ive given up on trying to understand women, i just do whatever seems right and hope for the best

This is basically the conclusion that I came to on my own -- I should not modify my behavior at all and show her that I truly care about her. If she can't understand that or she finds that frightening then I have to accept it, and realize she may not be for me. /drunk

God I'm such an emotional bitch. I should just stick to hookers and blow.

This seems pretty damn on the money too. I wish I knew how to handle this, but I just don't right now. It's been quite awhile since I've been in an actual relationship. It's too much too soon imo.

what works best for me is, get in my head what I think is best, then try to do the exact opposite

When you're struggling with a relationship, your mind is clouded simply by being in the middle of it - that's why; (i) your trustworthy friend's advice is usually worth listening to and/or (ii) you know exactly what you should have done when you look back on it later!


btw, all the stuff about girls wanting bad boys or whatever - what they really want is someone who is confident. And there are ways of expressing what you want with confidence, but it's not easy, and when you end up sounding like a needy biatch, well that's the pit you have to avoid!

Canadians would tell you differently! I can't skate but I play street hockey in the summer and it's sooooooo much fun. I imagine learning to ice skate and doing it for real would be a blast.

She sounds kind of immature.

Chimpstark, plz to be adding a "LINSANITY" location stat

http://forumserver.twoplustwo.com/57...-cuts-1164681/

Chaos_Ult:

Sorry to say this, but it sounds like you're the one with the problem. Why are you so jealous of this guy?

and that's the problem. Girls see it as lazy if you don't put any effort in it and go beyond your safezone for her. I used to be like that aswell and get in the same situations a lot.

And please don't take my words so harsh all the f time. I'm not saying you have to be like a dick to get a girl. All I'm saying is that you need to put some more effort in it while still keeping it mysterious so she stays attracted to you. The fact that you assert your dominance over that pink hole yet she just asks another guy over means she's bored with you.

Now you have to understand why she does that and most of the time it's, because they are not yet ready for something serious or she just wants to have all the power again and knows (because you love her) she can push the limits of what you accept, because she'll just say ohhh sorry baby I didn't mean it that way. You know how I feel about you. SOrry now put it in!

huh? Why would I think that? Just like asking me if she needs to put on her "**** me" boots (literally she said it that way). I know it all don't worry. I've been with a lot of woman yet no relationships and that's because I've been hurt a lot and push women away when they get feelings for me.

When I do fall in love (like I was with this girl) I get way too nice, because I want a relationship with her and just won't do anything and would rather wait with it. Now waiting is ok, but I should have realized how this girl was and just kept ****ing her behind our boss his back and everything would have been fine.

It's only till you have been in such situations that you can recognize them for later situations and the same is for chaos. He has one of those crazy girls now like this one and you just have to take the best of it, but can't expect a normal relationship with such girls.

On another note I do have a somewhat relationship thing going on now. She loves me, but I still have it pretty hard to show my emotions to her and talk about them. She fully understands it though and gives me whatever space I need. Awesome girl actually. It's her bday today =)

Also 400NL is so f soft where I play yet they luckbox the f out of me running heavy below EV there and having to make up those losses with 100NL and 200NL sucks.

I would just like to thank curve for showing such great restraint in not using the "W" word when responding to the recent posts about the opposite sex.

that is all.

Define putting effort in? I feel like maybe our definitions might be different.

no point in getting hopes up or worrying about anything until something is actually passed

we've heard this story at least a dozen times in the past five years

well the whole girls have to respect me for who I am and if I tell her how much I respect her and love her it should be enough. Girls don't see it that way.
When I like a girl I suprise her with breakfast. Take her to a cool spot I know where planes fly over with a blanket and a bottle of champagne. Whatever all these stupid things that get girls wet in their pants about you.

@Joshua just don't take everything so serious, but see it in a context. Sorry that I offended you by being too harsh

wifey and i just had our first child around the time of the "W" debacle.
can you guess the gender of the baby?

Congrats Josh!

Speaking of relationships...


Remember my ex that I wrote a really long message to on Facebook?

Well I talked to her for the first time tonight, for about 3 hours, on Skype.

For people who don't know, I was dating this chick, she had to go to America for 5 months for school. After every night of messaging/skyping etc, she disappeared for like a week suddenly. She then told me that she wants to break up "until she comes back to Japan"

The first 10-20 minutes was "catching up", the next 30 minutes got into a phase where we were pissed at each other. She told me straight out that she wanted to fool around with other guys, but wants to come back to me when she gets back to Japan. That lead to another phase of me asking how many guys she's honestly slept with (over 20 but she lost count, at the age of 21...)
Then we started discussing where our relationship went wrong. We finally agreed that our expectations of the relationship were different. She basically wanted fun, but didn't want the heaviness of a real relationship. She says she doesn't want to feel "jealousy" when I hang out with female friends... Then she suggested we could be "friends with benefits".... Basically were just friends who have sex occasionally.

She also recommended I watch Dexter, Im in the middle of the first episode now

I kinda feel like that's what this girl wants from me -- to just be friends with benefits.

Don't think I want that at this point in my life.

****, I hate this ****.

Yeah, I thought so too, but there are worse things.
In fact, some guys would kill for it.

Hey guys!! New to the forum any info about 2 plus 2 would be appreciated!!

get out while you still can!

kil, is this that psycho ass chick?

check the beginners forum.

no, the psycho ass chick was a long time ago

I actually heard she got married a couple months ago. Feel bad for the guy she married.