You can't really make statements like that without providing us with pics. Also, jabbing her tongue in your mouth sounds painful!

According to this Northwestern Sorority girl I talked to at home, there are many girls in her sorority that just troll guys and use it to boost their egos. She denied doing it, but I wasn't sure.

The way you guys act use the scale I so god damn ridiculous...


I think ranking women in that way is ridiculous on its face, not to mention horribly sexist (a charge I'm guilty of sometimes, especially in the context of these male dominated forums). But you go further in your ridiculousness act like it's clearly delineated between say an 8 and a 9, like "oh she was between an 8 and a 9" could let us glean anything about her appearance. Plus with no pictures to substantiate the arbitrary claim "oh I went out with a 6, 7, 8, or whatever last night." How about descriptions of what made the girl attractive to you instead? Not the mention the propensity of people on the internet to apply ridiculous standards to celebrities with the scale, "Jennifer Lawrence real life 6" crap.

People who care about the scale: 3bet and people like him

Pretty horrible thing to do. Thank god that they'll be reduced to nothing when their looks inevitably fade with age, you'll hear them complaining "men are pigs, why do they only like younger women!". Old age is the biggest justice system we have for narcissists.

I don't think there's anything wrong with using online dating as an ego boost/ without intending to meet anyone from it...

It's pretty ****ing sad.

She's a model, so it will be easy for me to post those pics. But I'm on an iPad mini right now and have to get to a computer to do it. I'm typically conservative with posting a rating. Especially because it's very subjective. But I showed a lot of guys in the office her pics and they were like yeah she's really hot.

If you think she's a 9, that's all that matters. I'm just curious.

To be fair, the "all the guys and the girls approached her in the bar" thing is infinitely more valuable than a rating to me

Yes, and it was so hot when the other most attractive girl in the bar was just staring at her and ice grilling her for a good 5 minutes.

I kind of agree w wu tang on the scale. It is sexist. That being said, physical attractiveness matters and it's an easy way to convey that info. I'm going to make an effort to not use it tho

Gabby.

Sounds like one of those rare situations where proposing a threesome would have had a realistic chance of being accepted.

Nothing wrong with ranking a girl on a 1-10 scale, but if you find yourself referring to girls by their rank a lot, there's this great subreddit called theredpill that you'd probably enjoy as well.

You're right, guys don't do anything that are meant to just boost their own egos

I think it's pretty ****ty to go on a dating website with no intention of going on dates. If you are ambivalent about it and not sure if you want to go on a real date, then I think it's fine to have a profile/write messages. But if from the get-go you know you will never do it, messaging people with no intention of ever meeting no matter what is disrespectful of other people's time.

And I don't think the number system for rating women's looks is sexist. If you put a woman's entire worth into how they look and what number they are, that's sexist. I don't use the rating system because there is no consensus on what any of the numbers mean, but don't think it's morally wrong to use it.

It's ok as long as you state in your profile you're not going to meet anyone in person.

What a stupid ****ing reply.

Possibly worst strawman ever? What's funny is that you're so smug about it haha

I think it's rarely malicious. More often, they just wanna see what it's like. If someone is intentionally leading men on, making them think they're gonna get a date in order to boost their ego, that's one thing. But if they're just swiping right with their girlfriends to see what hot guys are using tinder without intending to meet them, that's entirely different

I agree but tinder is different imo. If it's ok for guys to auto swipe right with no intention of messaging every match then it's the same thing for a girl to do.

Tinder should not be considered a dating website

Seems like we agree then. My roommate (who's in a relationship) made an okc profile just to see what the site was like since I talk about it so much. No intention of dating but she also didn't message anyone or respond to any messages so I don't see it as bad. Funny story though: her girlfriend was looking at her email (she was in the same room and told her to, since they needed to message someone together and were using her email) and saw these okc messages and apparently turned white and was like "what is this?" My roommate can be a bit naive/clueless about such things.

This.

I hope that anyone who gets annoyed at girls for matching with you even if they don't have any actual interest in meeting is also only right-swiping girls they are legitimately interested in.

Nooooooooo

Liked reading 3Bet`s fake TRs and stuff

Who is gonna talk all ghetto now (probably fake too) and show us his hat collection and white T-shirts collection?

also this

every now and then i see okc profiles of girls who write that theyre not looking for dates but just join for the forums, or to use it as another social media site, and im not upset or outraged or anything. if theyre up front about it, thats fine.

and if a girl joins just to get the attention of guys or whatever, its not like she'd write that in her profile. she's just going to be another hot girl who doesnt respond to any messages, like any other girl, so i dont see what the big difference/bad thing is.

Tinder is the nuts. If you're decent looking it should be a field day.