You really do like to plan in advance.

Damn, 4+ months for a tr? Too far away, go do something epic sooner lol

Grunching, but I second Alobar and just want to re-emphasize how utterly stupid bringing it up would be. "If you don't feel comfortable bringing up the thing you want to do in secret and that she doesn't want to know about then that's a sign it's not OK." is gibberish and the product of a sick mind. Yeah, wife's OK with cheating just doesn't want to know about it--let's torture her with it! Why stop at re-confirming? Why not video tape the deed and make her watch, just to confirm the positions and thrusting forces are OK with her? JFC.

Actually it could be a good experiment though, if you didn't want to do it. Just bring it up and re-confirm that it is allowed as long as those conditions hold. Then step back and watch the magic happen. Install key-logging software on your computer beforehand, and make sure it's set to allow multiple installations of itself.

If you ask me, that's a woman's way of testing you. She lays out the bait, and if you bite it and she finds out about it, hell breaks loose. They do this 'test' to appear cool and aloft and in control, but I bet you she has that conversation still marked on her mind. (or if I'm wrong on this, the only other possibility is that she's probably cheating on you so she's doing this to make herself feel better)

I haven't read through your thread but if you're being sent to Asia for these trainings or whatever, then you have hit the jackpot my man. No need to pay for hookers, Asian women will throw themselves at you as long as you're white. Trufax. Just always use protection. lol

nope

Ten bucks at Walmart.

Op if you look like Louis ck minus the fame and millions you need to just hire a hooker. Nothings sadder than a middle aged dude trying to pick up chicks in a bar. Just get some hottie go to your hotel room and after a couple hours you both got what you wanted and the chick leaves you alone to post about it on 2+2.

Win win.

Didn't read all the posts but:

-Is there any chance she'd be into a 3some if you asked? She loves you, she's sexually adventurous, and she also gets to have fun. Would you go mad with rage if tried m-m-f aswell as m-f-f? Balance it out a little.

-If you do decide to do it your way, I'd go with a pro. Find some site that reviews them, find one with a ton of positive reviews, and treat yourself. Anything else may come back to bite you, but the with the pro you'll just be another satisfied customer.

Now why didn't I think of this... Go for it, Romeooooo! Let's see if your wife can handle it! ...she did say she doesn't want to kno, but this looks like a good opportunity to put this up with her

I think if you're going to do the 3some thing, you have to do what my friend did on this. It's a bit of a long play, but it actually worked for my (now married) buddy. He incepted his wife into thinking that the 3some thing was her idea. Got one of her friends to help him out a little, and basically made it like he wouldn't be THAT into it, but would try it for her. To this day he still has a **** eating grin when he talks about it.

Would you know how he incepted her into thinking it was her idea? Coool beansss.

lol ya he got one of their mutual girl friends to watch this with her:

http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0120890/...nm_flmg_act_35

And the friend tells his girl "ever try it? "I did once, it was pretty intense. I was surprised how much I enjoyed it. Think "x" would ever want to with you?"

About 5 weeks his girl brings it up casually, I guess she thought about it a while. He had prepared his answer carefully, he said he'd never really thought about it, but always assumed she'd be far too conservative to try something like that. lol she eventually organized the entire thing, we all think it was to prove to herself and her man that she had the balls to do it. And since the whole time he's acting like it's not a big thing for him sexually, she had zero jealousy. There were a few lame rules, but still overall he said it was great.

Totally incepted her into a 3some.

looooooool. i like what happened there. sneaky. and sorry but the wife just got owned hardcore. Hell, i wouldnt want to be her

Wow, I didn't think all that technology for entering people's dreams was actually real.

So he didn't mind getting porked by another dude?

4th trip is 4 months out, but look for the scouting mission TR beginning of October, and the 1st real attempt TR beginning of November.

No offense, but I selected these as examples of posts that completely miss the mark because they're ignoring the situation as laid out in the OP and subsequent posts. I never asked for help to be a pick-up artist in a bar, because I these trips are mid-week and I have to be at trainings first thing each morning. And Asia? WTF dude? Maybe someone else can make use of your advice, so I guess it could have some value to someone, but you won't be getting a TR from Asia from me.

Irony: maybe 15 years ago she suggested a particular friend was the only one she might be comfortable doing a threesome with; I didn't follow up because I thought she was testing me; have kicked myself many times since. (Said friend is now about 39 years old and about 8 months pregnant with her first kid. Pretty sure that window of opportunity is closed.)

As for the pro route, I am still giving it consideration. I didn't get much feedback as to prices at the Mustang Ranch, so I'm still interested if anyone has any recent experience there. Please also suggest review sites. Thanks!

http://www.myredbook.com/

Appears to be concerned with the illegal "escort" variety in the bay area. I'm looking into the legal kind in NV.

I'm a newbie, and have been checking out various threads, and am convinced that this one is just some form of mental masturbation.

No way is any extra-marital strange going to measure up to these expectations, after all of your talk and planning. You've basically taken all the spontaneous excitement out of it.

And, if you were my SO, I'd cut your nuts off and put them in the microwave.

you sound like so much fun, why would anyone ever want to cheat on you?

it did take me like 3 or 4 seconds to find this based on recalling the name of one brothel + google:

http://www.yelp.com/biz/moonlite-bunnyranch-mound-house

Whether or not I'm fun is really immaterial to the subject at hand. The OP stated that his wife is OK with it as long as she doesn't know about it.

That's akin to saying, "Honey, I don't care if you lose 100k playing poker, AS LONG AS I DON"T KNOW ABOUT IT. Very clearly indicates that there will be consequences if she DOES find out about it.

To repeat myself, google "legal prostitution in Nevada".

And Moonlite Bunny Ranch was where they taped the brothel reality show Cathouse on HBO when porn star Sunset Thomas was there. Hoehouses don't get much more famous than that. Maybe you can find old episodes and see how it works.

They have a section just for Vegas/Nevada. Why do you want the legal kind? It's illegal in Clark County (Vegas) so you'll have to make a drive to one of those ranches and pay higher prices for less selection.

Because he figures the risk of a Greg Raymer style arrest and humiliation makes it -EV.