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What makes a guy creepy? What makes a guy creepy?

01-16-2013 , 06:08 PM
A mustache
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01-16-2013 , 06:10 PM
If you have to ask what makes a guy creepy, then you are creepy.
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01-16-2013 , 06:13 PM
As a female, I find a guy who shows me more attention than he would show another guy kinda creepy.
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01-16-2013 , 06:16 PM
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01-16-2013 , 06:20 PM
i pretty much do the opposite of that guide to great success.
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01-16-2013 , 06:22 PM


"Do you want to move forward with me into a new era of co-creation" is my one and only chat up line.

Last edited by Abysmal; 01-16-2013 at 06:28 PM.
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01-16-2013 , 06:38 PM
^
I watched the first minute of that. I now need many years of therapy.
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01-16-2013 , 06:43 PM
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Originally Posted by Henry17
Being creepy is about not being able to read a situation and adjusting behaviour based on an accurate reading of the situation.
very good description
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01-16-2013 , 06:48 PM
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Originally Posted by theskillzdatklls
being unattractive is the biggest thing but a lack of social competence and unwanted sexual advances (especially the small / stupid things) all lead to it imo.
no

if you're unattractive you're simply that. sure, that affects how people receive you but it's pretty different from being called creepy.
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01-16-2013 , 06:53 PM
It's more about insecurity than being ugly. Good looking guys tend to be less insecure.
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01-16-2013 , 07:00 PM
Weirdness, feeling like you don't belong here.
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01-16-2013 , 07:33 PM
Being creepy is just unwanted attention for the most part. If your a 2 and hit on 9, she will most likely label you a creepo.
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01-16-2013 , 07:36 PM
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Originally Posted by ObezyankaNol
If you have to ask what makes a guy creepy, then you are creepy.
This
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01-16-2013 , 07:54 PM
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Originally Posted by +Eevee
As a female, I find a guy who shows me more attention than he would show another guy kinda creepy.
That means you'd find me creepy if I talked to you at all.
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01-16-2013 , 07:59 PM
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Originally Posted by AlexM
That means you'd find me creepy if I talked to you at all.
No, not if you talk to males a similar amount. I find men who really, really like to talk to women very odd and a little frightening...
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01-16-2013 , 08:03 PM
Wasn't there some sort of saying, that if you walk into a room and after ten minutes you don't recognize the creepy person there, then it's probably you?
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01-16-2013 , 08:05 PM
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01-16-2013 , 08:08 PM
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Originally Posted by +Eevee
No, not if you talk to males a similar amount. I find men who really, really like to talk to women very odd and a little frightening...
What about men who like to throw their pokeballs at you?

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Originally Posted by tylertwo
Wasn't there some sort of saying, that if you walk into a room and after ten minutes you don't recognize the creepy person there, then it's probably you?
—Einstein
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01-16-2013 , 08:17 PM
Mainly two things: behavior that is incongruent with the social atmosphere and appearance of an ulterior motive with negative consequences (from the perspective of whoever is judging).

To rephrase it, when you're being weird in a way that makes others feel fearful of what you may be trying to do.

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01-16-2013 , 08:19 PM
Country Roads avatar sorta creeps me out personally.
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01-16-2013 , 08:29 PM
It also depends on the person. Some girls I've met have called people creepy when they (the girl) misread the other person. I mean, they will usually not consider that same person a creep when they notice he isn't, but there's definitely some girls who tend to over-label people as creeps.

In general though it's just someone who makes a person uncomfortable due to what they say or body language. Also why is this a thread ? It's not really that hard to notice.
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01-16-2013 , 08:29 PM
a lot is based on looks, some of it is tone. A big factor is emotional intelligence.

two guys can say the exact same thing and one can be creepy while the other is funny.

if you're talking about guys flirting with girls... if the girl is sexually attracted to the guy, not creepy. If the girl isn't sexually attracted to the guy, creepy. generalization.
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01-16-2013 , 08:31 PM
Cloth sweatpants and pocket pool, maybe not enough alcohol and to much lighting
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01-16-2013 , 08:36 PM
Being creepy or sexy entirely depends on what the girl thinks of you at the time.

You can check your girlfriends' iPhone while she's not looking, find out her most played song, learn it for her on the guitar, and play it for her sometime. And it's either "omg that's soooooo cute you're amazing! xoxoxoxox" or "what the **** you looked at my phone" and get ignored for days and broken up with.

Girls project their own insecurities and just are generally messed up.

There is nothing that inherently makes a guy creepy (unless we're talking ugly old men who actually stalk women without talking to them and that ****, but that's not the discussion here,) it is entirely the woman's interpretation of what's going on that makes her believe it's creepy or attractive.
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