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Originally Posted by TiltedDonkey
I feel like you demand that I do a lot of work, and if I decline you just assume that means you are right.
However, your post was:
The 2+2 Forums are discussion forums. In particular, the forums we are discussing are political discussion forums. The "service" that the forum provides is political discussion.
"Moderate all posts that offend me" is not a reasonable demand, and refusal to meet that demand is not in any way equivalent to saying "transgenders are not welcome here." Indeed that assertion is ridiculous given that
a) You are openly transgender
b) You are posting here
c) Even the worst anti-trans offenders (that I know of, mainly wil and JiggyMac) certainly never claimed you shouldn't be welcomed here because you are trans.
The issue isn't the same because bathrooms are commonly sex-segregated, and no one claims that is a violation of civil rights. If we were talking about not letting trans people into a restaurant, not hiring them, etc, I would agree they are equivalent. I don't believe this is equivalent.
Yeah, now you're arguing my side. Which is that these views are mainstream. The purpose of a politics forum is not transgender activism, it's political discussion. Mainstream political views should be allowed.
To be clear, if it were 1950 and we had Jim Crow laws, I would also say posts that said "we should not desegregate schools" and "whites should have their own water fountain" should be allowed in a politics discussion forum.
Not being offended on the internet is not a civil right.
Again arguing my side.
No. I was given the opportunity of provide examples of "acceptable" (i.e. stuff I wouldn't ban for) bigotry.
My original thoughts that led to this discussion:
Yes.
twoplustwo is a business that offers the service of an internet forum, and also poker books to customers. Their service is not political discussion, that's only part of it.
I have not stated or asked to "moderate all posts that offend me."
Regarding the issue of welcoming or unwelcoming environment, consider a dance hall or a place where people gather for social gatherings. If a portion of the people in the dance hall openly express transphobic bigotry, and a trans person overheard it and raised issue with the owner, and nothing was done about it, they would feel unwelcomed in the dance hall, not just by the patrons, but also by the owners, because they did not care enough to make efforts to create a welcoming environment. This is in effect a policy stating "transgenders are not welcome here" because of inaction taken to create a welcoming environment. This is tantamount to offering no service to the unwelcome transgenders, and this is a violation of their civil rights.
I'm not arguing your side regarding mainstream or fringe position. I've demonstrated that the idea of legally prohibiting trans men and women from using the restroom is a minority, fringe political position. Most people are accepting, and accommodating. Again, 7 trans men and women just won elections, and a transgender woman unseated the author of an anti trans bathroom bill. Accepting and accomodating trans men and women is mainstream political thought. Demonizing, scape goating, and stigmatizing them is not.
You think "I wouldn't be comfortable with my children using the same restroom as black people" is not ok, but you think "I wouldn't be comfortable with my children using the same restroom as trans people" is ok.
This is an issue of civil rights, and this says a lot about you, and I'm pretty much done with you.
It's not ok to disallow business service to black people
It's not ok to disallow restroom use to black people
It's not ok to disallow military service to black people
It's not ok to disallow sports participation to black people
All of the above is exactly the same for trans people, because this is about