ITT thread I will evaluate the profiles of on-line daters
11-27-2011
, 01:21 AM
11-27-2011
, 01:25 AM
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This one is going to be fun, I'd say don't tell her about this but maybe the feedback and attendant drama will be a lot of fun...
Introduction - this girl is a homebody with so-so artistic talent. She has bicurious tendencies; however, she may not be consciously aware of them at this time.
She is self-conscious about her looks. Her manner of dress is designed to draw one's attention away from her body. She will push her "personality" on suitors as a method of steering them away from her insecurities. When we look at the female forms she creates with her art, we'll see she emphasizes the parts of her body she is most insecure about. For example...
Look at how our eyes are drawn to the narrow hips and thighs in this piece
My self-summary
I stumbled upon okcupid through a friend and figured i'd try this. This is the typical "I'm only here on a lark introduction" that many people newer to internet dating use as they are still coming to terms with using the internet to meet dates. It's an emotionally defensive tactic, they are trying to portray that this is no big deal and it doesn't mean that much to them... I might be deleting this account soon or hardly be on it for a while.See what I mean. This is a very detailed profile with links to her art. She obviously cares very much about this and whom she may meet, but she is building a protective layer...plus we know that she is corresponding with MNOWAX (see above) i live at home with my parents and commute to college for a BFA in Graphic Design. I'm a pretty cool, nerdy, and laid back person. If anything, i am described as "full of life" once i open up to others. ...read ... she is shy and feels awkward at social events...note how she describes herself as nerdy, this is an attempt to make herself seem more intelligent in order to compensate for her physical attributes
A lot of my friends say i am a very awesome girl, fun to be around, beautiful, and just flat out amazing....this is a projection technique, this is what she imagines her friends would say about her... i am very understanding and young at heart. i want to go out on adventures, but i don't like to do them by myself....read - she has anxiety regarding the unknown and would prefer to stay at home rather than explore, when she states that she would like to do adventures with another person, that is her way of stating she needs an emotional crutch when she goes through changes... my options are open for now, and i'm just looking for that Mr. Right in a serious relationship. my serious relationships usually are long term....As opposed to what, a short-term serious relationship? To me, this statement reveals a lack of experience concerning relationships in general
I tend to be attracted to older men who know what they want and are serious about it. indication of bicurious tendencies, concerning men, she is not focused on the physical...not a huge one but there are more which make it a lock for me... this doesn't mean that being the same age is out of the question, but being younger than me is. I put my all into a relationship and give it everything i got to make my man happy and feel loved....interesting commentary, she is essentially advertising that she will take care of her man, a big clue that she is aware of her physical attributes and is advertising good domestics to overcome this hurdle... i also respect his space, so if he needs a guys night out then so be it....don't believe this for a second, she is extremely clingy... i'm like that too were i need a girls night out. I am looking for the ONE and looking for that special companion to spend the rest of my days with... you know... fit together like a puzzle :3 note how she used the words "ONE" and "special companion" instead of "man"
As far as meeting new friends go i'm cool with just about anybody. i do have a lot of male friends, but i get along with girls... but only some for some reason....this statement is a big clue that she harbors bicurious tendencies, a high percentage of the girls she doesn't get along are mostly likely girls to whom she is subconsciously attracted...also why would this even be mentioned on a post to meet men? The reason is this post is about meeting someone to whom she is attracted, and her feelings about women cannot help but escape... But PLEASE call me rather than text me... i love to hear my friends beautiful voices. :3 i hate conversational texting... annoys me honestly. Sorry, not much of a texter. I use it to coordinate hang outs and meetings, but never to just chit chat.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently going for a BFA in Graphic Design. i was in a BFA program for Animation at the same school before i decided it wasn't for me....most likely could not handle the intense amounts of drawing... i have been in college for four years as of right now. i am determined to graduate with a degree i can use to get a good job and support myself properly with. my head is screwed on straight, so i don't plan on having kids until after marriage... marriage is after college and a good job! i don't intend to screw up the order i have for myself.another indicator, she is removing herself from the physical consequences of sex with men, as far as our bicurious indicators go, this is the weakest.
If its not school or work i'm relaxing at home either watching tv with my cat or playing video games. I know i need a better life at the moment but i'm just going to get through school first and take life one step at a time.blatant admission of being a homebody. she needs to get through school before she can have a social life? Schools where you get to have a social life. Trust me, this girl will always have an excuse as to why she should not be going out.
I’m really good at
Art, video games, nerdy things... what do you want to know? Mostly i am good at Art. you can see my art work at dragonrose247.deviantart.com
I am very good at picking up on things, so if you are hiding something i usually pick up on it right away or when you are down. my intuition is my strongest point in my personality, but it is also my double edged sword.huge red flag here...this girl gets jealous easily. People prone to jealously usually describe themselves as being "good at picking up on things" as an excuse to justify the beliefs they harbor in their heads that lead to their intense feelings of jealousy. Also note how she describes it as a "double edged sword"? She's admitting this attribute leads to conflict.
If you want to explore my video game skills, just watch me play Mass Effect or Magic the Gathering card game. I might make you jealous in Mass Effect :P Vanguard is my style of choice! In Magic i mostly use Red and Green or a mixture for my decks. I have a really sick red dragon goblin deck!
The first things people usually notice about me
i think they notice my glasses, interesting clothes, fair skin, and dark brown hair. this is what she wants people to notice, she has physical insecurities, mostly around her hips, and wants to pull people away from that...Sometimes people think i'm crazy or too nutty right off the bat in person but i'm really just being fully open and having fun. i can be funny and a bit witty. sometimes i think i talk too much when i'm slightly nervous. Again these are all techniques to compensate for what she believes are her physical short comings.
Watch out, i can be blunt and straight to the point. ;3
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
lets see... were to begin... i listen to just about all kinds of music except most country and rap/reggae. Most recent bands i listen to at the moment are Godsmack, 30 Seconds to Mars, and Three Days Grace. i'm pretty much a rock/metal/heavy metal person. most favorite movie genre is fantasy, Lord of the Rings or Underworld any day is my pick. Shows? i'll take the fact that i don't watch TV much, but if i want to watch a show i get it on DVD. I hate watching out of order. So lately i have been watching the Vampire Diaries... cheesy i know.... watched Roswell enough times lately so i needed something new.
Most favorite book ever is Spellbent by Lucy A. Snyder. latest book i am reading is a romance called "The Unbearable Lightness of Dragons" Light Dragons novel book 2 by Katie MacAlister. i tend to read fantasy, no matter what topic it is... adventure, mystery, romance.... i read for the story line and awesome characters.
Food.... hmmm... would have to say its a tie between Sushi and Mac n Cheese.
List versions of...
TV shows: Firefly, Roswell, Vampire Diaries, Moonlight, Surface, Scrubs, House, Family Guy, South Park, Record of Lodoss War, Raising Hope, Pushing Daisies, Glee
Movies: Underworld, Lord Of The Rings, The Howling series, Bolt, Dragon Heart, The Matrix, Ice Age, Toy Story, Hellboy movies, AVATAR, Sucker Punch, REPO! the genetic opra, Zombie Land, Legend, The Last Unicorn, Flight of Dragons, Leap Year, Let Me In/Let the Right one In, Kingdom of Heaven, Immortal, Narnia series, Unbreakable, Peter jackson's King Kong, The Golden Compass, Kung Fu Panda, Merlin, Max Payne, Monsters VS Aliens, Lady in the Water, Pirates of the Caribbean, Real Steel, Tron movies, House of Flying Daggers, The Curse of the Golden Flower, The Cat from Outer Space, Black Beauty, 300, Watchmen, Interview with a vampire, Queen of the damned, Day Breakers, Jurassic Park movies, Transformers movies, X-men movies
Books: Women of the Other world by Kelley Armstrong, the dragon Sept novels by Katie MacAlister, Spellbent and Shotgun Sorceress by Lucy A. Snyder
Music: Godsmack, Three Days Grace, Korn, 3 Doors Down, Slipknot, Skillet, 30 Seconds to Mars, Enya, Taylor Swift, Katy Perry, Disturbed, Avenged Sevenfold, Nightwish, Sirenia, 12 Stones, Apocalyptica, Avril Lavigne, Black Light Burns, Bon Jovi, BoA, Breaking Benjamin, BT, Chevelle, Coheed and Cambria, Creed, Cascada, The Cranberries, Daughtry, Digitalism, Disciple, e s Posthumus, Epica, Evanescence, Fire Flight, Fear Factory, H.I.M, Kamelot, Kelly Clarkson, Kutless, Limp Bizkit, Masami Ueda, Marilyn Manson, Matchbox 20, OneRepublic, Oforia, Papa Roach, Panic at the Disco, Paramore, Pillar, Rascal Flatts, Red, Rusted Root, Sevendust, Skrillex, Skynet, Soundgarden, Staind, System of a Down, Thousand Foot Krutch, The Toxic Avenger, Train, Trapt, Utada, Yoshida Brothers, Yelle, Natasha Bedingfeild
Video Games: Ninja Gaiden Black and Ninja Gaiden 2, Devil May Cry 4, Okami, Final Fantasies X X2 XIII, Kingdom Under Fire series, Dead or Alive Series, Star Wars Knights of the Old Republic, N3 and N3 2, Samurai Warriors series, Bayonetta, Drakenguard 1 & 2, Jade Empire, Fable: The Lost Chapters (the only good Fable there is!), Sudeki
The six things I could never do without
1.) My Cat
2.) Friends
3.) Family
4.) Books
5.) Love
6.) video games... mostly Mass Effect
all not really in that order but you get the idea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
i admit that i spend way too much time thinking. i love to think and i think deeply. so i think about homework and were i am in life. i am a creative thinker so i think a lot over my art work and creative writing i have going on for myself. i tend to think about everything, and love every minute of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
lately i am in need of something to do. been going bonkers with nothing to do with anybody. so a friend out on a friday keeps me sane. :3
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't really admit private things in public, but if you must know something... get to know me.
I’m looking for
Straight guys only
Ages 21-26
Near me
Who are single
For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you should message me if you are wanting to get to know me more than just through my profile information. If you are messaging me for dating, note that i only consider serious men. if you are messaging me to just be friends, say so. :3
no profile pictures = automatic no response. makes me feel like you are not serious. :/
Comments
Here is a good example of her so-so artistic abilities...note the size of the tail, completely out of whack with the rest of the woman's frame
I'm not really here to criticize her art, so please don't nitpick me on that that, although I think she has a lot of issues with drawing hands, but it is interesting as she describes herself as a great artist. It's a camoflauge to hide what she perceives as her shortcomings, i.e. lack of physical attractiveness, shyness, etc.
Introduction - this girl is a homebody with so-so artistic talent. She has bicurious tendencies; however, she may not be consciously aware of them at this time.
She is self-conscious about her looks. Her manner of dress is designed to draw one's attention away from her body. She will push her "personality" on suitors as a method of steering them away from her insecurities. When we look at the female forms she creates with her art, we'll see she emphasizes the parts of her body she is most insecure about. For example...
Look at how our eyes are drawn to the narrow hips and thighs in this piece
My self-summary
I stumbled upon okcupid through a friend and figured i'd try this. This is the typical "I'm only here on a lark introduction" that many people newer to internet dating use as they are still coming to terms with using the internet to meet dates. It's an emotionally defensive tactic, they are trying to portray that this is no big deal and it doesn't mean that much to them... I might be deleting this account soon or hardly be on it for a while.See what I mean. This is a very detailed profile with links to her art. She obviously cares very much about this and whom she may meet, but she is building a protective layer...plus we know that she is corresponding with MNOWAX (see above) i live at home with my parents and commute to college for a BFA in Graphic Design. I'm a pretty cool, nerdy, and laid back person. If anything, i am described as "full of life" once i open up to others. ...read ... she is shy and feels awkward at social events...note how she describes herself as nerdy, this is an attempt to make herself seem more intelligent in order to compensate for her physical attributes
A lot of my friends say i am a very awesome girl, fun to be around, beautiful, and just flat out amazing....this is a projection technique, this is what she imagines her friends would say about her... i am very understanding and young at heart. i want to go out on adventures, but i don't like to do them by myself....read - she has anxiety regarding the unknown and would prefer to stay at home rather than explore, when she states that she would like to do adventures with another person, that is her way of stating she needs an emotional crutch when she goes through changes... my options are open for now, and i'm just looking for that Mr. Right in a serious relationship. my serious relationships usually are long term....As opposed to what, a short-term serious relationship? To me, this statement reveals a lack of experience concerning relationships in general
I tend to be attracted to older men who know what they want and are serious about it. indication of bicurious tendencies, concerning men, she is not focused on the physical...not a huge one but there are more which make it a lock for me... this doesn't mean that being the same age is out of the question, but being younger than me is. I put my all into a relationship and give it everything i got to make my man happy and feel loved....interesting commentary, she is essentially advertising that she will take care of her man, a big clue that she is aware of her physical attributes and is advertising good domestics to overcome this hurdle... i also respect his space, so if he needs a guys night out then so be it....don't believe this for a second, she is extremely clingy... i'm like that too were i need a girls night out. I am looking for the ONE and looking for that special companion to spend the rest of my days with... you know... fit together like a puzzle :3 note how she used the words "ONE" and "special companion" instead of "man"
As far as meeting new friends go i'm cool with just about anybody. i do have a lot of male friends, but i get along with girls... but only some for some reason....this statement is a big clue that she harbors bicurious tendencies, a high percentage of the girls she doesn't get along are mostly likely girls to whom she is subconsciously attracted...also why would this even be mentioned on a post to meet men? The reason is this post is about meeting someone to whom she is attracted, and her feelings about women cannot help but escape... But PLEASE call me rather than text me... i love to hear my friends beautiful voices. :3 i hate conversational texting... annoys me honestly. Sorry, not much of a texter. I use it to coordinate hang outs and meetings, but never to just chit chat.
What I’m doing with my life
I am currently going for a BFA in Graphic Design. i was in a BFA program for Animation at the same school before i decided it wasn't for me....most likely could not handle the intense amounts of drawing... i have been in college for four years as of right now. i am determined to graduate with a degree i can use to get a good job and support myself properly with. my head is screwed on straight, so i don't plan on having kids until after marriage... marriage is after college and a good job! i don't intend to screw up the order i have for myself.another indicator, she is removing herself from the physical consequences of sex with men, as far as our bicurious indicators go, this is the weakest.
If its not school or work i'm relaxing at home either watching tv with my cat or playing video games. I know i need a better life at the moment but i'm just going to get through school first and take life one step at a time.blatant admission of being a homebody. she needs to get through school before she can have a social life? Schools where you get to have a social life. Trust me, this girl will always have an excuse as to why she should not be going out.
I’m really good at
Art, video games, nerdy things... what do you want to know? Mostly i am good at Art. you can see my art work at dragonrose247.deviantart.com
I am very good at picking up on things, so if you are hiding something i usually pick up on it right away or when you are down. my intuition is my strongest point in my personality, but it is also my double edged sword.huge red flag here...this girl gets jealous easily. People prone to jealously usually describe themselves as being "good at picking up on things" as an excuse to justify the beliefs they harbor in their heads that lead to their intense feelings of jealousy. Also note how she describes it as a "double edged sword"? She's admitting this attribute leads to conflict.
If you want to explore my video game skills, just watch me play Mass Effect or Magic the Gathering card game. I might make you jealous in Mass Effect :P Vanguard is my style of choice! In Magic i mostly use Red and Green or a mixture for my decks. I have a really sick red dragon goblin deck!
The first things people usually notice about me
i think they notice my glasses, interesting clothes, fair skin, and dark brown hair. this is what she wants people to notice, she has physical insecurities, mostly around her hips, and wants to pull people away from that...Sometimes people think i'm crazy or too nutty right off the bat in person but i'm really just being fully open and having fun. i can be funny and a bit witty. sometimes i think i talk too much when i'm slightly nervous. Again these are all techniques to compensate for what she believes are her physical short comings.
Watch out, i can be blunt and straight to the point. ;3
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
lets see... were to begin... i listen to just about all kinds of music except most country and rap/reggae. Most recent bands i listen to at the moment are Godsmack, 30 Seconds to Mars, and Three Days Grace. i'm pretty much a rock/metal/heavy metal person. most favorite movie genre is fantasy, Lord of the Rings or Underworld any day is my pick. Shows? i'll take the fact that i don't watch TV much, but if i want to watch a show i get it on DVD. I hate watching out of order. So lately i have been watching the Vampire Diaries... cheesy i know.... watched Roswell enough times lately so i needed something new.
Most favorite book ever is Spellbent by Lucy A. Snyder. latest book i am reading is a romance called "The Unbearable Lightness of Dragons" Light Dragons novel book 2 by Katie MacAlister. i tend to read fantasy, no matter what topic it is... adventure, mystery, romance.... i read for the story line and awesome characters.
Food.... hmmm... would have to say its a tie between Sushi and Mac n Cheese.
List versions of...
TV shows: Firefly, Roswell, Vampire Diaries, Moonlight, Surface, Scrubs, House, Family Guy, South Park, Record of Lodoss War, Raising Hope, Pushing Daisies, Glee
Movies: Underworld, Lord Of The Rings, The Howling series, Bolt, Dragon Heart, The Matrix, Ice Age, Toy Story, Hellboy movies, AVATAR, Sucker Punch, REPO! the genetic opra, Zombie Land, Legend, The Last Unicorn, Flight of Dragons, Leap Year, Let Me In/Let the Right one In, Kingdom of Heaven, Immortal, Narnia series, Unbreakable, Peter jackson's King Kong, The Golden Compass, Kung Fu Panda, Merlin, Max Payne, Monsters VS Aliens, Lady in the Water, Pirates of the Caribbean, Real Steel, Tron movies, House of Flying Daggers, The Curse of the Golden Flower, The Cat from Outer Space, Black Beauty, 300, Watchmen, Interview with a vampire, Queen of the damned, Day Breakers, Jurassic Park movies, Transformers movies, X-men movies
Books: Women of the Other world by Kelley Armstrong, the dragon Sept novels by Katie MacAlister, Spellbent and Shotgun Sorceress by Lucy A. Snyder
Music: Godsmack, Three Days Grace, Korn, 3 Doors Down, Slipknot, Skillet, 30 Seconds to Mars, Enya, Taylor Swift, Katy Perry, Disturbed, Avenged Sevenfold, Nightwish, Sirenia, 12 Stones, Apocalyptica, Avril Lavigne, Black Light Burns, Bon Jovi, BoA, Breaking Benjamin, BT, Chevelle, Coheed and Cambria, Creed, Cascada, The Cranberries, Daughtry, Digitalism, Disciple, e s Posthumus, Epica, Evanescence, Fire Flight, Fear Factory, H.I.M, Kamelot, Kelly Clarkson, Kutless, Limp Bizkit, Masami Ueda, Marilyn Manson, Matchbox 20, OneRepublic, Oforia, Papa Roach, Panic at the Disco, Paramore, Pillar, Rascal Flatts, Red, Rusted Root, Sevendust, Skrillex, Skynet, Soundgarden, Staind, System of a Down, Thousand Foot Krutch, The Toxic Avenger, Train, Trapt, Utada, Yoshida Brothers, Yelle, Natasha Bedingfeild
Video Games: Ninja Gaiden Black and Ninja Gaiden 2, Devil May Cry 4, Okami, Final Fantasies X X2 XIII, Kingdom Under Fire series, Dead or Alive Series, Star Wars Knights of the Old Republic, N3 and N3 2, Samurai Warriors series, Bayonetta, Drakenguard 1 & 2, Jade Empire, Fable: The Lost Chapters (the only good Fable there is!), Sudeki
The six things I could never do without
1.) My Cat
2.) Friends
3.) Family
4.) Books
5.) Love
6.) video games... mostly Mass Effect
all not really in that order but you get the idea.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
i admit that i spend way too much time thinking. i love to think and i think deeply. so i think about homework and were i am in life. i am a creative thinker so i think a lot over my art work and creative writing i have going on for myself. i tend to think about everything, and love every minute of it.
On a typical Friday night I am
lately i am in need of something to do. been going bonkers with nothing to do with anybody. so a friend out on a friday keeps me sane. :3
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't really admit private things in public, but if you must know something... get to know me.
I’m looking for
Straight guys only
Ages 21-26
Near me
Who are single
For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you should message me if you are wanting to get to know me more than just through my profile information. If you are messaging me for dating, note that i only consider serious men. if you are messaging me to just be friends, say so. :3
no profile pictures = automatic no response. makes me feel like you are not serious. :/
Comments
Here is a good example of her so-so artistic abilities...note the size of the tail, completely out of whack with the rest of the woman's frame
I'm not really here to criticize her art, so please don't nitpick me on that that, although I think she has a lot of issues with drawing hands, but it is interesting as she describes herself as a great artist. It's a camoflauge to hide what she perceives as her shortcomings, i.e. lack of physical attractiveness, shyness, etc.
Last edited by MNOWAX; 11-27-2011 at 01:27 AM.
Reason: also, i blocked her.
11-27-2011
, 02:40 AM
Currently, I have a pretty busy life. School and clinic shifts definitely tend to do that to you. I love traveling... whether it be visiting a museum or just lounging in an unknown area. One of my favorite things to do is try new cuisine...going out to different restaurants is always a lot of fun. Don't get me wrong... a nice evening on the couch is an option too!
I'm really big on sports... I love watching mostly Football and NCAA Basketball. I would sit and watch anything. My friend and I used to stay up for the Australian Open. I go crazy for March Madness games...I do have some favorite teams but I can typically root for anyone. If I had to pick, I would say NY JETS, and Kansas Jayhawks and Syracuse Orangemen.
I've ran the Chicago Marathon twice. My biggest accomplishment to date. I'm looking forward to running the NYC Marathon next year pending my schedule allows me to.
I think I'm a really easy-going kind of girl. I like to relax, and try not to stress about things too much. I don't particularly like going to clubs. I like going to bars and lounges.
This is just some random stuff about me:
favorite pizza topping: pineapple and red pepper flakes. I prefer NY thin crust pizza...
one day, i hope to have an english bulldog or maybe a pug... (ruby, plunger, gatsby)
i'm a day-dreamer... I love just gazing up at the sky.priorities driven.motivated. sarcastic. fun-loving personality. harder worker. easily distracted...random, which is always entertaining..
I walk up escalators, and stairs.
moving slow people make me frustrated.
cell phones don't last long... enough.
I don't do well with roller-coasters, but I've gone to a bunch amusements parks... go figure!
i do have a ny accent... kinda of funny to try to put all the words together that others find that I say weird... makes for an interesting conversion.
orville, my pet, lives in the bathroom. he is a moss-ball.
My friend mentioned to me, that it appears that I am afraid of revolving doors.
What I’m doing with my life
Hopes of being on Amazing Race one day!
Graduated undergraduate, and I'm still in grad school. two more years left.
occupy my time either with studying or football. Most of the time, I'm watching football while pretending to study.probably do better in school on 'bye' weeks.
...going to the gym, running (when the weather is nice outside)...
next year, i hope to complete my 3rd marathon in NYC, and do a triathlon...
I’m really good at
remembering names and faces
being random.
The first things people usually notice about me
sense of humor.
sometimes when I work-out, my face turns bright red. I was called strawberry... back in the day and yesterday.
when im mad i bite my lip.
when i'm stressed.. my ponytail gravitates to a side ponytail.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A Beautiful Mind- by far my favorite movie of all time.
im kinda into all types of music. i really like a capella genre.
Margaritas.
Burgers.
mexican.
Frozen Yogurt.
Grilled.Cheese.
Sangria.
Starbucks.
Salmon.
Riesling.
Red.Bull.SF.
blk&white.cookies!
pumpkin smoothies
The six things I could never do without
Peyton Manning and All-state Mayhem commercials. (Hilarious)
sports. march madness.
Caffeine
Nike+sneakers
iPhone.
ability to laugh.
the fam.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
School.
sports.
Friends/Family... talking to my parents.
Traveling.
Flying a kite. (probably think about this more than anything)
sky-diving.
Camping.
where did time go?
getting a dog.
things to do list.
like every Super Bowl MVP... going to disney!
On a typical Friday night I am
cheating on my netflix account with red box.
i try to make it to the gym before it closes, then just hanging out with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i might be afraid of the dark.
i still don't know my left and right apart.
I’m looking for
Straight guys only
Ages 25-31
Near me
Who are single
For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
so don't be shy. message me... see what comes of it...
11-27-2011
, 03:12 AM
11-27-2011
, 05:09 AM
Sweet custom wolf shirt bra.
11-27-2011
, 05:25 AM
11-27-2011
, 05:30 AM
11-27-2011
, 05:33 AM
11-27-2011
, 05:36 AM
11-27-2011
, 05:39 AM
11-28-2011
, 12:53 PM
Quote:
She may not realize it, but what she really wants is a cheering section at home as opposed to a person with their own goals. But she may also admit this freely as she has a dominant personality, so I guess this depends on her level of self-awareness.
Photo comments - we can be fairly certain the second picture is the most recent. She dyes her hair obviously, and does it well - note the eyebrow colors match. Coincidentally, the eyebrows are also well groomed. These pictures bring two points to my mind.
1. Her appearance, teeth condition, hairstyle, etc. match her representations of higher earnings.
2. Given her emphasis on maintaining "youth," the fact she has selected a picture with red eye may indicate that she looks much older in many of her pictures.
(Also, if that is her house in the top picture, we have a another big window into her personality because the corners are immaculate.)
My self-summary
Looking to find a long term committed relationship where we can share great food/wine, travel, each others interests, laughs and making memories ~ be each other's best friend and supporter ~ that safe place to land....these are needs her former partner did not fulfill...
I have incredible young adult children that I am so proud of, wonderful friends and family, and a career that pays me for what does not seem like work....red flag...persons indicating that their jobs/careers do not seem like work are generally obsessed with their jobs/careers...this is also an indication of self-denial... I get great satisfaction in being a mother, making a difference be it volunteering or serving on a non-profit board. I love sharing a great cup of coffee/tea, or a glass of red wine with friends....she put coffee first...she drinks coffee to keep moving...she most likely drinks coffee without sugar or has an amount she allows herself that she sticks to rigidly...also note she put the most social beverage last... Listening to others, and looking for the good in all situations.
Staying active is important to me, I think it keeps us young and healthy. All things of course in moderation....another indication of self-denial... I enjoy traveling ~ day trips, weekends get away's or an extended period away. It could be playing in the sun or visiting a long awaited destination, just enjoying time away to regroup!!!!...note that she uses a vacation to "regroup"...indicators of self-denial and work obsession, she justifies vacations by having increased efficacy back at the workplace... Really love finding those quaint little romantic hideaways, the cafe's with a view to relax and take this wonderful world all in.. I enjoy finding a venue where we can dance and act like teens on occasion as well.Each time she describes a recreational activity, she combines it with a goal, a cafe should have a good view, etc. ...more indications that she has to be on the go doing something...also an indicator of her controlling nature...
I'm comfortable at a black tie event or in jeans, I love someone that smells nice, Safco field on a warm day, or watching other sporting events (highschool, college or professional). I'm looking for someone laid back and calm, another lover of Sunday mornings, that first cup of coffee, sharing the paper over pillow talk, as we plan our day together....each of the traits she has identified are on the passive side of the spectrum...this is a big reason, but not the only reason I said she wants more of a "supporter" than a partner with individual desires and goals... I would love to tell each other about our preferences in life, books, music, and movies that we enjoyed. What are some of your favorite things? What do you dream about? Who inspires you? Where do you want to be in 5 years?...continual sense of work...and on the go...five years is 56...number one location for that age and later should be "above ground"...that's a joke, but clearly she has no sense of slowing down... I'm in search of someone who knows himself (by this stage of the game we should have a good idea of who we are) and has strong family values. Educated, (be it formally or experience) kind, simple, humble, generous, thoughtful and compassionate....again note that her desired traits are geared toward the supportive... A man whom appreciates classic beauty,( I am a girlie girl) femininity and fine wine, oh and dark chocolate....yum....note she likes the chocolate that's not sweet...indication of self-denial...although a smaller one as dark chocolate is also becoming a bit of a style thing... You laugh easily....read...you laugh at my jokes... You have your emotional and financial house in order....she absolutely would be okay with a man earning less than her, in fact she would probably prefer it...bad credit on the other hand...
What I’m doing with my life
At this stage of the game I would think we all have a clear understanding of what is important. Family, career, spending quality time with friends/family, keeping fit, eating healthy, finding the balance continues to be at the top of my list.
I’m really good at
Wow ~ this is awkward!!!! Shopping, eating, networking, my job, being a mom, friend, person!...high probability that her first thought was "telling people what to do" ...when she didn't want to write that, she felt "awkward...
The first things people usually notice about me
My personality!...note her emphasis...another indicator of her controlling nature...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Gone with the Wind, Mad Men, Lady Antebellum (seeing them in March) Cold Play (saw in concert) Michel Buble (Saw in Concert) Sting (concert), food, love it all but healthy is my fav.when you hear people say healthy is their favorite...you should always be suspicious as biologically, unhealthy foods taste better...in this case...it is an indication of her general traits of self-denial and indulgence avoidance...
The six things I could never do without
My kids, friends/family, iphone (one smart-phone down) , exercise.
On a typical Friday night I am
I don't have typical Friday nights.
I’m looking for
Guys who like girls
Ages 47-88
Near me
Who are single
For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You are single, don't smoke, do drugs, emotionally and financially stable, and are human.
Other comments
1. She probably would be very into light S&M with the potential to up the ante as time progresses. Don't think she'll come up with this idea on her own.
2. she described herself as "girlie girl", but she is out of touch with her femininity, if she was ever strongly feminine at all. When she dresses up, it's more about being told that she looks beautiful than feeling like a woman.
3. alternative to separating from husband would be her children's father died relatively young and she was thrust into the role of provider, where she excelled.
11-28-2011
, 07:49 PM
Introduction - overall she seems pretty normal, well adjusted to me. I'm not getting any serious red flags, but she managed to state a lot of little things that don't help us get to the bigger picture. My one overall sense is that she would like to move into a long-term relationship in the near future. She probably is a bit of a chatterbox.
One thing I notice in the pics is she has invisible braces. So she is either embarrassed about her teeth in the past, or she put recent pics up in a rare display on on-line dating honesty.
Physically, she has smaller breasts but this does not bother her. (If her teeth were bad until recently, this would not be surprising.)
Currently, I have a pretty busy life. School and clinic shifts definitely tend to do that to you. I love traveling... whether it be visiting a museum or just lounging in an unknown area. One of my favorite things to do is try new cuisine...going out to different restaurants is always a lot of fun. Don't get me wrong... a nice evening on the couch is an option too!
I'm really big on sports... I love watching mostly Football and NCAA Basketball. I would sit and watch anything. My friend and I used to stay up for the Australian Open. I go crazy for March Madness games...I do have some favorite teams but I can typically root for anyone. If I had to pick, I would say NY JETS, and Kansas Jayhawks and Syracuse Orangemen....unfortunately, she demonstrates poor taste in football teams, but refreshingly she is open to mending her ways...
I've ran the Chicago Marathon twice. My biggest accomplishment to date. I'm looking forward to running the NYC Marathon next year pending my schedule allows me to.
I think I'm a really easy-going kind of girl. I like to relax, and try not to stress about things too much. I don't particularly like going to clubs. I like going to bars and lounges....she probably likes drinking...
This is just some random stuff about me:
favorite pizza topping: pineapple and red pepper flakes. I prefer NY thin crust pizza...
one day, i hope to have an english bulldog or maybe a pug... (ruby, plunger, gatsby)
i'm a day-dreamer... I love just gazing up at the sky.priorities driven.motivated. sarcastic. fun-loving personality. harder worker. easily distracted...random, which is always entertaining..
I walk up escalators, and stairs.
moving slow people make me frustrated.
cell phones don't last long... enough.
I don't do well with roller-coasters, but I've gone to a bunch amusements parks... go figure!
i do have a ny accent... kinda of funny to try to put all the words together that others find that I say weird... makes for an interesting conversion.
orville, my pet, lives in the bathroom. he is a moss-ball.
My friend mentioned to me, that it appears that I am afraid of revolving doors.
What I’m doing with my life
Hopes of being on Amazing Race one day!
Graduated undergraduate, and I'm still in grad school. two more years left.
occupy my time either with studying or football. Most of the time, I'm watching football while pretending to study.probably do better in school on 'bye' weeks.
...going to the gym, running (when the weather is nice outside)...
next year, i hope to complete my 3rd marathon in NYC, and do a triathlon...
I’m really good at
remembering names and faces
being random.
The first things people usually notice about me
sense of humor.
sometimes when I work-out, my face turns bright red. I was called strawberry... back in the day and yesterday.
when im mad i bite my lip.
when i'm stressed.. my ponytail gravitates to a side ponytail.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
A Beautiful Mind- by far my favorite movie of all time.
im kinda into all types of music. i really like a capella genre.
Margaritas.
Burgers.
mexican.
Frozen Yogurt.
Grilled.Cheese.
Sangria.
Starbucks.
Salmon.
Riesling.
Red.Bull.SF.
blk&white.cookies!
pumpkin smoothies
The six things I could never do without
Peyton Manning and All-state Mayhem commercials. (Hilarious)
sports. march madness.
Caffeine
Nike+sneakers
iPhone.
ability to laugh.
the fam.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
School.
sports.
Friends/Family... talking to my parents.
Traveling.
Flying a kite. (probably think about this more than anything)
sky-diving.
Camping.
where did time go?
getting a dog.
things to do list.
like every Super Bowl MVP... going to disney!
On a typical Friday night I am
cheating on my netflix account with red box.
i try to make it to the gym before it closes, then just hanging out with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
i might be afraid of the dark....translates to I want a man cuddle with at night...
i still don't know my left and right apart....she is fairly confident with her intelligence, people who feel insecure about their intelligence typically do not draw attention to things like this for obvious reasons...
I’m looking for
Straight guys only
Ages 25-31
Near me
Who are single
For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
so don't be shy. message me... see what comes of it...
That is the best I can do with her, at least for now other than obvious things like she's physically attracted to jocks and has a sense of humor.
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