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Originally Posted by Moreconfusednow
sexual assault is a purely female experience...
give me a freaking break.
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Originally Posted by culs20041
Isn't it all an explanation of what women go through?
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Originally Posted by SGT RJ
I mean we're just beating a dead horse at this point.
culs doesn't get it and has demonstrated absolutely no desire to get yet. Ironically he thinks that means WE'RE the intellectually dishonest ones.
It's scary that there are people like this out there that are supposed to actually be someone in the system that helps get justice for the victims. You can almost hear the patronizing contempt dripping from his posts. "Oh that poor girl, but if only she was wholesome and pure like I'm going to teach MY daughter to be this probably wouldn't have happened."
Sadly this type of attitude is prevalent. And he's shown no desire to change it because that would involve confronting some of his deepest held beliefs about women and sex, and God forbid he do anything like that.
It is a gigantic and disgusting problem amongst men who don't have the balls to really analyze their views of sex and how those views affect their sons or the men around them and the effect those views have on the women in their lives or in their society.
The response to this case makes it blatantly clear that men in general are oblivious when it comes to analyzing their views of women and sexuality in general.
This case is 99.99% due to the views of the young men in this case who thought it was funny and boast worthy to sexually violate and humiliate a young woman, yet people throughout the thread have tried to deflect the discussion in order to discuss the young woman, as if that is pertinent in any way. Just read through this thread and look at all the posts that discuss the victim in a negative light. What she did is irrelevant. What is the worst a guy her age could expect? Lots of puking and a terrible hangover. Her expectation shouldn't be any different. If you think the victim did something wrong in this case, you are part of the problem. Anything she did "wrong" in this case is so minor as to be irrelevant. If you are a guy and it enters your mind that she did something wrong that night, you need to analyze your views of women because they are horribly flawed.
It really is disgusting to me. Rape is a male issue. Look in the mirror, guys. Look at your buddies. Look at your family members. This is something we are responsible for. How often do you joke with your friends about "bitches"? How often do you look at a women purely with lust (and I know, if you don't consciously put a check on it, the percentage is extremely high). Rape is also something only we have the power to squash.
All the precautions in the world by women will make a tiny impact on the amount of rapes in this country. The changes that need to be made are almost entirely in how men view women.
Last edited by Aytumious; 03-22-2013 at 08:16 PM.