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Originally Posted by NickMPK
Nothing turns me off....I'm suggesting that they seem to be attracted to my profile, but not me in person. For the most part (with some exceptions), they are rejecting me, not me rejecting them. So maybe I should be trying to attract different people who will be more accepting of who I really am? But I don't exactly know what the disparity is.
I'm sure I mentioned this in Ms. OOT, but I think my ideal woman would be Rachel Zane from Suits.
There doesnt have to be a disparity. When a woman browses profiles randomly, or replies online, she can have the luxury of letting her rational mind do the chosing. Oh this guy seems nice and successful.
But on a date and in person, she has to feel attraction on a more primal level.
Specially when, like i said, what you yourself really want is that. You cannot spend the date as a cleancut nice successful professor then expect an attraction. Itll likely be at worst a boring date, and at best a neutral thing that did not affect her whatsoever.
She wants that nice smart guy that her brain picked out to be a slightly aggressive attractive guy that makes her wet
(very sleazy way of wording it but still)