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01-07-2014 , 01:57 PM
hot girls are typically clueless as to how the real world works for normal people so I wouldnt be surprised if they thought they were special snowflakes
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01-07-2014 , 01:59 PM
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Originally Posted by splashpot
Girls HAVE to know this already, right? I hope any girl I'd be willing to date would be smart enough to understand that men have to do this. Just like men know that women get a million messages so we are not offended when we don't get a reply.
Yeah I would hope this would be the case as well

Girl I dated for a month off of POF said she created her account the day I messaged her and was flooded with messages almost instantly.
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01-07-2014 , 02:02 PM
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Originally Posted by splashpot
Girls HAVE to know this already, right? I hope any girl I'd be willing to date would be smart enough to understand that men have to do this. Just like men know that women get a million messages so we are not offended when we don't get a reply.
You should ask some girls what follow up messages they get from guys they never replied to. Its not pretty. I would be surprised to find out any of the girls I've dated thought they were the only one I was talking to.
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01-07-2014 , 02:06 PM
They should replace profile pictures with profile videos, kind of like a greetings message. A woman's voice can tell you a lot about her including how fertile and feminine she is. Mannerisms and body language are important, I assume people would like to know what they are getting themselves into before the first date. Do they already do this?
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01-07-2014 , 02:13 PM
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Originally Posted by UnoTrap
They should replace profile pictures with profile videos, kind of like a greetings message. A woman's voice can tell you a lot about her including how fertile and feminine she is. Mannerisms and body language are important, I assume people would like to know what they are getting themselves into before the first date. Do they already do this?
I wouldn't be surprised if this popped up its ugly head somewhere in the coming years. It looks like eharmony might have had such a functionality going. I think it will fail without exception tbh.

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01-07-2014 , 02:16 PM
A feedback section on profile pages would also be nice. People you have dated could leave a comment saying something like "A+ wonderful date", "Do not date this guy, he was cheap and needy". They could also increase traffic by offering some sort of task reward system with weekly challenges "1.view 50 profiles 2. Message 20 girls 3. Receive more than 5 replies, if all tasks are completed we will put in a word for you on your feedback section"?
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01-07-2014 , 02:20 PM
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Originally Posted by Hoagie
I haven't been divorced even a year and that's all my family talked about at Christmas.
I'm not even DIVORCED (separated for quite a while) and "when are you going to start dating?" is one of the first things out of most people's mouths.
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01-07-2014 , 02:20 PM
@Uno
POF has that for premium members, its called 'Date Feedback' and can be found in your inbox.

Last edited by Yakmelk; 01-07-2014 at 02:21 PM. Reason: at least I assume its that, im not premium
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01-07-2014 , 02:25 PM
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Originally Posted by UnoTrap
A feedback section on profile pages would also be nice. People you have dated could leave a comment saying something like "A+ wonderful date", "Do not date this guy, he was cheap and needy". They could also increase traffic by offering some sort of task reward system with weekly challenges "1.view 50 profiles 2. Message 20 girls 3. Receive more than 5 replies, if all tasks are completed we will put in a word for you on your feedback section"?
I don't think this would work too well. The guy would have to have the option of deleting negative comments, which would lead to lots of disingenuous info.
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01-07-2014 , 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted by UnoTrap
A feedback section on profile pages would also be nice. People you have dated could leave a comment saying something like "A+ wonderful date", "Do not date this guy, he was cheap and needy". They could also increase traffic by offering some sort of task reward system with weekly challenges "1.view 50 profiles 2. Message 20 girls 3. Receive more than 5 replies, if all tasks are completed we will put in a word for you on your feedback section"?
lol I could see this not ending well
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01-07-2014 , 02:35 PM
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Originally Posted by splashpot
Girls HAVE to know this already, right? I hope any girl I'd be willing to date would be smart enough to understand that men have to do this. Just like men know that women get a million messages so we are not offended when we don't get a reply.
No, they do not know this. They do not typically message men or have a low response rate and do not need to research online dating tips, tricks, stats or blogs. If they never have to do these things, then why would it ever cross their minds? If it did, then their profiles would have more thought and updates. As it stands, they get lots of messages and likely assume it is because they are interesting and pretty.

Of course it's obvious that some guys mass message but it's not obvious that most do, and it would be wise not to tell them that they are girl #100 because that's not making anyone feel special.

To us 100+ out messages is standard but to them it is not. Nope nope nope
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01-07-2014 , 02:38 PM
48 year old is coming over at 2. I'm antsy!
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01-07-2014 , 02:43 PM
awwww yissssss

TR that **** for sure man
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01-07-2014 , 02:43 PM
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Originally Posted by wutangpoker
48 year old is coming over at 2. I'm antsy!
So awesome. That's even older than my oldest (46). TR and pics of her bod are in order
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01-07-2014 , 02:49 PM
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Originally Posted by wutangpoker
48 year old is coming over at 2. I'm antsy!
Holy cow that is pretty old (but awesome!!!!)

Wutang you know she is coming for the sexorz right?

Just have a few drinks and go for the kill imo, no holding hands or any of that shizz bra

Oh and I hope you didn`t jerk off 4x because you gonna have to perform on that old vag

gluck, TR that ****

and omg wtf is that video of that chick that loves cats. so tilting.
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01-07-2014 , 02:59 PM
I did masturbate a lot yesterday... Stuck in the snow and all...
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01-07-2014 , 03:00 PM
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48 year old is coming over at 2. I'm antsy!
Awesome. Looking forward to the TR. How old are you?
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01-07-2014 , 03:04 PM
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pics of her bod are in order
This is hilarious coming from you.
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01-07-2014 , 03:12 PM
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48 year old is coming over at 2. I'm antsy!
Older women love young studs that casually use business terminiology in a sexual environment. It makes her think you're going places and it just so happens you're taking her old worn out ass along for the ride! I'd reccomend calling her something like a hot commodity or a scarce resource. Also watch out for the seattle slug that milfs love to leave to mark their scent!
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01-07-2014 , 03:16 PM
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Older women love young studs that casually use business terminiology in a sexual environment. It makes her think you're going places and it just so happens you're taking her old worn out ass along for the ride! I'd reccomend calling her something like a hot commodity or a scarce resource. Also watch out for the seattle slug that milfs love to leave to mark their scent!
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01-07-2014 , 03:19 PM
She's late...
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01-07-2014 , 03:20 PM
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Awesome. Looking forward to the TR. How old are you?
I'm 21. So it's literally plausible that she could be my mother...
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01-07-2014 , 03:22 PM
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She's late...
But it won't matter if her period is.
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01-07-2014 , 03:25 PM
'Partner in crime'...
And 19 other ubiquitous online dating cliches


http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-25410883
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01-07-2014 , 03:26 PM
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But it won't matter if her period is.
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