http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herpes#Epidemiology
She may or may not have the herp, but I think she's a little more level headed than you.

So this online dating thing is getting out of control.
I am starting to have a really hard time keeping up with everyone I am talking to; let alone trying to find time to go on a simple meet date. I am starting to just cull decent women. I want a happy hour date tonight with one I wanted to cull but I already agreed to the date so I will honor it.

Tomorrow I am going to the beach with a 22yr old, tan cutie that has a lot of the same outdoor interests as me. Super fun to chat with can keep up with my playful banter. Im hopeful.

On Sunday I am going hiking with a 27yr old, short blond girl. In good shape. Small town girl that has the good small town attributes but none of the white trashness that usually goes with it. We had a few drinks last Saturday. I introduced her to Macallan25, which she didnt hate (+1). She comes off as a nice girl.

Monday I have lunch with a 26yr old, 5'1" fitness girl. She has done a couple fitness shows. She is going to a beauty school that is worse then the Harvard of Beauty Schools, so that is a huge red flag, especially at her age. Usually this is the career path of **** ups. No glaring 'Amichelle-esq' red flag have arose in our convo though so I will give her a chance.

...but seriously, I am getting overwhelmed. There are a lot of girls that I havent messaged yet (I have barely messaged any, most hit me up) that I really want to but I dont want to find myself in a weird limbo that I dont have a lot of time to escalate as quickly as I should. I dont like txting someone for 10 days before meeting up, you losr that initial spark. Tough life, I know.

Sorry about all that bro.

Yeah, I wouldn't let it bother me much just to get rejected right off the bat my a girl in a bar. I was trying to consider a similar situation to how the girl I'm interested in on OKC based on her profile has apparently rejected me. So in a bar, I suppose if you had spent some time getting to know a girl and had decided you like her but then she rejects you. It wouldn't be much of a bother if you had a bunch of other girls just waiting to talk to you and more winking at you from all over the room.

Went on a date with a girl who is full German on her dad's side.

Brother's middle name? something Adolf something III

"My dad wanted to keep the family name"

uh why?

lol

My grandfathers were Adolf and Ivan. My parents only handed down the name Ivan fwiw.

I met up with a girl off OKC who's probably a 6.5, and had sex with her on the 2nd date, but I decided she wasn't really relationship worthy, so I talked her into a FWB setup, even though she wants more. She's open with me about talking to people on OKC and meeting up for dates, and based on her info, I think AceMan is way off base (obviously).

If she's signed on, she'll get IM'ed by 2-3 guys every time, and she'll get about 8 messages a day. So she'll weed out the obvious weirdos, message with a couple guys, and go on about 1 date a week. The last 5-6 guys she's met up with have all been socially awkward, creepers, or douches, and she's starting to hate the whole process. And these guys are the cream of the crop!

Maybe girls with low self esteems who don't get many second looks in real life can point to the messages they receive online and use it to prop up their faltering self esteem. But personally, I wouldn't find it very flattering that many guys would use me as a glorified masturbation toy, but wouldn't have anything to do with me in a real relationship.

This is definitely the way to go. Usually I'll lead the convo to a point where I can naturally ask her to meet up for drinks after she's replied 2-3 times. If the convo isn't going anywhere after we've each sent 4 messages, but I think she has potential, then I'll just throw up a hail mary and ask her to meet up out of the blue. I don't see the point in sending endless messages/texts, when A. there's a chance she might flake B. there's a decent chance she'll look significantly worse in real life and C. the rapport building more or less resets once you meet up anyway.

how do you guys prefer to initiate foreplay?

In what context? Like you've made out at the bar and are now back at someone's place watching a movie?

Usually I'll just start a progression stroking non-erogenous zones like hair/shoulders/arm/hands, then move on to to hips/stomach/thighs, then start making out, reach a hand under her shirt, touch her breasts over her bra. Take off shirt, stroke her chest/stomach, nibble on her neck/collar bone/behind neck, take off her bra, stroke her breasts purposely avoiding her nipples, graze her nipple after a little while, then start kissing her breasts, sucking on nipples, slipping off her pants, touching her inner thighs, etc. etc.

I love foreplay, I love to take my time and not immediately go for the obvious areas like breasts/vagina and nipples once her breasts are exposed. I love to tease and once I'm comfortable around her and am turned on myself, I just kinda lose myself in the moment and do whatever feels right and notice what she's responding too. It's best to just get out of your head immediately and just do what feels right. If you have a set gameplan, then it just comes off as too robotic and not very sensual.

This is way off. One of the good looking girls that I am hoping to go out with next week showed me a screen shot of her POF inbox. Something like 130 (I cant remember exact amount) unread messages. Good looking girls get bombarded.

UPDATE: Got a BJ. Solid B. Off to the Beach tomorrow.

This is what I also do. It seems to work pretty well. First 3 or so messages are always something playful and fun, keep it away from interview style talk nobody likes that, and the 4th or 5th message I give them my number and tell them we should do xxxx.

Really? Are you asking how do you make the first kissing move or are you really asking how you initiate sex/bj from kissing?

Whip it out, ldo. They either reciprocate or call the police. Either way, your intentions are clear.

Is this the hottest chick on OKC or is it just me?

its just you

Def just you

lolol Its just you.

He could be really into six-heads.

Acting like that girl isn't really pretty is just stupid.

no one is saying she isnt pretty. I can easily find hotter girls on okc though.

Dude, no one said she isnt pretty. The question was is she the "hottest".
That answer is an easy NO.

attractive yes. hottest..no.

She's the best I've seen in my results/visitors. I don't even think she's wearing makeup there. That's like her go-to-the-gym look.

I think she's very attractive, but she's obviously wearing quite a bit of make-up. Do you really not know what lipstick/lipgloss, blush, eye shadow, and mascara look like?

I've seen several more attractive girls on OKC, but most of them are likely fake profile.