So i have always used PAHUD but recently i have been playing more tables with more overlap (i am on a laptop so i can fit 4 tables with a little bit of overlap, but i play 8-10 with much more overlap).

Anyways, my question is that is there any way to stop PAHUD to stop bringing the windows to the front when the hand first starts?

I play on full tilt, so the tables automatically bring themselves to the front when it's my action. However, PAHUD brings tables to the front when it is not my action, causing me to sometimes lose tables and sit out in them.
So is there any way for me to disable this annoying feature of PAHUD? i've looked in preferences and options and can't seem to find anything.

Try using the latest beta and enable Standard Drawing. This may or may not work, depending on your computer.