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03-13-2019 , 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted by prana
When someone calls me whining, they are crying. When I call someone else to complain, I'm definitely not crying.

Good job on getting back to work after all those write-ups. A solid half day posting on 2+2 will work wonders. Your kid must be really important.
I already had vacation scheduled for my daughters spring break this week and she went to her cousins house today.
I'm just laying in bed applying for jobs,****ing around on here, taking naps and avoiding doing the laundry.
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03-13-2019 , 02:47 PM
Poster: how’s your MS?

MLY: here’s a bunch of symptoms of me being an obese smoker who doesn’t stretch properly or workout multiple times a week at an approved intensity... no signs of MS though!


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03-13-2019 , 03:03 PM
MLYLT,
Has you doctor run any tests for Munchausen syndrome?
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03-13-2019 , 03:38 PM
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Originally Posted by Rexx14
If you've made progress with your relationship could you possibly use strategies from that area to help with your work relationships? Ultimately people are people and I would have thought work relationships would be easier to manage in some ways because you have clearer professional boundaries and etiquettes in place. Could you possibly outline some strategies/techniques that have helped with Code and try and implement them when interacting with your boss?
Rexx14 do you even MLYLT bro?
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03-13-2019 , 05:13 PM
Takes vacation to spend time with daughter on spring break.

Sends daughter away for the day.
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03-13-2019 , 07:21 PM
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Originally Posted by Minimalist
Takes vacation to spend time with daughter on spring break.

Sends daughter away for the day.
What's your point?
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03-13-2019 , 07:26 PM
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Originally Posted by Steve350
Rexx14 do you even MLYLT bro?
I'm trying to be nice, ****er.
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03-13-2019 , 08:05 PM
grunch,

Wow! So many serious answers to the Villiage Idiot's request for attention.
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03-13-2019 , 08:14 PM
Just ate a can of tuna in solidarity.
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03-13-2019 , 09:30 PM
If you didn't even bother to put smuckers squeeze jelly on it then gtfo
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03-13-2019 , 10:04 PM
I thought I just made a post....not sure it it was insta deleted by a mod or what.
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03-13-2019 , 10:20 PM
Madam Speaker has the floor.
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03-13-2019 , 10:56 PM
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Originally Posted by whatthejish
Just ate a can of tuna in solidarity.
If it came in a can, it was tuna fish.
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03-13-2019 , 11:55 PM
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Originally Posted by 27offsuit
Madam Speaker has the floor.
Thank you. We all may have different strands, but our strands woven together make this tapestry of 2+2 stronger. Though our ideas are different we share one goal. The power over psychopath bosses,.....

Blah, it all sounded better in my head and I've got 4 screaming kids making slime fart in the next room and can't concentrate. Will someone else more creative say what I was trying to?

Anyway, I was inviting Cs3 to lunch on Friday when I'm in Dallas....no guns, of course and saying what a funny guy minimalist is. I most often read his post as jokes where he is highlighting to derp posters who Yammer on about inconsequential things about me.
Bahhhh, these kids!
Sis, we are gonna need some drinks....superbaconcheesburgers and mojitos, let's do it!

Last edited by MeLoveYouLongTime; 03-13-2019 at 11:56 PM. Reason: Unless 27 knows CS3 is some ex-con or something.
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03-13-2019 , 11:57 PM
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03-14-2019 , 12:01 AM
Figure it out dummass
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03-14-2019 , 12:05 AM
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03-14-2019 , 12:07 AM
Oh yeah, I was wondering if anyone has any experience with short term disability and mental illness. Like what do I have to do to go on short term disability, go to a pysciatrist and they write an order or something.
It would be amazing to take a mental break from my boss and apply for jobs.
The problem is that every pysciatrist I speak with doesn't think I'm crazy and just bipolar but sane amdnrational.....Jmakin, what's your advice on this?
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03-14-2019 , 12:21 AM


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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
I know that being diagnosed with bipolar is an automatic qualification for disability. I'm not blaming all of my problems at work on me being crazy. I do despise my boss and I'm stubborn and all, but being crazy makes everything so much harder.

My brother is Type 1 as well as the rest of my family and he will stay in the bed for weeks. He also self medicated with drugs for years. He started and owned a very successful business and two of my other brothers worked with him. They all became addicted to drugs and everything fell apart. Once he started taking the bipolar meds a couple of years ago, he got off of drugs instantly and my other brothers are still strung out. I was on the same medicine as him and it worked, but ****ed with my sleep so bad that it would be really dangerous for me to function at work. I've tried a few drugs and all seemed to affect my sleep, therefore affecting my safety at work. The meds I have now semi work, but I'm still swinging just not for extended periods and not as frequently and I'm trying everything thing else I can with vitamins, exercise, diet to stay normalized for longer periods.

I'm just really torn on how I feel about disability for being mental and I'm not sure if it's something I should seriously think about if I can't manage to not cause problems at work. I know I could run a business on my own where I wouldn't have to affect an employer with my craziness and I'm not a self medicating addict so that will certainly help.

I just don't know how much of my work struggles are do to being crazy or concious decisions and behavior that can be fixed.

I've just been thinking that if I get fired from this job, it might be worth it to do disability and get some intense therapy and be able to try out more drugs without worrying about work and possibly make more progress towards being stabilized for a while before looking for another job.
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Originally Posted by gregorio
In order to qualify for disability, you must meet these requirements:
  1. Are you working? Your disability must be “total”.
    To qualify for SSDI, your disability must be “total,” such that you are not able to perform “substantial gainful activity” (SGA) for at least one year. In 2017, if you are disabled but currently working and you make over $1,170/month, you are not considered disabled enough to qualify for SSDI benefits.
  2. Is your medical condition severe?
    Under SSDI rules, your disability must be “severe” enough to interfere with your ability to perform basic work-related activities, such as walking, sitting, and remembering.
  3. Is your medical condition on the List of Impairments?
    Yes
  4. Can you do the work you did before?
    SSDI rules look at whether your medical condition prevents you from doing the work you did prior to developing the condition. If it does not, then you are not considered disabled “enough” for SSDI purposes. If you cannot do your prior work, step five is considered.
  5. Can you do any other type of work?
    If you cannot do your prior work, an evaluation is made as to whether you can perform any other kind of work. This evaluation considers your medical condition, your age, and your educational background, as well as any past work experiences or skills that you may have that could transfer to any other type of work. If you cannot do other work, you will be considered sufficiently disabled for SSDI purposes.
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
From the SS site:
"For each of the major body systems, we maintain a list of medical conditions that are so severe they automatically mean you are disabled"
The other criteria don't apply if you are automatically determined to be disabled from having a condition on the list.

The list of impairments are considered permanent or expected to result in death.
Bipolar qualifies because of the death risk of suicide from the number of people that commit suicide who are bipolar.
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03-14-2019 , 12:36 AM
Alright, I'll look it up. All of that is referring to SS disability. I want to get short term disability through the insurance at my job for like 2-3 weeks. My only experience with this was with maternity leave and I remember there being a lot of red tape then withy doctor having to submit letters that I needed to go on maternity leave a few days before o went into labor.
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03-14-2019 , 12:51 AM
I struggled with the idea of giving actual advice to MLY, but yes you can go on disability for mental illness. I think it's reserved for people who are actually trying to get better, but it probably varies by state.

I was on long term disability for about 4 months with clinical depression. The insurance company demanded therapist notes and all kinds of other ****, but my doctor refused on grounds of confidentiality. He didn't fill out the forms the insurance company sent, but wrote a note detailing my medication and therapy history, without divulging personal information.

Going on disability to "get a break from your boss" is likely not gonna fly and you will have to prove you were actively seeking treatment.
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03-14-2019 , 12:53 AM
Also self medication has nothing to do with a disability claim, in fact many employers also offer disability to people dealing with substance abuse issues, at least in IL.
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03-14-2019 , 12:59 AM
Based on your last post I would honestly probably contact whatever agency you're trying to file a claim with because it's clear you aren't actually trying to get better and looking to exploit a loophole when the system is designed for people trying to get better. People who do that **** are why some think programs like welfare etc are a waste of money. You're a really ****ty person if you file for disability without actually being disabled
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03-14-2019 , 01:04 AM
Yeah that's why she's a ****ty person.
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03-14-2019 , 01:18 AM
Okay, I am in fact bi-pollar and I have been going into a downswing. Dealing with my boss triggers it at times. I've have been working incredibly hard this past year on conciously rationalizing feelings and thoughts to not slip farther down and become suicidal. I had bad episodes over the summer and around October and pulled myself out of it. Friday I was seriously considering going to the hospital because it felt too intense for me to overcome without meds. I've got a system now where I notified my sister, mom and code3 when it's too much. Code3 was with me through the weekend, my mother was with me on Tues, I rested today alone to process things and I'm feeling better. I'm worried that I will go back to work next Monday and will have to go through all of it again, it will be worse and then I will actually have to go to the hospital. I'm not trying to take advantage of a loophole.
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