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Originally Posted by Onetwobit
all those things sound nice, but hardly normal
I am in the US. I went to a public high school and three public colleges. All of my kids went to public high school. One child went to a public college, and two went to private colleges. But I do have some experience with home schooling.
I think you might be a little behind on what home schooling is. First, many home schoolers are very successful academically, most famously, a woman home-schooled all three of her sons, who all eventually studied engineering at Harvard. And though this is probably not typical, home-schoolers in general do as well or better in college, and go to college more often, than students who go to public or private schools.
Second, home schoolers in generally are not socially stunted. Their parents give them many socialization opportunites including sports, the arts, and other areas. I was involved in a parade in Grand Rapids, Michigan where the marching band judged best in the parade was made up entirely of home schoolers.
Such cooperative efforts are not unusual. For example, when home-schooling parents do not feel competent to teach certain advanced courses or concepts, a group of parents might enlist a neighbor who is an engineer or a chemist to teach their children in a particular discipline.
Third, many home-schooling parents don't limit school to a finite number of hours in the day. They consider daily activites a chance for education. Dad's building something in the garage? Little Bobby helps to measure the boards or learns how to pound a nail. Mom goes to the store? Bobby goes too, and learns how to find the best deal by figuring out unit pricing.
Fourth, home schooling is much more efficient. No assemblies, pep rallies, moving between classrooms, and other activites.
Home schooling is an option that we seriously considered for our children. In fact, since we adopted a special-needs sibling group who had only attended school sporadically, while we enrolled them all in public scholls, I also home-schooled them for three summers until they were comfortably doing work at or above grade level.
Our combination of public school and home schooling worked out rather well. My middle son was the only freshman in his large urban high school to win a the scholar-athelete award, which required a varisty letter and a 3.5 of 4 GPA.
Home school is a very serious option that is worth considering if the parents are willing and able.