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07-30-2017 , 07:19 PM
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Originally Posted by MeLoveYouLongTime
He said straight forward that we will never have a future, never live together again, never have a family, never be married, and I will never be around his family again, but he likes the relationship as it is and wants to continue a weekend relationship. I don't agree with this and told him I will find someone else when I'm better. But, most of the time, he acts like everything is normal on the weekends and he loves me.
LOOOOL!


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I'm not trying to manipulate him, or have a murder-suicide, and I'm not some BPD monster.
LOOOOOOOL!!


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I am not violent in any way and could never harm another human or animal or living things.
LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL!!!
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07-30-2017 , 07:46 PM
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Originally Posted by jmakin
If you have a hand, you're never really alone
I can probably get unlimited bjs from an unattractive/overweight friend/fwb type person if I want, but that doesn't interest me. Point is, it's not primarily that type of alone I'm scared of being.

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Originally Posted by Rexx14
Fabian,

I'll bite. Why should you have broken up with your sorta gf?
Oh, Rexx, where to start. I know this is the thread for poor posting, but I still don't want to go too hard. Very condensed, I should have because I think it's not going to last because she likes attention from other guys too much for my taste, and doesn't prioritize me highly enough for my wants. Except for when she does, of course. She can be a fickle thing, and right now she very much wants to stay together to see if things "get better" again.
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07-30-2017 , 08:01 PM
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Originally Posted by Fabian
I can probably get unlimited bjs from an unattractive/overweight friend/fwb type person if I want, but that doesn't interest me. Point is, it's not primarily that type of alone I'm scared of being.



Oh, Rexx, where to start. I know this is the thread for poor posting, but I still don't want to go too hard. Very condensed, I should have because I think it's not going to last because she likes attention from other guys too much for my taste, and doesn't prioritize me highly enough for my wants. Except for when she does, of course. She can be a fickle thing, and right now she very much wants to stay together to see if things "get better" again.
Wanting too much attention from other guys and not prioritising you sound like grounds for a break up. Easier said than done though if you really like her. Just please dont turn into Mlylt, one is all I think OOT can handle!
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07-30-2017 , 08:03 PM
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Originally Posted by Fabian
I can probably get unlimited bjs from an unattractive/overweight friend/fwb type person if I want, but that doesn't interest me. Point is, it's not primarily that type of alone I'm scared of being.



Oh, Rexx, where to start. I know this is the thread for poor posting, but I still don't want to go too hard. Very condensed, I should have because I think it's not going to last because she likes attention from other guys too much for my taste, and doesn't prioritize me highly enough for my wants. Except for when she does, of course. She can be a fickle thing, and right now she very much wants to stay together to see if things "get better" again.
Does she go to basketball games with her brother?

edit. On a serious note.... May be you never have been single long enough and as everything unfamiliar it is scary.
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07-30-2017 , 08:16 PM
They do, don't they! If only I had an easier time making good decisions that felt awful in the short term.

lapka,

I've been single for long periods of time, but I don't find the thought of being alone any easier because of it.
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07-30-2017 , 08:41 PM
Fabian,

I think it's particularly hard if you see a lot of other very positive things in the person and if they make you feel really good when you're with them. Anyway I hope you make the right decision for you, ultimately you are the one who knows if the problems you are having are deal breakers or not. The one thing I would say is that if ultimately you don't think it's going to work out it's probably better to end it sooner rather than later as staying with her is only going to prevent you finding someone you are much better suited to.
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07-30-2017 , 09:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Rexx14
Wanting too much attention from other guys and not prioritising you sound like grounds for a break up. Easier said than done though if you really like her. Just please dont turn into Mlylt, one is all I think OOT can handle!
Well we've already got 2.

Updates from Villian?
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07-30-2017 , 10:44 PM
ldo bang her and start looking elsewhere.

You have no moral ties to a woman who treats you like that. Bang her until something better comes along.

imo

Spoiler:
omg, i'm code

Spoiler:
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07-30-2017 , 10:45 PM
obv move is to get her on 2+2 so you can post to make her jealous
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07-30-2017 , 10:54 PM
Plus he's got lots of online stalkers so that will help!
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07-30-2017 , 10:57 PM
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Originally Posted by DodgerIrish
ldo bang her and start looking elsewhere.

You have no moral ties to a woman who treats you like that. Bang her until something better comes along.

imo

Spoiler:
omg, i'm code

Spoiler:
Lol what is that spoiler from?
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07-30-2017 , 11:05 PM
I'm guessing quantum leap
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07-30-2017 , 11:05 PM
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Originally Posted by Bighurt52235
Lol what is that spoiler from?


Quantum Leap
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07-30-2017 , 11:33 PM
Quantum Leap was good tv.
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07-31-2017 , 12:07 AM
There needs to be more shows where each episode is self-contained. Like Law & Order.

Makes you think.

I don't know what about. I'm stuck.
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07-31-2017 , 12:15 AM
When I think Law & Order I think Chun-CHUNGGG...
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07-31-2017 , 01:36 AM
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Originally Posted by DodgerIrish
There needs to be more shows where each episode is self-contained. Like Law & Order.
There need to be more books like this also. Tired of every ****ing thing I look at being 'part of the Padded Trilogy'.
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07-31-2017 , 07:50 AM
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07-31-2017 , 09:41 AM
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Originally Posted by Fabian
I can probably get unlimited bjs from an unattractive/overweight friend/fwb type person if I want, but that doesn't interest me. Point is, it's not primarily that type of alone I'm scared of being.



Oh, Rexx, where to start. I know this is the thread for poor posting, but I still don't want to go too hard. Very condensed, I should have because I think it's not going to last because she likes attention from other guys too much for my taste, and doesn't prioritize me highly enough for my wants. Except for when she does, of course. She can be a fickle thing, and right now she very much wants to stay together to see if things "get better" again.
Is she going to change wrt attention from other guys ? (Spoiler alert, the answer is probably no) So you should act on that. Do you believe that she will change or that you will change (not dislike her seeking so much attention with other guys) ? All these answers should lead you in the right direction imo.
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07-31-2017 , 10:01 AM
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Originally Posted by Yakmelk
Is she going to change wrt attention from other guys ? (Spoiler alert, the answer is probably no) So you should act on that. Do you believe that she will change or that you will change (not dislike her seeking so much attention with other guys) ? All these answers should lead you in the right direction imo.
This is pretty spot on.
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07-31-2017 , 10:41 AM
I love how she's gratuitously trying to get H&F to hate Code.

It's called splitting, yes, I know.
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07-31-2017 , 10:53 AM
@ Fabian

I think you know everything OOT can say to that. Right? I mean that fear of loneliness is not really a good glue for a relationship and not good basis for happiness. And everything Yak and Rexx said.... You know it. Or? I mean you are in this thread already for long time. Don't be the second MLYLT.

GL.
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07-31-2017 , 10:55 AM
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Originally Posted by Neil S
I love how she's gratuitously trying to get H&F to hate Code.

It's called splitting, yes, I know.
I love how H&F's biggest problem with Code is that he eats pizza rolls.
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07-31-2017 , 11:00 AM
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Originally Posted by Ungoliant
I love how H&F's biggest problem with Code is that he eats pizza rolls.
Well tbf that is pretty bad.
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07-31-2017 , 11:03 AM
lapka,

Yes of course I do, my post wasn't about soliciting advice, it was about posting poorly.

Thanks for the advice though fellas. We'll see how things progress.
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