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04-10-2012 , 06:00 PM
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Originally Posted by Disinterested
RJ is one of the worst mods easily. And that is saying alot.

I would hope that 2+2 would consider how to police the site after all the resentment the DN situation revealed.
I may be one of the worst mods, but I had nothing to do with the DN situation.

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Originally Posted by ganstaman
Not permabanning the really annoying signature guy (tompakee or whatever) was a really bad move and a big strike against her.
I see, so I'm a Nazi when I "censor free speech" when I delete some stuff, but when I don't censor this guys signature I'm also wrong.

Can't win for losing, ldo.
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04-10-2012 , 06:12 PM
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Originally Posted by ractar
Well ****! No wonder he got upset. When he can't reply to a PM from a mod, it really makes it hard to clarify things. While this isn't RJ's fault, it's also not the user's fault.
A noob without PMs can receive PMs from mods and reply to them.
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04-10-2012 , 06:14 PM
No, I just want you to delete the stuff I want deleted and not the other stuff.

And just to make sure we're clear, my post could not possibly have been a reasonable complaint against you.
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04-10-2012 , 06:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Disinterested
RJ is one of the worst mods easily. And that is saying alot.

I would hope that 2+2 would consider how to police the site after all the resentment the DN situation revealed.
I'd listen to this guy, he's received infractions from a really broad spectrum of mods, so he knows his way around moderation.

Although not enough to realize that it was the people who run the site who made every call during the DN thing.
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04-10-2012 , 07:07 PM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
No, I just want you to delete the stuff I want deleted and not the other stuff.

And just to make sure we're clear, my post could not possibly have been a reasonable complaint against you.
That's okay, unreasonable complaints work too.
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04-10-2012 , 07:21 PM
At least SGT RJ doesnt get all butthurt when you haters be hatin iykwim.

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04-10-2012 , 09:25 PM
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04-11-2012 , 03:13 AM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
Not permabanning the really annoying signature guy (tompakee or whatever) was a really bad move and a big strike against her.
Please explain why i should have been permabanned? Because i upset you and invaded your little world with my "annoying" signature?

SGT Did send me a PM and nicely asked me if i could refrain from using my sig in certain forums (this one not included fyi) or if i could at least shorten it a little. It seemed some whinny bitches were sending her PM's crying about my signature and for the sake of peace and quiet i have agreed to shorten it.

I can't see how an extra 8 words at the end of my posts bother people but as i said out of respect for SGT's respectful request i decided i would. I am sorry if my annoying signature has invaded your little online world but maybe you just need to close down your computer for an hour a day and get outside, smell some flowers, feed some ducks or what ever.

Feel free to get on your high horse and flame back at me because i really couldn't care less what some random stranger on an internet forum thinks or says about me


Is mise Tompakee
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04-11-2012 , 09:27 AM
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Originally Posted by Dids
I'd listen to this guy, he's received infractions from a really broad spectrum of mods, so he knows his way around moderation.

Although not enough to realize that it was the people who run the site who made every call during the DN thing.
I understand ur reaction. It is normal to be protective of ur friends. But ASIDE from thinking about friendship, do you think that obviously present , powerful, and patronising mods are the best way to make users of 2+2 feel part of a online community.

As for my infractions ? Well yes some were instances of trolling. My most severe one was using the english word "gay" which means bad, and an american mod thought i was insulting homosexuals. He (noah) wouldn't even respond to me, and left me feeling really kinda bad. I am in no way homophobic and am completely "liberal".

The way mods talk to posters and act is alienating and unpleasant. As shown by your own reaction.

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04-11-2012 , 09:57 AM
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Originally Posted by Disinterested
As for my infractions ? Well yes some were instances of trolling. My most severe one was using the english word "gay" which means bad, and an american mod thought i was insulting homosexuals. He (noah) wouldn't even respond to me, and left me feeling really kinda bad. I am in no way homophobic and am completely "liberal".
Wait, what?

I think anyone who uses the word "gay" as being synonymous with "bad" loses any right to call him or herself completely liberal. Just give a little thought as to how this definition has entered modern slang, and maybe you can figure out how someone could take it as homophobic.

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Originally Posted by Disinterested
The way mods talk to posters and act is alienating and unpleasant. As shown by your own reaction.
I'm sure this is true at times. But I'm curious as to what kind of reaction you were expecting to a statement like "RJ is one of the worst mods easily. And that is saying alot."
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04-11-2012 , 10:39 AM
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Originally Posted by tompakee
Please explain why i should have been permabanned? Because i upset you and invaded your little world with my "annoying" signature?

SGT Did send me a PM and nicely asked me if i could refrain from using my sig in certain forums (this one not included fyi) or if i could at least shorten it a little. It seemed some whinny bitches were sending her PM's crying about my signature and for the sake of peace and quiet i have agreed to shorten it.

I can't see how an extra 8 words at the end of my posts bother people but as i said out of respect for SGT's respectful request i decided i would. I am sorry if my annoying signature has invaded your little online world but maybe you just need to close down your computer for an hour a day and get outside, smell some flowers, feed some ducks or what ever.

Feel free to get on your high horse and flame back at me because i really couldn't care less what some random stranger on an internet forum thinks or says about me


Is mise Tompakee
And I noticed and appreciated that you were willing to compromise. Thank you.

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Originally Posted by Disinterested
I understand ur reaction. It is normal to be protective of ur friends. But ASIDE from thinking about friendship, do you think that obviously present , powerful, and patronising mods are the best way to make users of 2+2 feel part of a online community.
All else aside, there seems to be some misconception that all of the moderators are friends, and nothing could be further from the truth. Some of the mods detest each other.

The "us vs. them" mentality almost always comes from the posters, not the moderators. You see it repeatedly when someone equates one moderator action (or inaction) or comment to represent the entire moderator community.

I don't even know nor have had any interaction with at least 80% of the other mods. We are as dissimilar a group as the rest of the posters.

That said, I am Bobo Fett's biggest fan.
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04-11-2012 , 11:03 AM
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Originally Posted by tompakee
I can't see how an extra 8 words at the end of my posts bother people
Wow, some people don't take jokes well. Also, I have bad allergies, so telling me to go smell flowers is mean.

Yes, your signature is annoying to look at. The extra lines that don't appear distinct from the post until read, the confusing words, the way too smiley face at the end, all bright and yellow and standing out. But the real issue I have with it is why do you do it? What purpose could your signature possibly serve except to annoy those who might otherwise have appreciated your posts? I'm genuinely curious to know the thought process you went through when embarking on this campaign.
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04-11-2012 , 11:16 AM
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Originally Posted by Disinterested
I understand ur reaction. It is normal to be protective of ur friends. But ASIDE from thinking about friendship, do you think that obviously present , powerful, and patronising mods are the best way to make users of 2+2 feel part of a online community.

As for my infractions ? Well yes some were instances of trolling. My most severe one was using the english word "gay" which means bad, and an american mod thought i was insulting homosexuals. He (noah) wouldn't even respond to me, and left me feeling really kinda bad. I am in no way homophobic and am completely "liberal".

The way mods talk to posters and act is alienating and unpleasant. As shown by your own reaction.
I'm not friends with SRG (I mean I have no issues with her, but we've basically never interacted at all). I'm just amused by posters who consistently break the rules complaining about moderation. There's a pretty direct correlation between number of infraction points and posts complaining about the mods in ATF.

I'm not going to go back and get an exact list, but IIIRC the bulk of your infractions were for some form of anti-gay bigotry. So even if there was some weird language issue that you're hiding behind, you didn't learn your lesson the first time.
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04-11-2012 , 11:44 AM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
the way too smiley face at the end, all bright and yellow and standing out.
Yea that thing is way too gay it's really annoying.
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04-11-2012 , 11:46 AM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
Wow, some people don't take jokes well. Also, I have bad allergies, so telling me to go smell flowers is mean.

Yes, your signature is annoying to look at. The extra lines that don't appear distinct from the post until read, the confusing words, the way too smiley face at the end, all bright and yellow and standing out. But the real issue I have with it is why do you do it? What purpose could your signature possibly serve except to annoy those who might otherwise have appreciated your posts? I'm genuinely curious to know the thought process you went through when embarking on this campaign.
Research what is mise means and you will understand as for the "way too smiley face"? Wow i bet you are a right hoot to be around at Christmas. just because you may have nothing to smile about please don't expect the rest of us to be grumpy with you.

Is mise Tompakee (on smart phone so no smiley)
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04-11-2012 , 11:52 AM
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Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
Wait, what?

I think anyone who uses the word "gay" as being synonymous with "bad" loses any right to call him or herself completely liberal. Just give a little thought as to how this definition has entered modern slang, and maybe you can figure out how someone could take it as homophobic.
bobo is correct and moves back up the mod power ranking.

http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases...0406234458.htm
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04-11-2012 , 12:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Dids
I'm not going to go back and get an exact list, but IIIRC the bulk of your infractions were for some form of anti-gay bigotry. .
Wow, if you going to say something so insulting maybe you should have evidence to back it up. I am actually disgusted by this, and have no idea how to respond.

Are you for serious? Doesn't anyone else think that it is entirely wrong for a mod to say this to a poster? I am speechless.

And i am not hiding behind a fake language thing, i am explaining different usage of words, by place and generation.

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04-11-2012 , 02:18 PM
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Originally Posted by tompakee
Research what is mise means and you will understand as for the "way too smiley face"? Wow i bet you are a right hoot to be around at Christmas.
That doesn't answer the question of why you are doing something that is very non-standard. Also, I'm Jewish. Finally, colon capital d.
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04-11-2012 , 02:28 PM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
That doesn't answer the question of why you are doing something that is very non-standard. Also, I'm Jewish. Finally, colon capital d.
The joys of being a unique individual i suppose.

Is mise Tompakee
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04-11-2012 , 02:57 PM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
That doesn't answer the question of why you are doing something that is very non-standard. Also, I'm Jewish. Finally, colon capital d.
Why did you just help someone learn to make the most annoying emoticon available on this board?
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04-11-2012 , 03:08 PM
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Originally Posted by atakdog
Why did you just help someone learn to make the most annoying emoticon available on this board?
Feel I'm a fast learner for once:


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04-11-2012 , 03:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Bobo Fett
I think anyone who uses the word "gay" as being synonymous with "bad" loses any right to call him or herself completely liberal.
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay


"At about the same time, a new, pejorative use became prevalent in some parts of the world. In the Anglosphere, this connotation, among younger speakers, has a derisive meaning equivalent to rubbish or stupid (as in "That's so gay."). In this use, the word does not mean "homosexual", so it can be used, for example, to refer to an inanimate object or abstract concept of which one disapproves."

I understand your opinion. Can we atleast agree that different countries/generations might use a word differently, and it isn't helpful to insult people, or decide that your use of the word is the only "real" one? Labelling me as anti homosexual because i used the word gay is really offensive.
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04-11-2012 , 03:29 PM
And you using the word "gay" to mean "stupid" is really offensive.

Different cultures certainly do use the same words to mean different things, but you're surely you're smart enough to understand why using the word commonly used for a homosexual male to = stupid can be considered offensive. Because it basically means that gay and stupid are interchangeable words, so being gay is stupid or undesirable.

I don't think you're anti-gay, but I do think your stubborn insistence that you should be allowed to use the term in a manner others find offensive is baffling. How hard is it to just use the word "stupid" when you mean "stupid"?
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04-11-2012 , 03:43 PM
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Originally Posted by AlligatorBloodFTW
Yea that thing is way too gay it's really annoying.
In light of the ongoing conversation, I wonder if this post is humorous or sad.

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Originally Posted by tompakee
The joys of being a unique individual i suppose.
Because your user name and avatar aren't enough? This is basically just attention whoring, then. You want to make sure everyone notices you, and not for having good content or something like that. I guess you're succeeding.

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Originally Posted by atakdog
Why did you just help someone learn to make the most annoying emoticon available on this board?
I have problems controlling myself sometimes. How do you stop from providing someone information you have that they want?
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04-11-2012 , 03:55 PM
Thanks for agreeing RJ. I hope that dids will make a return and also agree.

I don't think it is ok to accuse someone of a crime publicly and then not publicly retract that comment
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