rimjob?

Dinner at your place is "relationship" stuff. Dial it back to having fun.

Dinner at your place is fine after 3+ dates. Which is a lot earlier than relationship stuff.

TR w/ same day date

This was easily the oddest experience yet. We go from a deep discussion on the merits of being intelligent versus being educated (no ****), me doing double down dog or w/e while doing yoga with her, to making out in our seats. She has a huge hang up with the fact that I don't have a degree but I eventually break her down and she's talking about exactly what she expects from a partner, what she hates about her ex, etc. We're soul mates and engage in a lot of open communication about sex, me ****ing her, why she won't do that on a first date, etc. It ends as I walk her back to her car and let her go with no definitive plans. I decide to call her five minutes after I arrive home to push the doing yoga with her tomorrow. She doesn't answer, so I send a text. She instantly calls back and we discuss our plans.

i was skeptical about using this line but it seems to work so im gonna try it now

I've managed to get laid several times, but consider myself a failure at online dating.

That's what I like to hear. I'm thinking about adding some online dating into the mix out of sheer lazyness. I like to game select, so seems like a decent way to max out EV.

If I decide to take the plunge I'll post some conquests ITT.

So.. Time for an overview

Basically I'm at nothing right now. My main lead was the chick I had 2 great dates with, but I've texted and called her and she hasn't picked up so...


When you have a date with a chick and you text her after and get no response, does that mean you're done 100% of the time? In my case, if it happens I never make contact again, because I figure there's no point, obviously if there was still interest they'd respond to my text.

BTW, I've pretty much figured out what I'm going to do about work. I know several guys around the area who own businesses, I'm going to chat with them and get enough info so that I can discuss it without looking like an idiot, then claim that's what I do.

Lol you don't talk about that that just happens. This seEms more like anal.. She had to trust he would take his time and not hurt her And or soil her name.....

What are everybody's thoughts about Facebook? Went on two really good dates with girl last week. She is coming to my place next week. She added me on Facebook. Anything to think about or is this just standard in 2013? My initial read was this is a good thing, but don't want to overthink things.

Btw, I handed out a couple quick compliments to her and she reciprocated both. Thanks to ATF for the reminder. I'm bad at this stuff.

Depending on the age, I think this can be standard, but that she's willing to be openly friends with you where all her other friends can see seems good for you.

You're already getting sex, so does that mean you feel you need this lie to turn that into a relationship? That seems like a terrible idea to me. Maybe you should just get another job if you feel being a poker pro is ruining things for you and you aren't comfortable enough with it.

Just tried to message a girl on OKC but it says her inbox is full and I can't message unless I pay $1, wtf.

Anyone else get this?

Not worth it, imo.

Just got the exact same message. Back off, she's mine

I raise you A BUCK

It seems like a super elite way for a chick to filter for guys who are legit interested

she wasn't that hot....all yours

That's what I thought and also thought it was a sign she foresees having me around for a while.

/needless speculation

I think it's super standard after 1-2 dates. Just make sure you don't have any conflicting info on there and your dating profile. Or pictures of you with strippers

I probably blew my chances with the girl from last night.

In retrospect, though we were going at it pretty heavily, I had a weird feeling just after we parted ways... like I missed an opportunity to push for more. It's why I called her after the date to confirm yoga which I subsequently blew off this morning because 1) I did not feel up to it 2) it seems weird for a second date, especially at 8:30 AM 3) besides pushing to shower together at her place post yoga, I could not envision a way to escalate.

I did call her this morning and tell her I can't make it. She was sort of weird on the phone, lacking enthusiasm, but might have been bummed I was flaking. I told her I want to hang again and said I had a good time and she was like "I'm going out with a friend, have a nice Sunday".

I sent her a text later saying I regret missing the class and asked how it went. She responded "Great! It's my favorite one of the week. Hope you're enjoying the weather."

Do I invite myself to another class? My confusion rests on the fact that during the date she said not having a degree is a sort of a deal breaker. Within 10 minutes of that I was like "well, we should go then" and she responded "so we should call it a night?" and this convo went back and forth for like a minute before we somehow ordered another drink and within 30 minutes we are making out at the table. She did say her ex-husband neglected her sexually so I think she might be the type that desires affection from men just to validate herself in that way. Very difficult spot for someone who over ****ing thinks everything, like I do.

What's a good line for a girl who looks at your profile every other day for the past few weeks, but hasn't messaged you yet? Is it standard to say something about her looking at your profile or just avoid that completely because she might get embarrassed?

Any girl who wants to take you to yoga on the 2nd date is a complete weirdo imo.

It seems I have the same problem Nick had early in the thread.

I go on dates with girls, things go reasonably well, we part ways, they say we'll meet again, and then they ignore my follow up texts a couple of days later.

Why? I pushed for it after she declined to demonstrate double down dog for me or whatever it is where they stick their ass in the air. The whole idea was to keep the momentum going, that I blew it off was probably a bad choice and though she did respond to my text, possibly a deal breaker. She has expensive tastes, prefers fine dining, drives a Lexus, needs a man who isn't afraid that she earns than them (lololol) etc. so I'm probably better off for it but she is hot and definitely has me not thinking with the right head.

ATF,

Perhaps your chronic "over thinking" is a symptom of failing to get a degree, where many people refine their critical thinking abilities.