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Originally Posted by feel wrath
thanks for the info and for the wishes. It's sad (and expensive) but it's been coming. My wife has become an alcoholic the past 3 years, after barely drinking before then. ****ing difficult and stressful and it's had a big impact on her and our relationship. I've been waiting it out because i felt that it would have been wrong to leave while she's unwell but...she decided to leave which has actually made it a lot easier for me to realise there's nothing left
and I'm all aboard on being a slut. Or at least at this stage I am
have been in a relationship with an alcoholic who refused to admit it and get help/stop drinking - it was pretty brutal going through that, wasn't even the fun kind of alcoholic as she didn't like the social aspect of it or even alcohol, it was just a delivery mechanism to get drunk that she would do on her own and in secret
being a slut wasn't the negative part, it was the part where in order to be banging multiple women all at once i had to treat a number of them quite poorly in order to ensure they understood it was just a casual thing - that's the part i regret - girl wants to spend the night but i have another coming over later, she isn't taking the hints so i just tell her another girl is coming to bang so she must leave and then she leaves in tears and of course as she finally leaves the other girl is there about to knock on the door but thinks this means "she won" so she's ok with it until the cycle repeats with her as well
not just about not treating them poorly, there's 1 or 2 i think i could have been really happy with if i weren't so focused on collecting strange