***SSNL LIFE THREAD (SEPT)***
09-02-2007
, 03:32 AM
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Your relationship sounds scarily similar to my current one. However mine doesn't have a happy ending like yours lol. She moved to the next state over and is going to college there. Your sex graph is also, scary scary similar to mine.
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Okay, so here's the story. Basically in the last month or so it felt like just living with a roommate. Like a "Hey, how's it goin?" thing. So with this lack of compassion and stuff we just had all this built-up anger and resentment towards each other.
Both of our friends were telling us to break up and date other people, but I didn't wanna be that rash so I wanted to see how things would be if she spent a weekend away from me and we didn't talk at all.
I woke up to my phone ringing because I had the door chained and she wanted in so we could talk. She wanted to get her stuff and move out for good, but we talked for about an hour and we've both been so miserable (lol for the whole one day) and we don't wanna live life without each other.
Like, I thought what I wanted was freedom, but what I really wanted was to just know that she still loved me I think. And she does.
Also on Facebook it went from Engaged to It's Complicated, and now we're back to In a Relationship.
She's moving back in tonight.
Both of our friends were telling us to break up and date other people, but I didn't wanna be that rash so I wanted to see how things would be if she spent a weekend away from me and we didn't talk at all.
I woke up to my phone ringing because I had the door chained and she wanted in so we could talk. She wanted to get her stuff and move out for good, but we talked for about an hour and we've both been so miserable (lol for the whole one day) and we don't wanna live life without each other.
Like, I thought what I wanted was freedom, but what I really wanted was to just know that she still loved me I think. And she does.
Also on Facebook it went from Engaged to It's Complicated, and now we're back to In a Relationship.
She's moving back in tonight.
09-02-2007
, 04:03 AM
09-02-2007
, 04:04 AM
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So went out last night in downtown Denver with a bunch of friends. My initial plan was to just go to this apartment warming party with ~15 friends and then head home. But my friend Chauncey called me and said he we was heading downtown with his gf and her friend who is smokin hot and I've been trying to get a date with.
So I figure what the hell, let's get some drinks. I meet up with my friends and this girl looks great and def seems interested. We have some tequila shots and a few beers and soon enough I'm swing dancing with hot friend and despite her continually trying to lead we have a really good time.
I hit a bit of a snag when I ask if I can take her out to dinner this week and she seems a bit unsure. Turns out she is hesitant b/c my friend's gf told her I was still hung up on my ex (which is true but I'm trying to move on). I manage to quell her concerns and get her number and we make dinner plans for tomorrow (sunday) night.
Everything is going great, last call is made, and my friend's gf suggests the 4 of us go back to her place to continue the party (hot friend is planning on sleeping there and Iim fairly blitzed and can't drive so I get invited to sleep over as well:
Dear Diary...jackpot.
So we make the 20 minute walk back to my friend's gf's place and literally 30 feet from the apartment door I offer to give my friend's gf a piggy back ride. About 3 seconds in my right toe gets stuck in a crack in the road and down we go. I still have her on my back and so can't put my hands out to protect myself without getting her potentially more injured, so I take the pavement to the face with all 200 lbs's of my weight and 115 lb's of the girls weight on me.
Afterward I freak out trying to make sure the girl is ok (turns out she was, just a scraped shoulder) and my friend is freaking out looking at me saying I don't realize how bad it is. Turns out he was right.
A few bloody rags/shirts later I'm in the hospital with my dad getting 12 stiches in my eye-brow. Luckily for me I'm so exhausted/drunk that I fall asleep before getting the stiches and so I sleep through the whole thing lol.
In the end things turned out ok because hot friend got to take care of me and was really sweet during the whole thing, even called me today to make sure I"m ok. Might be a few days before I look ok enough to go on that date but she's still interested from what I could tell.
Oh and here's a pick of the girl:
Summary:
Didn't want to go out initially, but did to hit on cute girl. Got drunk, got number, confirmed date, could've been a really fun night but ate pavement while giving girl piggy-back ride. ER trip and 12 stitches later I'm good to go again.
So went out last night in downtown Denver with a bunch of friends. My initial plan was to just go to this apartment warming party with ~15 friends and then head home. But my friend Chauncey called me and said he we was heading downtown with his gf and her friend who is smokin hot and I've been trying to get a date with.
So I figure what the hell, let's get some drinks. I meet up with my friends and this girl looks great and def seems interested. We have some tequila shots and a few beers and soon enough I'm swing dancing with hot friend and despite her continually trying to lead we have a really good time.
I hit a bit of a snag when I ask if I can take her out to dinner this week and she seems a bit unsure. Turns out she is hesitant b/c my friend's gf told her I was still hung up on my ex (which is true but I'm trying to move on). I manage to quell her concerns and get her number and we make dinner plans for tomorrow (sunday) night.
Everything is going great, last call is made, and my friend's gf suggests the 4 of us go back to her place to continue the party (hot friend is planning on sleeping there and Iim fairly blitzed and can't drive so I get invited to sleep over as well:
Dear Diary...jackpot.
So we make the 20 minute walk back to my friend's gf's place and literally 30 feet from the apartment door I offer to give my friend's gf a piggy back ride. About 3 seconds in my right toe gets stuck in a crack in the road and down we go. I still have her on my back and so can't put my hands out to protect myself without getting her potentially more injured, so I take the pavement to the face with all 200 lbs's of my weight and 115 lb's of the girls weight on me.
Afterward I freak out trying to make sure the girl is ok (turns out she was, just a scraped shoulder) and my friend is freaking out looking at me saying I don't realize how bad it is. Turns out he was right.
A few bloody rags/shirts later I'm in the hospital with my dad getting 12 stiches in my eye-brow. Luckily for me I'm so exhausted/drunk that I fall asleep before getting the stiches and so I sleep through the whole thing lol.
In the end things turned out ok because hot friend got to take care of me and was really sweet during the whole thing, even called me today to make sure I"m ok. Might be a few days before I look ok enough to go on that date but she's still interested from what I could tell.
Oh and here's a pick of the girl:
Summary:
Didn't want to go out initially, but did to hit on cute girl. Got drunk, got number, confirmed date, could've been a really fun night but ate pavement while giving girl piggy-back ride. ER trip and 12 stitches later I'm good to go again.
09-02-2007
, 04:05 AM
09-02-2007
, 04:07 AM
09-02-2007
, 04:08 AM
09-02-2007
, 04:10 AM
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TR:
So went out last night in downtown Denver with a bunch of friends. My initial plan was to just go to this apartment warming party with ~15 friends and then head home. But my friend Chauncey called me and said he we was heading downtown with his gf and her friend who is smokin hot and I've been trying to get a date with.
So I figure what the hell, let's get some drinks. I meet up with my friends and this girl looks great and def seems interested. We have some tequila shots and a few beers and soon enough I'm swing dancing with hot friend and despite her continually trying to lead we have a really good time.
I hit a bit of a snag when I ask if I can take her out to dinner this week and she seems a bit unsure. Turns out she is hesitant b/c my friend's gf told her I was still hung up on my ex (which is true but I'm trying to move on). I manage to quell her concerns and get her number and we make dinner plans for tomorrow (sunday) night.
Everything is going great, last call is made, and my friend's gf suggests the 4 of us go back to her place to continue the party (hot friend is planning on sleeping there and Iim fairly blitzed and can't drive so I get invited to sleep over as well:
Dear Diary...jackpot.
So we make the 20 minute walk back to my friend's gf's place and literally 30 feet from the apartment door I offer to give my friend's gf a piggy back ride. About 3 seconds in my right toe gets stuck in a crack in the road and down we go. I still have her on my back and so can't put my hands out to protect myself without getting her potentially more injured, so I take the pavement to the face with all 200 lbs's of my weight and 115 lb's of the girls weight on me.
Afterward I freak out trying to make sure the girl is ok (turns out she was, just a scraped shoulder) and my friend is freaking out looking at me saying I don't realize how bad it is. Turns out he was right.
A few bloody rags/shirts later I'm in the hospital with my dad getting 12 stiches in my eye-brow. Luckily for me I'm so exhausted/drunk that I fall asleep before getting the stiches and so I sleep through the whole thing lol.
In the end things turned out ok because hot friend got to take care of me and was really sweet during the whole thing, even called me today to make sure I"m ok. Might be a few days before I look ok enough to go on that date but she's still interested from what I could tell.
Oh and here's a pick of the girl:
Summary:
Didn't want to go out initially, but did to hit on cute girl. Got drunk, got number, confirmed date, could've been a really fun night but ate pavement while giving girl piggy-back ride. ER trip and 12 stitches later I'm good to go again.
So went out last night in downtown Denver with a bunch of friends. My initial plan was to just go to this apartment warming party with ~15 friends and then head home. But my friend Chauncey called me and said he we was heading downtown with his gf and her friend who is smokin hot and I've been trying to get a date with.
So I figure what the hell, let's get some drinks. I meet up with my friends and this girl looks great and def seems interested. We have some tequila shots and a few beers and soon enough I'm swing dancing with hot friend and despite her continually trying to lead we have a really good time.
I hit a bit of a snag when I ask if I can take her out to dinner this week and she seems a bit unsure. Turns out she is hesitant b/c my friend's gf told her I was still hung up on my ex (which is true but I'm trying to move on). I manage to quell her concerns and get her number and we make dinner plans for tomorrow (sunday) night.
Everything is going great, last call is made, and my friend's gf suggests the 4 of us go back to her place to continue the party (hot friend is planning on sleeping there and Iim fairly blitzed and can't drive so I get invited to sleep over as well:
Dear Diary...jackpot.
So we make the 20 minute walk back to my friend's gf's place and literally 30 feet from the apartment door I offer to give my friend's gf a piggy back ride. About 3 seconds in my right toe gets stuck in a crack in the road and down we go. I still have her on my back and so can't put my hands out to protect myself without getting her potentially more injured, so I take the pavement to the face with all 200 lbs's of my weight and 115 lb's of the girls weight on me.
Afterward I freak out trying to make sure the girl is ok (turns out she was, just a scraped shoulder) and my friend is freaking out looking at me saying I don't realize how bad it is. Turns out he was right.
A few bloody rags/shirts later I'm in the hospital with my dad getting 12 stiches in my eye-brow. Luckily for me I'm so exhausted/drunk that I fall asleep before getting the stiches and so I sleep through the whole thing lol.
In the end things turned out ok because hot friend got to take care of me and was really sweet during the whole thing, even called me today to make sure I"m ok. Might be a few days before I look ok enough to go on that date but she's still interested from what I could tell.
Oh and here's a pick of the girl:
Summary:
Didn't want to go out initially, but did to hit on cute girl. Got drunk, got number, confirmed date, could've been a really fun night but ate pavement while giving girl piggy-back ride. ER trip and 12 stitches later I'm good to go again.