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First round is kind of awkward. I am still pretty drunk and have difficulty maintaining. Can't get doggy going and my efforts only amount to a few minutes of missionary. I asked her if it was bad when we were cuddling after and she says Yes. Went to sleep for a bit

If the sex was obviously bad, then laugh about it or something. Don't cuddle and ask her if it was like some insecure little bitch.

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04-14-2014 , 08:32 AM

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AnonymousTextField

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Join Date: Mar 2013 Posts: 1,569

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Originally Posted by bobboufl11

Meh I had a few too many but I didn't blackout or puke. I've gotten basically kicked out of a student organization for blacking out and agressively barking at bitches. I can certainly be an ******* when I drink enough. I don't think my behavior warranted a pulling aside convo. I was just drunkenly lurking/dancing around. If any of these bitches actually threw a negative signal and communicated like an adult instead of passive agressivly going through someone else that would have ended any game I may have thrown their way. example: the first friend you've said I ****ed up with on brodate #1. I'll never hit on her again.

If you can give me some more specifics that could be helpful but otherwise I'm just gonna assume women gonna women

Wimmez gonna wimmez is prob the best conclusion. I was perfectly fine with you; SG took me aside and said that you were making the old sluts uncomfortable...so I said, OK, I'll tell him that.

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04-14-2014 , 09:04 AM

#27453

Showtimez

banned

Join Date: Nov 2013 Posts: 1,131

Ima use Phesh hipster moves too

And if he don't like it...

Come at me bra

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04-14-2014 , 09:13 AM

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Hoagie

name is based on sandwich

Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 6,499

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Originally Posted by Kenny Bania

Just an fyi, if you are worried about getting a girl pregnant, don't **** her without a condom. Pulling out is not an effective method of birth control.

This is absolutely false.

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04-14-2014 , 09:41 AM

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trigstarr

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Join Date: Feb 2006 Posts: 6,068

True. Pulling out is 99.9999999% effective.

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04-14-2014 , 10:33 AM

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crimedopay420

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Join Date: Jan 2014 Posts: 465

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Originally Posted by Kenny Bania

Just an fyi, if you are worried about getting a girl pregnant, don't **** her without a condom. Pulling out is not an effective method of birth control.

Neither is her being on the pill. Its still necessary to use condoms to effectively prevent pregnancy.

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04-14-2014 , 10:41 AM

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Kenny Bania

adept

Join Date: Sep 2008 Posts: 978

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Originally Posted by Hoagie

This is absolutely false.

I learned something today... took a quick look at the research and it turns out that it's about as effective as using condoms.

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04-14-2014 , 10:45 AM

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movieman2g

Script*****

Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 16,938

i think going raw dog on a girl who at one point was contemplating being in a 4 some with ATF is probably a poor decision, no matter the %s

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04-14-2014 , 10:47 AM

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Tyler Durden

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Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 15,299

I think I am going to be in Chicago at the end of the summer and it seems like barking with ATF and bobbo will be imperative.

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04-14-2014 , 10:50 AM

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trigstarr

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Originally Posted by Tyler Durden

I think I am going to be in Chicago at the end of the summer and it seems like barking with ATF and bobbo will be imperative.

Online dating roast imo

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04-14-2014 , 10:54 AM

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El Diablo

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All,

http://rhrealitycheck.org/article/20...ucators-think/

Links to a few articles/studies in there with more stats/background.

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04-14-2014 , 10:55 AM

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El Diablo

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TD,

That's gonna be amazing. Can't wait for the trip report.

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04-14-2014 , 01:47 PM

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Tyler Durden

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Sort of off topic but I'd like to hear some opinions:

I am hoping to move out of my apartment in Arlington, VA at the end of May because I'm pretty bored with living alone. This evening I am going to see a house in DC. If I move in there, I'd be sharing the place with four girls aged 27-31. I'm 33.

My question is what this would mean for my dating life, and how weirded out chicks would be if I tell them that I live with four girls.

One of the plus sides would be that I could tell people my living situation is like Three's Company with a coke habit.

Thanks for your thoughts.

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04-14-2014 , 02:26 PM

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ynotraise

grinder

Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 666

Different strokes for different folks.

I live alone and could never imagine living with other people again.

That being said I think it would be a good jumping off point for you to meet some of their friends and assuming you treat them well, they'd be likely to introduce you to more of them over time.

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04-14-2014 , 02:31 PM

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amazinmets73

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 5,556

I think living with roommates is going to be a huge negative no matter who they are.

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04-14-2014 , 03:06 PM

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Chris DolMeth

self-banned

Join Date: Jan 2014 Posts: 721

Your situation would be ideal for someone like me who has no idea how the female psyche works.

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04-14-2014 , 03:08 PM

#27467

yeotaJMU

Shines ELIte's Shoes

Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 22,414

i would think at 33 living alone would be ideal

at 33 living with younger women i would imagine to be a negative

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04-14-2014 , 03:27 PM

#27468

El Diablo

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TD,

It wouldn't weird chicks out in SF and NYC where lots of people in their 30s still have roommates, but it's also clearly a much bigger positive for dating to live alone.

I haven't really heard of professionals in their 30s who live alone and can afford it moving back in w/ roommates.

What are you really looking for? Could you maybe solve it by moving to a better area w/ more social/younger crowd and then getting to know your neighbors and stuff?

Moving back in w/ a bunch of roommates just sounds terrible to me.

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04-14-2014 , 04:44 PM

#27469

Tyler Durden

banned

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I guess I'm trying to fix the boredom issue. Living solo gets sort of lonely and boring and I think that could be solved by living with others. I'm meeting these four girls in about two hours and I figure I have nothing to lose by seeing them and their house. If it doesn't work out, maybe I'll score a date or two out of it. Ha.

Another option I'm thinking about is moving into one of the happening parts of the city and getting a studio apartment and continuing to live alone.

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04-14-2014 , 04:48 PM

#27470

movieman2g

Script*****

Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 16,938

Move closer to your friends if you want to cure boredom don't move into a crappy reality show just cause you're bored

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04-14-2014 , 05:33 PM

#27471

Sly Caveat

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I've lived with 4 girls before. Get ready for some of the most mind-blowing petty arguments over bull**** you've ever heard of. When I was 22 it was worth it I guess. Pretty fun experience. 33? LOL

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04-14-2014 , 05:36 PM

#27472

spidercrab

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Join Date: Jun 2013 Posts: 3,206

I lived with female roommates fresh out of undergrad, and it was a good experience. But I think we probably got lucky in that we didn't know each other very well (just casual acquaintances in college), but still got along fairly well. If I make that decision 100 times, I'm sure there's at least 20 cases where it turns out badly.

As for doing it at age 30 or whatever, having already lived in your own, I'd say it's almost never a good move unless you seriously need the money savings. And I think you've mentioned that you've gone to law school and done well in poker tournaments, so that shouldn't be an issue.

Overall, agree with movieman.

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04-14-2014 , 05:52 PM

#27473

movieman2g

Script*****

Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 16,938

Oh I also think having female room mates is great, and really helpful in life in addition to dating (I think I've had 7 or so female room mates at various times, but I live in NY and have moved around a lot).

But in TD's case, I don't see why you'd make that move at all unless you were being filmed by MTV.

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04-14-2014 , 06:54 PM

#27474

Nchabazam

Pooh-Bah

Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 4,938

It's pretty insane how many people are on tinder in Boston vs the last time I used it here. Last ~July I got on it, and probably ran out of matches in one night. Now I was just home for 4 days planning my move back from Denver, and seemingly swiped the whole time (selectively). Got 250 matches (brag).

Crazy. Also, hinge is pretty cool in a spot where you have some facebook friends. 3 days since I joined had a lot of really cute girls.

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04-14-2014 , 07:16 PM

#27475

PoppinFresh

old hand

Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,225

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Originally Posted by Kenny Bania

I learned something today... took a quick look at the research and it turns out that it's about as effective as using condoms.

Always surprises me when people say this. Using a condom results in half as many pregnancies. If I was pulling out and got a girl pregnant, I'd feel pretty ****ty knowing there's only a 50% chance that would have happened if I'd used condoms. And it's way easier to **** up if you're pulling out and have that number go way up.

And yeah I know a 2% difference is small, esp over the course of a year, but still seems reckless to be taking that chance

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