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Originally Posted by uke_master
"ad hominem" is one of the most ridiculously overused memes on the internet.
Glad it's not just me that gets wound up by this. Even if people don't mean it this way, it always comes across as a "Look at me with all these fancy Latin fallacies I know". We all know you only know one.
I've been meaning to break this thread up and try actually talking about my experience with "safe space" policies having been a student within the last decade. I'll skip some details (like which uni) because I don't like giving too much personal info.
For those not familiar with UK universities, most activities are run by a related "society". You need a minimum of President, Secretary, and Treasurer, a small constitution, and in return the society is granted some privileges (mostly being allowed to book rooms for meetings, but also things like society advertising).
I was quite involved with a few societies, and some others to a much lesser extent. One that I had some brief dealings with was called the Women's Society. The WS had a strict safe space policy.
Most societies allowed non-student members (although this was rare because non-students didn't typically know about you or care), and allowed membership on a fairly casual basis. The WS had protocols like proving student union membership, and providing your uni ID in order to access their Facebook page. They heavily moderated the page, and if you ever read it it was a wall of trigger warnings. Debate was, to an extent, stifled. They'd hold the odd talk, often with a speaker from the gender studies department. They'd have the odd discussion, but certain avenues were not allowed - it was an expressly feminist group and the whole MRA/anti-feminist spiel usually ended with a delete and often a ban.
So that probably sounds awful to Foldn, I'm sure. But one of the key aims of the WS was to provide support to women who might be dealing with issues like abortion, sexual harassment, assault/abuse (particularly sexual), and any other discrimination. And those women in the group wanted a particular space on campus where these things could be discussed in a non-judgemental, non-aggressive, gentle manner. So yeah, modest proposal type discussion was not conducive to that environment. Hence some debate was stifled.
But the important thing is to then contrast this with the rest of the university. The society I was most involved in (I held committee positions and ran events), the poker society, was not a safe space. Unless it was outright abuse or spam, moderation was at a minimum on our pages. General standard was if you were willing to post it semi-publicly, then on your head be it. At games, if you were non-abusive it didn't make much sense for committee members to censor whatever **** people talked while drinking and gambling.
The debate society was not a safe space. They actually held a discussion over whether they should be, because discussing stuff was what they did, and an almost unanimous vote was that they should not be a safe space. They wanted to talk about any subject no matter how controversial or dark.
The philosophy society was not a safe space. Similar reasons. Policies were about etiquette but not content. You want to argue for moral nihilism or that abortion is genocide, go for it.
The politics society was not a safe space. You want to argue that the Saudi legal system is superior, then it's only your reputation that's at stake.
The rock and metal society was not a safe space. You want to play Necrophagist or Cannibal Corpse full blast? There are guest slots to plug in your iPod at their socials.
Essentially, the vast majority of the campus was not a safe space. Lectures weren't, tutorial groups weren't, most of the social groups weren't, the student union meetings weren't. To the best of my knowledge, only the WS and the LGBTQ society were. And yet, in spite of that, there were plenty of Foldns on campus to whine about how debates were being censored, freedom of speech was non-existent in these groups, people had been banned from pages just for making a few "honest criticisms".
This still appears to be the way that safe spaces operate. Small areas where people can discuss deeply personal issues without the fear and anxiety of doing it elsewhere. And this eminently sensible idea is a great concern to some because somehow, having designated groups in which people aren't castigated for whatever they're trying to deal with might go
too far.
It's always clueless. It's always from people who are either extremely conservative and what they mean is "I'm not allowed to push my politics on them whenever I choose" or from those who simply haven't experienced the way they actually function.