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Originally Posted by splashpot
I have a suspicion that the girl I'm seeing might be a virgin. She's 23, says she's never had a relationship, and was a little hesitant to be physical with me. I definitely like her though and pretty sure she likes me. We haven't done anything beyond making out. Do I ask her if she's a virgin? Do I just forget about it and not even bring it up at all? She has indicated that she will be open to having sex with me at some point.
Have you tried to do more than make out? Unless you are repeatedly getting shut down everytime you try something and you are on date 5+ I wouldn't think about bringing it up.
But if you are on date 5+ and getting shut down I'd just ask her straight up, what's up? Wouldn't mention the virgin thing tho since there are tons of reasons she could be hesitant including past sexual abuse.