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07-14-2009 , 02:47 PM
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Originally Posted by riverfish1
wait - so you banged him

And I'm pretty sure all of POG is saying he is a douche who was trying to get his dick wet. What do you think we're saying?
Well, I think he was seriously wanting a relationship with OR, and just being super clueless about his chances. So yeah, he wanted some action, ldo, but its not like this was its-3AM-at-the-local-bar type trying to get his dick wet.
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07-14-2009 , 02:48 PM
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Originally Posted by OrangeRake
HAHAHA....

coridal, as in act like I am soooo above him, and make out with my bf infront of him every chance i get?

Or you mean actually be nice? :P
define it as you will
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07-14-2009 , 02:48 PM
I told him a million times that i was too good for him, and that he was ugly and unlovable....apparently that is "flirting"?????
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07-14-2009 , 02:50 PM
No that's just rude.
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07-14-2009 , 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted by OrangeRake
I told him a million times that i was too good for him, and that he was ugly and unlovable....apparently that is "flirting"?????
not really flirting so much as his idea that if you were emotionally close enough to him you would one day overlook these shortcomings
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07-14-2009 , 02:50 PM
I'm so glad I'm not that guy anymore.

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A couple of regular people have died from SF without pre-existing conditions in the uk now. MY brother-in-law had it a few weeks ago. I dunno how he is. I am vaguely worried about the impact of swine flu and winter, about the time my wife will be having our baby.
The hospital we're having the baby at won't let kids under 10 in the maternity ward because of SF. I don't know what that means
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07-14-2009 , 02:50 PM
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Originally Posted by reno expat
not really flirting so much as his idea that if you were emotionally close enough to him you would one day overlook these shortcomings
LOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOLOL
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07-14-2009 , 02:51 PM
He just sounds like he had fallen hopelessly for you.

He didn't take hints because he didn't want to have to face that you actually weren't attracted to him. I don't see that he did anything wrong, other then invest himself too much into trying to win you over when there wasn't any hope of it.
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07-14-2009 , 02:52 PM
So what you're saying is, this guy's a bottom?

Last edited by Zurvan; 07-14-2009 at 02:52 PM. Reason: or is that sub? whatever, you know what I mean
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07-14-2009 , 02:52 PM
I'm also a hopeless romantic so my opinion is slightly biased.
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07-14-2009 , 02:53 PM
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Originally Posted by OrangeRake
I told him a million times that i was too good for him, and that he was ugly and unlovable....apparently that is "flirting"?????
Everybody's a winner!

Good times.
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07-14-2009 , 02:55 PM
lol
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07-14-2009 , 02:56 PM
i was saying he was in denial and you were enjoying having an acolyte. Sounds like it was pretty crap from both sides tbh
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07-14-2009 , 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted by ZomgHax
He just sounds like he had fallen hopelessly for you.

He didn't take hints because he didn't want to have to face that you actually weren't attracted to him. I don't see that he did anything wrong, other then invest himself too much into trying to win you over when there wasn't any hope of it.
If OR had been single at the time, then I would agree with you here. But knowing your "true love" is involved with someone else, and pusuing her anyway, is scummy. At best, it puts OR in an unnecessisarily uncomfortable place.

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I'm so glad I'm not that guy anymore.
Yeah, this.

And depending on how it came out, OR, you telling him those things could definitely be construed as flirting by someone who wants it to be.
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07-14-2009 , 02:57 PM
Man, I need a new man slave.
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07-14-2009 , 02:58 PM
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Originally Posted by OrangeRake
Man, I need a new man slave.
ok, but you don't get to be all emo when the next one realizes its not such a good deal for him
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07-14-2009 , 02:59 PM
Well those were the things I always got mad at him for.

I said that he knows I am with someone, and he knows my boyfriend.

his way of getting around that was saying that res was annoying and he hated him, and I 'deserved' better......imo it was just a way to rationalize it to himself.....
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07-14-2009 , 02:59 PM
sorry to say it but it needs to be said

OR is now continuing this discussion is for the same reason she continued her "relationship" with the poor douche - attention.
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07-14-2009 , 02:59 PM
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Originally Posted by OrangeRake
Man, I need a new man slave.
you're doing it wrong if your bf isn't your slave...or maybe he's doing it right.
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07-14-2009 , 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted by riverfish1
sorry to say it but it needs to be said

OR is now continuing this discussion is for the same reason she continued her "relationship" with the poor douche - attention.
she's also sounding more and more like an ******* as it continues
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07-14-2009 , 03:00 PM
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Originally Posted by reno expat
ok, but you don't get to be all emo when the next one realizes its not such a good deal for him
I guess the problem is that my whole world is connected. Everyone is friends, so when someone screws u over, they never leave.
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07-14-2009 , 03:01 PM
I'm just joking around with you guys.

Geeze.
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07-14-2009 , 03:02 PM
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Originally Posted by OrangeRake
Well those were the things I always got mad at him for.

I said that he knows I am with someone, and he knows my boyfriend.

his way of getting around that was saying that res was annoying and he hated him, and I 'deserved' better......imo it was just a way to rationalize it to himself.....
Question: What about this guy made you want to be friends with him in the first place? Someone continually running down my significant other is not someone I want to spend any time around.
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07-14-2009 , 03:03 PM
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Originally Posted by AriesRam
Question: What about this guy made you want to be friends with him in the first place? Someone continually running down my significant other is not someone I want to spend any time around.
dumb questions itt
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07-14-2009 , 03:05 PM
It started because I was living with his best friend.

So he'd come over all the time.

Me and res broke up in October, at which time he became interested. I went to his work christmas party since he didn't have a date. I got back with res, but me and him stayed friends. We'd talk about stuff....like relationships, res, his attempts at girls, past loves, everything.....

We started hanging out when i moved back to my parents house in the spring, since he lived nearby and i don't know anyone else in the area.....that is when he told me about his interest. before that i had no idea.....
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