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Originally Posted by NickMPK
I got responses & started chatting with two girls on POF last night....but they were both so boring! How do you even know on that site who is worth messaging? OKC profiles convey so much more information.
She's boring ?? That's when you start to amuse yourself while moving things forward.
It's your job as a man to put your personality on the line in order for her to open up.
As far as texting NEVER EVER say "let's hang out or let's meet up" in your first text. Its creepy. She's thinking he doesn't know anything about me he probably doesn't have standards.
Texting is a continuation of the online convo so your first message could be something you guys were talking about online or something simple as " hey you its badlieutenant " . Here I would use my first name even if I didn't tell her my name online. If she asks who is this you probably f&&& up.
Vibe for a while ,nothing serious just banter. Get logistics and ask her what her schedule is without actually asking her our.
This way if she says she's busy you don't appear needy because you didn't ask her out.
It's important,if you ask her out and she says "no its girls night out" or whatever DO NOT reschedule continue as if nothing happens and ask again 2 days later.
"It's cool beb. My friend is coming over. We're getting drunk and playing battleship". Something like that
And yes its "BEB" not "BABE"
Last edited by BadLieutenant; 12-12-2012 at 10:05 AM.