xpert strategy goofy

Time to respond really doesn't matter if you can just keep your composure when you are around her and don't start wetting yourself mumbling sex sex sex

I guess when we flat pre I'm in the c/c flop boat.

Im getting played?

yeah, she's giving me sex/time and she tells me she likes me

I wish girls would play with me more often...



And yes, Ill get her to break up with her bf, just a matter of time

Lol Kilillan you talk like that's a hard thing to do. It isn't. The only thing you'll accomplish is that this girl will push your limits in your relationship. Now you can handle it as she's just a friend with benefits. Girls get pissed all the time at me for telling them to gtfo when it's football on tv. When you are friends you get away with that, but when you have a relationship with this girl the next guy comes and will tell her that OHHH HE'S SUCH AN ASS FOR WASTING TIME. YOU ARE PERFECT BLABLABLA PUKE PUKE PUKE and it's just a vicious circle.

Girls that cheat and don't even acknowledge their mistakes and just continue their life are a waste of f time if you pursue a relationship!

meh-

I want a relationship with her, I really like her.

She'll break up with her bf soon, and if she doesnt then Ill think about it more

Acting so much of her so early on is just going to lead to bad things,
Ill just be way more fun to be around than her bf, make her like me more, and things will go in their natural place soon enough

Your odds of:

1) getting her to break up with her BF AND
2) getting her to be your GF AND
3) getting her to not cheat again AND
4) getting a good result

is very low

The only problem with your whole plan is that you are an emotional person I think and will put the mistake on your part. Keep it in the back of the mind that she's a cheat and that it can happen again. Have some fun with the relationship if that's what you want, but don't start crying when it breaks.

Also our mind works that we want what we can't have. She having a boyfriend is a nice incentive for you to actually "want" her.

Weee just got hired on as a backend dev working under the director of my degree program. Pay is meh but the value of that on my resume coupled with a (hopeful) recommendation from him should be awesome. Graduating in 6 months and 3/6 classes left are prereqs (art hist 1+2, drawing 1). Oddly enough they are literally the toughest classes for me, so much memorization and my poor drawing is killing me.

congrats, resume=huge

Ballin' Austin, congrats

congrats austin!

I know this will probably turn out bad, but when have I ever A: Done anything smart in a relationship
B: Listened to you guys? lol

Anyway, just let me wing and and Ill keep you updated


austin congrats,

speaking of resume, Im thinking about doing an internship at a bank

Itll look good on my resume, but my Im scared of real life

whatever happened with your translation business, kil?

me: when you gonna let me tap that?
her: BECAUSE YOU ASK IT LIKE THAT NEVER!! FIND YOURSELF ANOTHER! THAT REALLY ISN'T NICE OF YOU . BUT WHATEVER YOU'LL FIND SOMEONE ELSE THAT SPREADS HER LEGS FOR YOU. THANK YOU! IM STUDYING NOW AND YOU SAY THAT AND I DON'T NEED THAT RIGHT NOW! THANKS!

fail

SPRING is over... why is this thread still open??

Spring is life yo

Thanks guys! I'm super excited.

We need to keep in mind that Curve has a strange attitude of women too.

This is like I said earlier - I think there's nothing wrong with going after a girl with a boyfriend. It's her choice whether she does anything. The current boyfriend has a huge edge as he already has the emotional investment, if you succeed against those odds then well done.

People cheat because they're tired with their current relationship.

Engagement ring fund over 5k as of today. Only a few more k to go before I've got enough. Let us gogogogogo.

lol Sciolist you do understand that relationships eventually become repetitive and if she already has tendencies of cheating and keeping boys on a leash than you are taking a HUGE risk by trying to get a relationship with this girl. Especially if you can't look at the facts objective (which you couldn't if you were in love).

And what do you refer to as a strange attitude? I just call the facts by name. I always tell girls that I don't want a relationship if I don't feel that 100% "I want the rest of my life with you" thing. I'm always honest and tell them it's just for sex. Think I'm one of the most genuine guys around, because a lot of guys just take a relationship with a girl when they get the oppurtunity and will just use it for sex / cheat etc.

@Shpanko sick congrats got any idea how you are going to ask her? :d

Why on earth would anyone put that much money on a ring?

So she knows you're serious? So her parents knows you're serious? Because the less expensive ones are ugly? Or because she might wear it for the rest of her life so it'd better be good? Why not just make a ring-tattoo instead?

Happy for you being that excited for someone though. GL!

I agree it's stupid, but then again I also think paying 20-30k+ to have a wedding is stupid too. Get the family/friends together with food and have kegs and call it good IMO. LOL society

If you have cash why not. Tattoo's are trashy, no clue how you can even think like this. Why buy anything nice? You can just buy white t shirts and paint on them?

Also for weddings; it is a once in a lifetime event that you should remember for the rest of your life. If you and your gf/wife just want to get drunk, go for it. But if my gf has dreamed of a wedding in a castle, why not?

It is a matter of personal taste. But hey, I have expensive taste anyway.

ps; i realize there will be couch jokes again

Because you love someone and you know that getting them an awesome version of a ring will make them happier than a not awesome version of the ring and that's a good enough reason?

So many people are anti baller rings, because its a "waste of money". So is basically everything in life if you have that attitude. The point of getting money is so you spend it on things which lead to happiness for you and your family, so any money spent on doing just that can't be a waste imo. What's the point of money if not that?

Also, congrats shpanko