If anyone cares, the girl with the unpredictable texting habits texted back just now (morning in the UK - she texted like 7:49) after almost three days saying she has been ill and so can't do tonight, has plans tomorrow and Saturday but asked about how free I am next week.
I don't believe her on the ill thing, she probably would have told me when she actually got ill, and also in two previous texts she didn't give me an answer on whether she could do Thursday (today). I'm pretty sure she was waiting on another guy but it fell through and now she's wondering about me again.
Now I'm wondering how long to leave it before I text her back, as this seems important. I want to say something that makes her see I can take her or leave her, but at the same time I definitely want to see her. I already told her I can't do Friday night (she suggested it in a text on Saturday).
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Originally Posted by 34TheTruth34
thats totally fine, obv i dont have any issue with you wanting a gf. im just curious how you could 'really like' a girl that youve only been on 2 dates with and appears to be playing some form of text messaging mind games with you.
also, you didnt address any of my other questions, namely how long shes been doing this, whether or not she does this for every message, and how quickly you respond to her messages.
What do you want me to say, we connected. Lots in common, natural in each other's company, definite chemistry. And I didn't even say I *really* like her.
To answer your questions, she started out texting me either the same day or the next day, then there was one weekend where it was two days she waited, then it seemed to get consistently 24 hours. I would wait till the next day usually, but this past Friday night she texted at just before 10pm and I texted back 15 minutes later (which is bad I know) but I was at a black tie event and I could do the old 'I'm at this big exclusive thing that not many people get to go to and look, I was deemed important enough to be invited, but oh Ye Gods, how I need an exit plan as these millionaires are sooo boring' thing so I think that was ok.
It might be that I once left it 24 hours so she thought it was best she did to not look overly keen, and then it just continued like that.
Last edited by SandraXII; 06-13-2013 at 03:56 AM.