I'm so stoked. ONE TIME!

I barely know how linkedin is meant to work, but feel free to add me: Andrew West, Nordic & Baltic CRM Manager at PokerStars.com was most recent job title. Or does it go on email? That's in my 2 + 2 profile.

I ****en hate linkedin haha. I have like a million 'friend' requests, and for some reason each one emails me more than once. I dont understand why people are adding me, I play poker ffs, I am not going to broaden your career prospects.

(1million friend requests on linkedin #coolkidontheinterwebs)

Howdy folks,

A close friend of mine named Erin is trying to win a scholarship for study abroad next semester. A large factor in who the scholarship is awarded to is how many likes the candidate gets at their respective links on Facebook. Thus, I am humbly requesting that you help both Erin and me out by taking five seconds to click this link. She's a really great girl. One of the most overtly friendly girls that I've met this semester and she really deserves this. Thanks guys and I apologize for the off topic post. Here's the link:

http://www.studyabroad101.com/giveaway/posts/139

If you sent it to your friends too that would be amazing but in no way do I expect that.

Thanks again!

sorry, but pics? (Liked obv )

adklf;asjlk; ****ing **** **** ass

I hate relationships and girls are ****ing crazy **** my ****ing **** ****k

also ****.

I really don't give a rats ass about the elfstedentocht. It annoys me that so much news is wasted on it. Go and do a million laps on an ice rink.

Sciolist I would add you but I don't think (or at least I don't know how to) you can look for names.

there's a search box towards the top right of linkedin

Oh I suck.

It also took me 3 minutes to find out how to post a link to my own profile.

Interesting, is hockey not very big there? I'd think a country full of good skaters could produce some pretty good players.

TR

Nope, hockey on ice is non existent here. I wouldn't even know if my town (5th or 6th biggest in holland) has an amateur team.

We excel at ice skating and are good at field hockey, but apparaently noone ever combines the two in here. I guess because you can't just pick it up and play with your friends on a random afternoon, but involves a ton of gear, preparation etc.

TR TR TR TR

ban plz if no TR

I'm still trying to figure out all the stars and what words were used, hmmmmmm

Oh just standard girls playing headgames.

Hate that ****.

Why can't they just be ****ing normal?

I'll be a little more constructive than last time

We can't help you without info, but if I may make a guess it's something like you like a girl and you get the impression that she likes you but she wanders off with this *******?

More or less. Girl says she loves me yadayada, then invites some dude over yesterday that she was ****ing very recently. Gets kinda pissed when I ask her wtf is up with that.

run away quickly

oh well not going to repeat what I said before, but girls just do that kind of stuff. I'm 100% certain that you were way too nice to her and you'd describe that guy more as an ass to the ladies. Then why would he get the girl and you don't? Because girls like the confident macho kind of guys that behave more robust. You need to have an edge so they feel they need to conquer you.

There needs to be a thing about you that makes them wet and tells them that if you want you can get another one. If you can have someone without doing anything it isn't fun anymore. There needs to be a chase and seduction.

It sounds ******ed, but I've had girls ask me if I was a bad boy and I've literally answered "yes I am" that they want you even more lol. It's so crazy, but that's what girls are. I don't even try to comprehend it, because it's too difficult.

I have an almost identical situation to yours btw. I'm also one of those guys that can when I fall in love I'm way too nice to girls and they lose intrest obv.

I had a similar story that you might relate to.

At my weekendjob at the airport I was a personal assistant for vips & kids & ******ed people and at dispatch there worked a fine girl and she always calls everyone honey sweety whatever. One day I had a major hangover and lost my cellphone at work. Someone found it and brought it in and she recognized my picture in the phone and called my parents that I could pick it up the next day.

The next day I go over to her house with a bottle of wine as a thank you and we spend the whole day together chatting and laughing and having an awesome time (8+ hours). At the end of the evening she grabs my hands and tells me that now that I know where she lives I have to visit her more often and we have to meet up again. I'm like **** yeah because I actually liked this girl and almost never have feelings for a girl but I was growing for her.
The next day I call her and we go out for dinner and have an awesome evening. After couple days we do it again and I pick her up from her home and we go on our date. Start with dinner and she orders some cocktail and tells me that when she starts drinking she gets really horny etc.. Me, in love with this girl, immediately tells her that no way will I ever take advantage of her, let alone any girl, if they drink and she can do whatever she wants. After dinner we buy bottle of wine and go rent a movie. She settles on "Love actually" and we go to her home.
She asks me if I want to see her "**** me" boots. (those big white things) and I respond yeah gogo and okay we watch movie etc; BUT ALL THE F TIME I'M NOT DOING ANYTHING because I actually loved her and wanted everything to be special and ****...

Fast forward 1.5 week later she is ill at home. I suprise her with her favourite candy and we sit and she gets a phonecall. She is contemplating to pick it up so I tell her go ahead care... I think it's about work and after minute or 2 she hangs up, but not before saying "love you!" and I'm like O_O What?! She asks me: "nathan what's wrong?" and I'm like who was that? Oh nobody. Nevermind it! So **** that and I leave. She texts me asking why I reacted that way.

Fast forward. I couldn't shut my mouth as my heart was broken and spoke with people at my work about it. Apparently I'm the only ****** there that didn't know she was dating our boss and I was just a boytoy that could have ****ed a really hot girl that I fell in love with :s

Now that I wrote it it's not really the same, but always keep your cool. Maybe buy that bjorn borg boxer and flash it and she'll rip you apart because she wants to feel it

I've spent the last two weeks solid at her house non-stop ****ing.

I've come to a point in my life where I actually want a relationship. I'm tired of bull**** games.

Then yesterday she invites the one dude she knows is going to piss me off, and of course I look like a needy little bitch.

Do I run away? I'm really good at running away, and I'm sort of tired of that as well.

If not, how do I keep her from either freaking out when she realizes how much I like her and/or keep her interested?

I'm staying home tonight for the first time in two weeks.

Lol wtf she told you that as she ordered a drink and you didn't take that as a signal that she wanted something to happen?

I think in the long run it's probably better to be honest with yourself and with whoever you like/love. Do you want to be in a relationship with a person who invites over past **** buddies? If you don't, then tell her that and explain why . If she can't see your point of view and can't give you something that you asked for (that is imo reasonable) then you shouldn't want to be with her anymore as she isn't what you want. At least in theory that sounds good but obviously feelings are weird and you may still want someone while realizing it may not be best for you.

I don't like the theory of acting like you don't give a **** to get a girl if you do give a ****. Being yourself around people and having them accept/like/love you for that is much better than being loved for acting like something/someone else imo.

"try hitting her" seems appropriate

seriously though she sounds like a manipulator, and she's possibly not even aware that she's doing it.

her subconscious hears her mouth say she loves you, but that opens her up to vulnerability so she decides to try and tip the scales slightly back towards her being in the position of power within the relationship by showing you that she can still get in touch with f buddy if she wants.

all her conscious mind thinks of the situation is "oh f buddy and i used to like chillin, and i've seen chaos for two weeks straight so i'd be down to hang with someone else".

i might be way wrong though