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Was i a douche for doing this? Was i a douche for doing this?

06-24-2010 , 05:25 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
Its rude if someone only talks to you when they need something, dont you think?.
Ofcourse, if SHE is the one always trying to talk to you, but she isn't. She doesn't like you, she doesn't want to talk to you, but you keep dangling this job in her face, so ofcourse she is going to. Atleast she is not being fake with you.
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06-24-2010 , 05:34 PM
Yes, before reading.
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06-24-2010 , 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by Da33le
Ahh you be a nit, he needs to text her asking why she is such a bitch and a user, followed instantly by another message saying "please respond".
Not rly, I just hope I wouldn't care so much that I'd initiate a conversation about it, out of the blue no less. but nbd yo

And OP: you are someone she is not necessarily friendly with, and you are providing a service she really needs.

Imagine you badly need $1000 for something, and a "company" happens to call you up. "Finally," you think, "salvation."

Imagine they make you jump through hoops, they want you to do arbitrary menial tasks, and you have a feeling they want to **** you in the butt. This feeling is not mutual.

They vacillate, and you think "wtf, all I want is this money, why are they playing games with me."

That's sort of the situation she's in right now imo. She's not using you; she's desperate for a job, is wondering why you are playing games, and doesn't want you to **** her in the butt.
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06-24-2010 , 05:40 PM
Oh thank god, I couldn't be bothered coming up with an example


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Originally Posted by ToTheInternet
Not rly, I just hope I wouldn't care so much that I'd initiate a conversation about it, out of the blue no less. but nbd yo
Um, I have to be honest, I don't know what you are talking about
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06-24-2010 , 05:43 PM
you have no game
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06-24-2010 , 05:46 PM
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Originally Posted by luckproof
you have no game
lol this may actually be true for now
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06-24-2010 , 05:50 PM
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Originally Posted by Da33le
Um, I have to be honest, I don't know what you are talking about
oh. i'm saying i wouldn't want to care so much that i'd feel compelled to start a conversation about it. i'd just let it slide imo.
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06-24-2010 , 05:53 PM
your a douche for not posting pics
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06-24-2010 , 05:54 PM
Yeah, but if he was that kind of guy, I doubt he would have ever even mentioned trying to get her a job. Afterall he only did that to try and get her attension.
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06-24-2010 , 05:54 PM
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Originally Posted by 11beatsperminute
you're stupid
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Originally Posted by Da33le
You are a giant tool.
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Originally Posted by Da33le
She was not using you idiot.
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Originally Posted by Pawntificator
So has she deleted you on facebook yet? Post pics ffs
Pretty much this.

The most ridiculous thing in your argumentation is: You were trying to use her. But you failed.
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06-24-2010 , 06:10 PM
Women use guys all the time. Why do think women like guys with money or a nice car?

The funny thing is you had something she needed badly but wouldnt even string you on even a little to get. Do you relize what that means?

It means you are a giant creep and you freak her out.
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06-24-2010 , 06:12 PM
The least she could do is blow you.

You probably would of got her that job and she would of stopped talking to you anyways, or maybe even started talking **** about you to your coworkers.
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06-24-2010 , 06:13 PM
You got her number under the guise of getting her a job. She ignored personal calls which indicated no personal interest, but responded when job offer came. You said forgetaboutit. In that context you were indeed a douche.

PS: pics mang...
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06-24-2010 , 06:16 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael

**Cliffs**
Girl asks Op if he could get her a job
OP thinks he might be able to barter getting the girl a job in exchange for secks
OP started harassing girl constantly messaging and calling her about things not related to the job
Girl now hates OP.
fyp
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06-24-2010 , 06:35 PM
I didn't ready any of the OP but I always abide by the theory "if you have to ask...."
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06-24-2010 , 06:48 PM
somewhere in there is something that resembles what i would be saying
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06-24-2010 , 06:53 PM
*grunch*-buttsecks? pic

[ ] pics
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06-24-2010 , 07:04 PM
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Originally Posted by Pawntificator
Let me see...every clothing store I've ever been in...a memory is coming to me. Oh yes, all the guys that work at clothing stores are the ghey
Yes, but don't you wear leather and latex only?
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06-24-2010 , 07:06 PM
OP, this is pretty hilariously lame of you.
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06-24-2010 , 07:26 PM
You asked for her number so that you could call her when you found her a job. You called her several times trying to hook up with her.

When you offer to do something nice for someone in hopes that they'll sleep with you, your chances are greatly improved if you try to sleep with them after you've done what you promised and not before. You're doing it backwards.
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06-24-2010 , 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by wsopmichael
So there was this girl i knew from high school, We didnt really talk much in high school but i recently added her on facebook.
not a douche move

you are a douche for saying you are "friends" with her on fbook and yet couldnt even post a pic
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06-24-2010 , 07:36 PM
I don't know if you're a douche, but you are most definitely a ******ed *******.
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06-24-2010 , 07:36 PM
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Originally Posted by ToTheInternet
Imagine you badly need $1000 for something, and a "company" happens to call you up. "Finally," you think, "salvation."

Imagine they make you jump through hoops, they want you to do arbitrary menial tasks, and you have a feeling they want to **** you in the butt. This feeling is not mutual.
Sounds like every job I've ever had.
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Originally Posted by Tartufo
Yes, but don't you wear leather and latex only?
Yes, but only because I get a 15% employee discount on all merchandise.
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06-24-2010 , 07:44 PM
after cliffs im gonna go ahead and say youre a douche

will now read story and reevaluate
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06-24-2010 , 07:45 PM
before reading you were a full blown douche

after reading youre just a mild douche (which is fine) and no youre never hooking up with her.
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