Yeah seconded. The forceful sex thing sounded like you were actually considering raping her, and the physical confrontation sounds like you may have sent someone to threaten her/do physical harm. It doesn't come across well, hence the few posters who chimed in legitimately freaked out. It's easily misunderstood.
Other than that lol that huge drink... I've pulled the "order whatever you want" line myself and most people are gonna be modest/choose something they'd usually get and not actually order lobster & champagne or something like this. Good riddance the girl and GL with the next