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Originally Posted by dalerobk2
Ask her to a specific place and time rather than the vague "let's get together."
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Originally Posted by El Diablo
ATF,
What dale said. Don't ask for her number, ask her out.
Yeah, I'm totally flaky when it comes to proposing a firm day, time, and place. I just fixed that leak though with another woman whose number I have. She rebuffed my "lets get drinks Friday offer" with "I already had plans". I asked "had or have?" She said "both". I threw in a space-time continuum joke in response. She replied "ha. okay then!" To which I just threw out a "saturday at x place. does y time work?" Dunno if she'll respond to it, not that I really care but don't I look pretty desperate countering with the other weekend evening?
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Originally Posted by PenelopeCruz
Yea that's a perfect example of why you should just ask her out, set everything up and then just give her your number the 35% of the time she doesn't just give you hers without you having to ask for it.
I try to move the convo off site ASAP, which is why I push for the digits. I guess it only works with certain women.
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Originally Posted by NickMPK
It's pretty uncommon for a girl to respond to this without giving her number. On the rare occasions she doesn't (and doesn't text you directly), she's probably uncomfortable giving it out and you should just go ahead and suggest a day in a message.
I hate giving out my number first, it's so weak. Alas, on occasion its called for I guess.