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12-14-2014 , 12:49 PM
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Originally Posted by revots33
They are not talking about the respondent using intoxication as a defense. I think you already know this, as does anyone else who has given any thought to this issue.
Intoxication has no place in the discussion but as a defence. This is the passage in the policy:

"A Respondent’s impairment at the time of the
incident as a result of drugs or alcohol does not,
however, diminish the Respondent’s responsibility
for sexual or gender-based harassment under this Policy."

Unless you mean "she was too drunk to know whether she was being raped, who's to say, really?" I have no idea what you're hinting at here. I know you are a perfect gentleman with nothing but good intentions in your heart and would never do something like feed a girl drinks to impair her ability to resist or escape, have some yourself, then characterize the rape as a mutual "hey, we were both pretty drunk, eh?"... but that is extremely common and what the rule above is meant to address.


I was thinking about going through the Harvard Letter line-by-line to show what a joke it is, but I have a bunch of work to catch up before tomorrow -- We've already talked about their ignorance of Massachusetts law and their unsupported and imprecise complaint about the breadth of the policy (they intend for you to understand that the list includes a bunch of normal behaviours no one could hope to ever comply with but don't actually cite which-- the revenge porn or the stalking?-- they consider "normal" and want struck).

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Harvard undermined and effectively destroyed the individual schools’ traditional authority to decide discipline for their own students.
This is just asserted and presented as bad, but they don't even attempt to establish why it is is bad: Why individual schools in a university should be their own little principalities and how this would be better than not doing it, or why, notwithstanding that Harvard Law is under investigation for mishandling this very kind of dispute, it should still be granted this authority.

Harvard's procedure is roughly as follows:
After an incident the complainant can request an informal resolution by lodging their complaint and having the investigator check it out and propose a solution, or initiate a formal dispute resolution. The complainant drafts a complaint and appends to it whatever supporting evidence she has for it. This is passed on to the investigative team who does some preliminary research and decides whether to proceed with a formal investigation.

Once they've decided to proceed, the respondent is notified in writing and told what he's being investigated for, and is granted a week to draft his own statement and append to it his supportive/relevant evidence. Harvard advises responding parties to consult an attorney if they feel the complaint rises to the level or criminal conduct.

The investigators interview each person separately along with any witnesses that might be helpful in determining what went down. The principals are then interviewed again at the end if they have anything to add to what the witnesses have said. The principals are encouraged to bring along a personal advisor (an officer of their school; no family) who can offer support and call for breaks if they think their "client" would benefit from it.

Finally, the investigators draft their report and if they've made a finding of responsibility then "Consistent with School policies, measures imposed at this stage might include, among others: restrictions on contact; course-schedule or work/schedule alteration; changes in housing; leaves of absence; or increased monitoring of certain areas of the campus."

Appeals are allowed by both parties on the basis of a misapplication of the rules or if new evidence emerges that would have caused a different outcome.


In all, anyone would agree this is an extremely fair and equal approach that meets the notice/hearing/appeal requirement of due process. What does Harvard Law think?

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Harvard has adopted procedures for deciding cases of alleged sexual misconduct which lack the most basic elements of fairness and due process, are overwhelmingly stacked against the accused...

- The absence of any adequate opportunity to discover the facts charged and to confront witnesses and present a defense at an adversary hearing.

- The failure to ensure adequate representation for the accused, particularly for students unable to afford representation.
In view of the actual facts of the advertised Harvard policies and means of redress, the Harvard Letter is absolutely grotesque. In fact it doesn't even seem like they've read either document and if I didn't know better I'd have guessed the Letter was intended as a prank.
12-14-2014 , 12:58 PM
And that's all I have to say about that.
12-14-2014 , 01:00 PM
Absolutely grotesque to be able to confront witnesses and mount a defense.

Remember guise, PR is totally for due process.
12-14-2014 , 01:33 PM
Ikes, you know how I keep telling you "due process" isn't a fixed thing and you need to show on what basis either of those would be owed above what is already granted, what is different for their absence, and whether this is good or bad?

This would be a good time.

"Due process" is not a synonym for the due process granted criminal defendants. In school your interest is not in your freedom but in your good academic standing and eventual degree: it is considered a property right, and the procedure is set up to preserve, as much as possible, these interests while attempting to determine truth. Most of the resolutions are to keep some distance between the two parties for a while; Harvard doesn't imprison one of them. The Great Legal Bros of Our Time have blurred the line-- I hope deliberately-- and misrepresented not only their own standing, but also the policies and the law. They refused to participate in the consultations while the policy was being drafted and are now relying on that abstention to allege non-consultation. They waited months after it was published to try to ride the wave of popular anxiety about campus overreach via a letter to the Globe.

The letter is really negligent and reflects very poorly on the quality of education they purport to provide. I don't really get why you would pretend this is beyond your comprehension. This is easy ****. I normally assume you're just dishonest but if you are still struggling at this point I am willing to accept you might not be pretending and are in fact a little bit slow.
12-14-2014 , 01:42 PM
Due process isn't a fixed thing, however being able to actually mount a defense is absolutely required. Feel free to derp on, and mock the credibility of an institution you were touting a few posts ago.
12-14-2014 , 02:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Tien
I'm on the side that fights for more power to women, not the side that whines like a little baby every time women are getting attention.

My side is winning and men's rights activists like yourself are getting crushed at every turn.

Mental gymnastics for me in this thread is the equivalent of walking down the street, you're still trying to figure out why we spend more time and attention talking about women getting raped. It's going to be a while until you can untangle that brain of yours, I'm just biding my time laughing.
In what kind of fake dream world are you living? When talking about caring about victims of rape which sides are there to care about instead of just simply caring about the people who suffer?

You can imagine your win in your imaginary game I didnt know I was involved in, no problem to me at all. I just hope people like you will eventually open up your heart so we can finally progress as humans instead of all the identity politics nonsense.

Oh, and after reading your response to my post I feel even more sorry for you. You're bitter dude.. Hope is out there for you, come progress with the outside world. Identity politics are for dinosaurs. The world is changing
12-14-2014 , 04:46 PM
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Originally Posted by P.R.
Intoxication has no place in the discussion but as a defence. This is the passage in the policy:

"A Respondent’s impairment at the time of the
incident as a result of drugs or alcohol does not,
however, diminish the Respondent’s responsibility
for sexual or gender-based harassment under this Policy."

Unless you mean "she was too drunk to know whether she was being raped, who's to say, really?" I have no idea what you're hinting at here. I know you are a perfect gentleman with nothing but good intentions in your heart and would never do something like feed a girl drinks to impair her ability to resist or escape, have some yourself, then characterize the rape as a mutual "hey, we were both pretty drunk, eh?"... but that is extremely common and what the rule above is meant to address.
Lol you really are clueless.

Try and imagine a case where intoxication might complicate a sexual assault accusation. One that does not involve the guy claiming his own drunkenness as a defense. And, one that does not involve him "feeding a girl drinks to impair her ability to resist or escape".

I know it's difficult but I think you can do it.
12-14-2014 , 05:18 PM
Lol derp on
12-14-2014 , 05:39 PM
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Originally Posted by revots33
Lol you really are clueless.

Try and imagine a case where intoxication might complicate a sexual assault accusation. One that does not involve the guy claiming his own drunkenness as a defense. And, one that does not involve him "feeding a girl drinks to impair her ability to resist or escape".

I know it's difficult but I think you can do it.
Argue in a straightforward and complete way, please. If you have something to say about 'complications' just say it.

Spoiler:
"I didn't rape her, I was just too drunk to get her consent"
12-14-2014 , 05:44 PM
Occidental case PR.

done.
12-14-2014 , 08:41 PM
Here you go guys, knock yourself out. http://www.breitbart.com/Breitbart-L...Out-Of-Society

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"My generation of boys is f**ked," says Rupert, a young German video game enthusiast I've been getting to know over the past few months. "Marriage is dead. Divorce means you're screwed for life. Women have given up on monogamy, which makes them uninteresting to us for any serious relationship or raising a family. That's just the way it is. Even if we take the risk, chances are the kids won't be ours. In France, we even have to pay for the kids a wife has through adulterous affairs.

"In school, boys are screwed over time and again. Schools are engineered for women. In the US, they force-feed boys Ritalin like Skittles to shut them up. And while girls are favoured to fulfil quotas, men are slipping into distant second place.

"Nobody in my generation believes they're going to get a meaningful retirement. We have a third or a quarter of the wealth previous generations had, and everyone's fleeing to higher education to stave off unemployment and poverty because there are no jobs.

"All that wouldn't be so bad if we could at least dull the pain with girls. But we're treated like paedophiles and potential rapists just for showing interest. My generation are the beautiful ones," he sighs, referring to a 1960s experiment on mice that supposedly predicted a grim future for the human race.

...

Never before in history have relations between the sexes been so fraught with anxiety, animosity and misunderstanding. To radical feminists, who have been the driving force behind many tectonic societal shifts in recent decades, that's a sign of success: they want to tear down the institutions and power structures that underpin society, never mind the fall-out. Nihilistic destruction is part of their road map.

But, for the rest of us, the sight of society breaking down, and ordinary men and women being driven into separate but equal misery, thanks to a small but highly organised group of agitators, is distressing. Particularly because, as increasing numbers of social observers are noticing, an entire generation of young people—mostly men—are being left behind in the wreckage of this social engineering project.

Social commentators, journalists, academics, scientists and young men themselves have all spotted the trend: among men of about 15 to 30 years old, ever-increasing numbers are checking out of society altogether, giving up on women, sex and relationships and retreating into pornography, sexual fetishes, chemical addictions, video games and, in some cases, boorish lad culture, all of which insulate them from a hostile, debilitating social environment created, some argue, by the modern feminist movement.

You can hardly blame them. Cruelly derided as man-children and crybabies for objecting to absurdly unfair conditions in college, bars, clubs and beyond, men are damned if they do and damned if they don't: ridiculed as basement-dwellers for avoiding aggressive, demanding women with unrealistic expectations, or called rapists and misogynists merely for expressing sexual interest.

...

Women today are schooled in victimhood, taught to be aggressively vulnerable and convinced that the slightest of perceived infractions, approaches or clumsy misunderstandings represents "assault," "abuse" or "harassment." That may work in the safe confines of campus, where men can have their academic careers destroyed on the mere say-so of a female student.
Let's see, I like to play video games, do drugs, get pissed with the lads, didn't do well in school and yet inexplicably somehow don't do well with women. It's the feminists fault!

Last edited by suzzer99; 12-14-2014 at 08:47 PM.
12-14-2014 , 08:56 PM
What does that moronic article have to do with this thread?
12-14-2014 , 09:10 PM
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Originally Posted by Poker Reference
Argue in a straightforward and complete way, please. If you have something to say about 'complications' just say it.

Spoiler:
"I didn't rape her, I was just too drunk to get her consent"
You still don't get it. How about, "she consented, but is arguing that she was too incapacitated by alcohol to offer genuine consent".

You seem unable to conceive of the possibility that a college woman might get drunk because she likes to drink, not because some guy "feeds her drinks so she couldn't escape" (lol no bias on your part there). And that this woman might have a drunken hookup with a guy. And that this same woman may then accuse the guy of assault, whether she gave consent at the time or not. And that this makes things complicated. Which is what the Harvard profs were talking about. Which isn't that hard to understand if you just get off the "I was drunk so I'm not guilty" angle, which no one is even debating except for you.
12-14-2014 , 09:54 PM
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Originally Posted by breadandbutter
In what kind of fake dream world are you living? When talking about caring about victims of rape which sides are there to care about instead of just simply caring about the people who suffer?

You can imagine your win in your imaginary game I didnt know I was involved in, no problem to me at all. I just hope people like you will eventually open up your heart so we can finally progress as humans instead of all the identity politics nonsense.

Oh, and after reading your response to my post I feel even more sorry for you. You're bitter dude.. Hope is out there for you, come progress with the outside world. Identity politics are for dinosaurs. The world is changing
The world is changing, absolutely right, and your constant whining about women getting too much attention about rape issues gets only laughs.

Nobody buys the crap you sell about how concerned you are about men's rape issues when you whine at any chance you get when women's social justice issues are being discussed.

And lol at progressing as humans, the decent ones are waiting for you to make the first baby step. Don't take too long now, might get left behind.
12-14-2014 , 09:57 PM
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Originally Posted by revots33
What does that moronic article have to do with this thread?
I'm still trying to understand this whole "men's rights" thing in terms of what a certain subset of men seem to be so upset about. I'm curious if that article is clownishly over the top for everyone, or actually speaks to some here itt.
12-14-2014 , 10:01 PM
Article brings up some valid points (schools are currently failing boys for example) and is obviously over the top.
12-14-2014 , 10:23 PM
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Originally Posted by suzzer99
I'm still trying to understand this whole "men's rights" thing in terms of what a certain subset of men seem to be so upset about. I'm curious if that article is clownishly over the top for everyone, or actually speaks to some here itt.
I grunched a bit of it but it seemed there was some bitterness in the author of article. Saying things like women are being hurt the most from feminism..... Like, really?

Just sensationalist writing for a specific audience.
12-14-2014 , 10:45 PM
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Originally Posted by revots33
You still don't get it. How about, "she consented, but is arguing that she was too incapacitated by alcohol to offer genuine consent".
Barking up the wrong tree with that one:

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Originally Posted by Poker Reference in this very thread
I'm not really following the booty call conversation that's happening with the text messages -- from skimming them I don't really see how that arrangement [drunken hookup] is by itself rape unless something bad went down after she arrived.
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Originally Posted by Poker Reference in this very thread
The facts matter -- She had sex, she didn't get a tattoo or apply for a mortgage. It requires a certain level of mental competence to accomplish what she did, and that alone demonstrates that she satisfies the requirement that she can give consent/participate. John did nothing but invite her over to continue what they'd started earlier and after like an hour of texting back and forth and notifying everyone around her of her objective, she went. (John meanwhile is sitting on his ass waiting for her to arrive.) Texting from across campus cannot be considered undue pressure, so but for the fact that she was drunk there's nothing about that arrangement that remotely resembles rape. "But she was drunk, therefore it was rape, because she was drunk" is a circular argument and an infantalizing definition that I expect to be adjusted over time since obviously it's completely unsuitable for occasions like that one. I think the usual protocol in response to abuses of discretion is to remove all discretion in the short term, then modify as necessary.

In general I think young people having one-offs with near strangers in their wider circle of acquaintances normally ends in trouble (had John waited a day or two he might have learned she was seventeen, for example, and thought better of it), and the sight of a drunk woman shouldn't be understood as "now's your chance" -- but the Occidental case wasn't rape. There is no reason not to respect her wishes at the time but for institutional insecurity about where to draw the line so they draw it at zero and hope for the best.
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You seem unable to conceive of the possibility that a college woman might get drunk because she likes to drink, not because some guy "feeds her drinks so she couldn't escape" (lol no bias on your part there).
Actually my "bias" is I've done enough partying to know that casual sex is not in any way a moral question, and sex under those circumstances wouldn't be rape -- I have argued at length that I don't believe there exists a level of inebriation that vitiates a woman's responsibility but doubles a man's: if you can understand what you're doing, you're good to go. Sex is not complicated, you can be ****ing hammered and appreciate what's happening, which is all that's required.

Incapactitation is, to me, the inability to say no or yes because you have no idea what's going on and can't assess or respond to the situation. Therefore the default is 'no.' A "redacted" consent on the grounds of normal inebriation at the time she made it is not something I necessarily support, but I guess it depends on the circumstances. So far I haven't come across any that didn't involve the woman being actually unconscious.


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And that this woman might have a drunken hookup with a guy. And that this same woman may then accuse the guy of assault, whether she gave consent at the time or not. And that this makes things complicated. Which is what the Harvard profs were talking about. Which isn't that hard to understand if you just get off the "I was drunk so I'm not guilty" angle, which no one is even debating except for you.
It would be nice if you stopped lashing out at me as an emblem of some larger mindshare. You're a grown-ass man who's spent an afternoon dancing around the subject of "redacted consent" and are getting mad at me for guessing at what a grown-ass man is thinking but won't way? gtfo.
12-14-2014 , 10:47 PM
lol PR that's what you were saying JUST NOW. It's you that is seriously confused, not us.
12-14-2014 , 11:06 PM
Ikes --

I was arguing against a claim of diminished responsibility on account of being drunk when he committed the rape. Before that was a joke about "she was so drunk how could she know?"

My objection to the infantalization of women via the mechanism above-- literally assuming the legal status of a child-- for her own good-- is well-known. Hope that helps.
12-14-2014 , 11:08 PM
Well then you need to work on not contradicting yourself every other post.
12-14-2014 , 11:19 PM
Ikes --

Show me the contradiction.
12-14-2014 , 11:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Poker Reference
Similarly, their concern that alcohol increases the complexity of a sexual assault is particularly baffling coming from legal scholars. Massachusetts courts have repeatedly held that “diminished capacity resulting from the voluntary use of intoxicating liquor is not a defense to rape.”"
done
12-14-2014 , 11:35 PM
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12-14-2014 , 11:38 PM
I'm assuming they mean "VI is not an affirmative defense," not that VI can't be used to argue that reasonable doubt exists as to the intent element for rape.

      
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