you choose what the two of you are going to do on a Saturday night) "the princess"

unless it's pretty close to A I break up with them within a couple of months


3. How many of you have actually fisted a girl?
i) Does this really happen irl?
ii) Did you **** her after and if you did was her junk way too loose or is it elastic enough that you managed to get off?
I'm 6'2 and have pretty big hands so I've never managed to get past the knuckle. I don't really understand why but I do find trying fairly enjoyable
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Where sexy-time is not an option, what is the best and least obnoxious way to wake a man up? (Breakfast in bed is the front runner imo)

Breakfast is perfect. Tickling my back really, really softly works. One girl woke me up by sucking my ear once which was strangely nice. One did it by suffocating me with her tits. Surprisingly, I do not recommend that one.
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What are some deal-breakers when it comes to dating girls?
Dishonesty (even the smallest, most insignificant kind) is by farrrrrrrrrrrrrr the #1
sexual repression
lack of hedgetrimming
taking themselves too seriously
expecting to be provided for
being scared of everything and not prepared to try new fun things
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06-16-2009 , 09:32 AM
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Originally Posted by Blarg
Indecisiveness paired with passive aggression:
"Hmm, a Mongolian restaurant. Never had that. Feel like giving it a try?"
"Sure."
Later...
"That was good."
"I knew I wouldn't like it."

--Late
--Intolerance of or smugness or lack of graciousness about people unlike her.
--Lack of curiosity about life, people, or the world around her.
--Thinking she knows everything she needs to know already.
--Laughing only when she knows it's socially acceptable, and refusing to laugh until she's sure it's socially acceptable.
--Wouldn't crack a book to save her life.
--No internal core or life: Does things according to no coherent standards, goals, or ideas of her own, so quickly becomes a slave to either fad or tradition without necessarily caring about either, or anything else, and is incapable of showing real courage in her convictions.
--Always talks about her feelings and how nobody pays enough attention to them, while never paying any attention to anyone's feelings herself.
--Guilt tripper
--Talks about money and material things all the time

all very good points blarg, theres nothing i ****ing hate more than when you are like hey wanna go do ____ and then they are like sure. It tilts me cus the only reason I offer to do these fun things is for their benefit, id be happy just ****ing.
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06-16-2009 , 09:39 AM
blarg talks more sense than most
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06-16-2009 , 09:40 AM
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Originally Posted by ursine cotcher
blarg talks more than most
fyp
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06-16-2009 , 09:42 AM
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Originally Posted by ursine cotcher
blarg talks more sense than most
i want blarg to be my father figure, after 18 years of this he/she/it and 5 years on my own i think its time for a new daddy, prefferably one who isn't getting his peen removed
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06-16-2009 , 09:44 AM
Omg you are a child of MPB
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06-16-2009 , 09:44 AM
lolol
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06-16-2009 , 07:02 PM
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Originally Posted by MattVanDam
6) Swearing - nothing worse than a foul mouthed bitch

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Originally Posted by diebitter
Being a miserable cow who answers 'nothing' when you ask what's wrong is probably the one for me though. I ain't got time.
These.

Or if she posts pics all over the internet. total dealbreaker.
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06-16-2009 , 07:09 PM
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Originally Posted by emmemere
so how tall is too tall? And where's your sense of adventure, no love for the strap-on?
Of all the girls on this forum, emm is probably the only one I'd let use a strap-on on me.

Partly because I think most of the other girls don't like me very much, but also because she's Canadian, and I think would be very gentle about the whole thing.
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06-16-2009 , 07:13 PM
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Originally Posted by Low Key

Partly because I think most of the other girls don't like me very much.
Perhaps if you weren't such a douche nozzle.
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06-16-2009 , 07:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Gizmomo
Perhaps if you weren't such a douche nozzle.
She doesn't begrudge me my douch nozzle ways, why should anyone else?
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