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It would be good for me and the money could help my mom out. She's gotten a 2nd job on top of working full time and I feel horrible just laying around all day when she works 6 days a week.
Forgive me for what I'm about to say...
I would feel horrible too. So why don't you go get a job? At this point, it doesn't really matter what job you get. Push pallets around a Home Depot. I mean, honestly, flip burgers at Mickey D's if need be. That will do two things:
- It will make your mom feel better. She won't be working six days a week and see you lying around.
- It will make you feel better because you've manned up and are helping out.
In many ways, the actual money you bring home won't be the big thing. What will matter to
both of you is that you're out pushing on the cart too, right beside your mom.
All the other stuff: friends, dealing with your depression, coaching poker, whatever - that stuff can (and definitely should) go along in parallel. But it feels to me like you getting an honest work-a-day job will be a big step for you and a huge emotional relief for your mom.
Regards, Lee
P.S. And until you have that job, do everything in your power to help her out. Cook, clean, take out the garbage, give her foot rubs, etc.