Thinking about it, the places in Adelaide with them are all 18+, which makes sense. I don't think our society would be so relaxed about underage girls sharing bathrooms with adult men. Need to get used to adult men and women sharing first.
Bit of a derail, but there's an interesting
Psychology Today article about them. A researcher noticed at a conference that men were more reluctant to use them:
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To gain insight into this de facto gendered exclusion, I asked several colleagues about their attitudes toward multi-user unisex restrooms, and whether they had used such a restroom at the conference. Men expressed far greater discomfort, and were more likely to have avoided such restrooms. Their concerns centered on the potential for misinterpretation if they were mistakenly perceived to be watching women, and the possibility that their presence might make the women uncomfortable.
This crossed my mind when I used them for the first time. I don't think I would have avoided them if there'd been single-sex alternatives though (there aren't, in the places that have them).
Couple other things:
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Men who actually had braved the unisex restrooms stated that differences in gendered restroom cultures only added to their discomfort. Women are more relaxed and chatty in public restrooms and make less effort to avoid eye contact or adjacent stalls (Moore, 2012); both behaviors violate stricter male norms of restroom etiquette.
Haven't experienced that, but makes some sense.
The article also ties that to general psychosexual unease from men when using bathrooms:
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These findings are consistent with extant research: Despite paternalistic motivations for sex-segregated restrooms (Kogan, 2010), men express a greater sense of vulnerability and discomfort in public multi-user (single-sex) restrooms than women do. Concerns about “being watched and being mistakenly perceived to be watching” (Moore, 2012) result in strict norms of avoiding interaction and eye contact and respecting personal space (Middlemist, 1976). This apparently homophobic fear of sexual assault and stigma (if perceived as gay) might be alleviated by the presence of women in a multi-user unisex restroom, but instead men recast their anxieties into a heterosexual context. The fear that they might be perceived as watching women, and the fear that women might be made uncomfortable or afraid echoes men’s own experiences and emotions in all-male restrooms.
In reality, these fears may be exaggerated: Women did not express discomfort or concern about sharing restrooms, possibly because sexual assault would be unlikely in a crowded restroom.
In other words, it's all projection, again. The hysteria from men around how women and girls would feel with A MAN IN THEIR BATHROOM is an expression of the anxieties they personally feel while using public bathrooms.