It was the first time I had ever asked (the take your clothes off thing works pretty well though) I asked top or bottom because she had professional clothing on and the ground was pretty rough (my knees are scuffed up today and her shirt needed cleaning.

I mentioned my financial situation and she offered to help.

So you're a prostitute boning your clients outside in the dirt?

Its wonderful

Okcupid best face app is decent for finding your best pics. I think vote size needs to be increased though for better reliability

POTY

im curious what "professional clothing" means to someone selling his body in the dirt

props, btw. you should make business cards.

i call bs on the homeless story

No ****. It's good though.

Wasn't you who was with the Swedish girl. Are you still with her?

my new 2nd or 3rd date move:

http://bipedmag.com/Get_Your_Lover_Wet

will TR when done.

+1. so much more entertaining than the wu/atf short stories

Ok, so coworker (female) has been chatting this guy up for a week or so online and via text, everything seems great, blah blah blah, they had a first date set for tonight. He just texts her and says "Hey, want you to know, I've gained 40 pounds over the past year, and all my pictures are before the weight gain. Just want you to know I might look a little different." Looks pretty fit in pictures.

Limited number of ladies who are in this thread, do you ever go through with this date? If not, is it because of the weight gain, the lying, or both? Or the chance the pictures aren't even him and he's going to kill you, or worse?

I'd still go through with it, but the lying would bother me a LOT more than the weight itself. I hate it when people misrepresent themselves.

I'd be pissed about the lying and not go. This is coming from a dude.

I still go through with the date, and try to keep an open mind.

snap No, its gotta be a huuuge difference if he/she feels the urge to tell.

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40 lbs in a year is a lot and could be indicative of other issues (mental). The girl is going to feel deceived and that's all she'll think about even if he's a great guy. It's too big of an obstacle. Odds of success are poor, there's potential other issues, and there's a lot of fish in the sea. Next.

slip,

Have you posted a pic of yourself or your profile ITT? I'd be very curious to see!

It's not that much. I lost 35 in a year without even trying

putting on 40 pounds is much different than losing 40 pounds, and i dont mean superficially.

the lying/telling ahead of time is bothersome. the guy clearly at one point was average/fit and then let himself go, felt ashamed about it and didnt update his pictures, and then felt guilt about it and came clean? thats a whole lot of issues to put front and center before youve even been out on a date with someone. id avoid that guy

He could just be picture averse like me. Most of my pics are old just because it's so rare I take pictures. I know I could take new pics, but IDGAF. Then again, my weight hasn't fluctuated by 40 lbs since they were taken.

Anyway, I wouldn't go. I'm not attracted to fat people.

nuts,

i know this is old but i wanted to ask something. towards the end of the third drink were you upping the physical aspect of the encounter?

Still possibly different for a dude. I went from 185 to 230 within 4 months and people legitimately asked me if I had lost weight. It was an intentional bulk up with lifting and went from extreme skinny fat to more solid but a bit fat. Pretty sure I looked better at 230 than 185 skinny fat. Though this guy is probably just fat now, but you never know. It's not as clear cut as it is with a girl (unless anorexic, 40 lbs + is never a good thing).

when girls say they had a great time, it doesn't mean anything.

tonight i was on a date with this really pretentious girl who went to the same college i did (should have known, all the girls at my college pretty much suck). i quickly found out we had nothing in common but went through the motions. literally every thing i liked/loved, she hated. i love tv/sports/vegas/city-life/music, etc. and she just hated it. i, of course say, let's do this again knowing full well i would never do it again and she is like no way (kind of in a nice way but not really). Which I'm totally fine with but she literally had no tact about anything. I guess I should have cut her off after she mentioned she had no TV and she loved country music.

My dating luck has been ****ty...3 bad dates in a row (first one was with a girl i had been seeing for a while). But the one before last, so boring--nothing interesting to say and so many short, boring answers.

this was more of my point. you purposefully put on weight, so emotionally you feel good about it. the guy in the OP clearly doesnt and is putting issues out there before even being on a date. even if he had owned it somewhat and done something like "by the way ive put on some weight since my pictures but now theres more of me to love!" or made some kind of joke, thatd be at least fine to meet up.