The waitress from last Sunday morning doesn't want to go out again. I asked her what went wrong, and didn't get a particularly useful reply:
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We do have stuff in common, it's not that I wouldn't mind being friends. I just don't "feel IT." It's not something you can really describe.
I asked the Japanese girl from two weeks ago too, but never got a response.
However, I think I may have five dates in the next week, including two second dates.
Tomorrow is the ND doctor from last week. I'll keep an open mind here, but she will need to convince me. But we are going for delicious Greek tapas & ouzo, and she is paying, so I'm excited!
Friday is 1st date with 26-yo blonde lawyer who winked at me first on match. I expect the date will be short b/c she told me she has friends coming into town later that night (and thus couldn't meet the rest of the weekend).
Saturday will be a second date with a girl I met this past Monday...she's a 28-yo blonde med student; lived in Poland as a child (but no accent), went to Stanford. This date went really well...it actually followed the pattern I aim for, except she was sort of leading (restaurant --> dive bar --> back to apartment). And she didn't invite me in when we got back to her apartment, and I didn't press it. I think I might have cockblocked myself when I told her days earlier that I probably wouldn't want to stay out late Monday night b/c of my class Tuesday morning (I don't know what I was thinking). In any case, she texted me 5 min after the date ended saying she hoped to see me again this weekend, and we've already planned for her to come up to my neighborhood on Saturday.
I also will probably schedule two more dates. One is a 28-yo med Jewish girl who works as an "healthcare account executive". She had a boring profile, but she winked at me first and she's probably the most purely attractive of my upcoming prospects...she asked me out on her second message, but we haven't actually texted yet.
The final prospect is a girl who just messaged me tonight immediately asking if I wanted to meet for a drink. The strange thing is I messaged this girl 6 weeks ago and she never responded. She's a 30-yo med student also originally from Maryland. Strangely, she's one of the few girls I've seen on OKC with "casual sex" checked on their profile...not sure how to interpret all that.
In any case, I am optimistic!
Last edited by NickMPK; 01-24-2013 at 03:06 AM.