i see what you did there

the pleasure needs to watch more porn

grando and I should probably watch less


I've relied upon pulling out as a default setting at times, I think I'm probably pretty good at it by now, sunrunning, or that maybe I'm infertile. Was never ideal but when pill was not in the cards I'd do that instead of condoms.

I've run terrible with condoms. They've broken on me (a number of times sex seemed to suddenly improve a bit and it took it happening a few times before i realized that meant it broke). I once was so drunk i hadn't realized it broke and wasn't paying attention during removal and disposal and the next afternoon she felt uncomfortable, asked me to take a look and I fished out the tip of a condom. And furthermore, if you're wasted they can prove problematic if you're dealing with a case of the whiskey dick.

Those days are pretty much over, been years six drunken sex, and have always used the pullout default with women who at the time I was comfortable having children with but it's definitely dumb.

I just burst out laughing at this comment, thanks

Pulling out while using condom definitely paid off one time when I was drunk and we had been going at it a while. The condom came off near the end, which I didn’t know for sure until I pulled out. Given she likely won’t take the morning after pill, I was glad for that.

About a month ago I made a Facebook post that got a response from an acquaintance and we had a bit of banter, then a few days later we matched on Hinge. She's 5'11 with great legs, and statuesque tits, but has bit of a pooch going from being a bartender lifer. We can call her LaBartender. I got her on a date and had a surprisingly good time where we ended up making out in my car after hanging out for 3 hours. Over the next 10 days or so I expressed the desire to see her again soon and asker her out twice, but was flat denied with no negotiation. After the 2nd flat rejection I called her out and she ended up hitting me with the "I don't have casual sex anyways" shaming that is basically getting friend zoned and I decided I had blown it.

Fast forward to last night and I get a text from her inviting me out to the bar, "I've been working overtime for like 5 months and tomorrow is my friday, so I decided to drink about it? Heh... wanna meet me in <redacted>? Lol". I interpreted this as "I want some dick", but I had literally just walked in the door from ****ing a fwb and didn't feel like going back out so I declined, but threw it out there that I would maaaaybe meet her at her place since it was close. I guess this is where I should mention that I'm staying with my mom right now because my lease ended in November and my new place doesn't open until January. She lives with some guy who doesn't want random dudes boning in his house, or something, so she was trying to come to my place. I had to let her know the facts, but made a joke about sneaking her in through the window to go full high school. This ended up being a good line apparently because she was all for it as she latched onto the act and insisted it actually happen.

Supposedly the trepidation for hanging out with me again came from being long time acquaintances and knowing a lot of people on each other's list, but also that I'm 4-5 inches shorter than her lol. Now I need to get a picture with her in heels for my personal satisfaction.

If a woman you interact with briefly a few times a week calls you "sweetheart" or "dear," is that a death sentence for any shot at dating said woman? Am I wrong, or is there not a certain emasculation to this context? Edit: Relevant information that I don't know is how often she calls people these terms in general.

I assume he is referring to this:

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/u...-a8931816.html

Slightly lean towards yes, but entirely read dependant.

Especially if she's older than you.

They friendzone is fluid sometimes, so who really knows.

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That was just a story I told you

Lots of people in the service industry (ie waitresses) use terms like this in casual conversation to anyone

My first thought was that this increases your chance at dating her.

Would probably need to be there to see how she says it.

Those names mentioned seem a touch patronizing. Would have to see context, but I’m not in love with the scenario based on the information available.

Find out for sure, be polarizing. That way you don’t have to sweat this kind of thing and you can either move forward or move on.

Do you think any match is good for your algorithm and that’s a reason to just swipe right on everyone and sort them out after? I generally swipe right on only 1 of 100 women I see, going for only the best (who also appear real). But I can go an entire week without getting a single like on Tinder, then I’ll get a match with a hottie and a dozen likes will follow over the next day.

Google Tinder ELO

It's a terrible idea, you need to be selective but realistically so

I usually swipe right 100%, but I was curious so I made a fresh account and I only swiped right on 8+s. I ended up with the exact same amount of 8+ matches so it seemingly made no difference and swiping right selectively takes like 20x as much effort. It's possible the algorithm doesn't kick in until later, but I stuck around for a week or 2. On the normal account I didn't seem to be penalized at all for swiping right on everyone.

I only swipe right on people I can envision having a future with. Don't do that though because my match percentage is close to zero percent.

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I always limited right swipes to women I would be interested to meet if they match, which is about 1 in 100. I’m thinking I should at least open it up to women I think would have a high enough invisible rating to raise mine.

Fossil, I'm not disagreeing with your experience and I know we had this conversation before.

But I'd take the over that you're an outlier being an exotic and good-looking guy in a sea of green card thirsty women surrounded by guys who more or less fit the same look and are shorter than you are.

My guess is that you could quite possibly be matchup poof against the algo.

Haven't been on tinder in years though

#ShatsFired

He’s a white guy in Asia. He’s coming from a place of experience not hate.

I'm aware.

I was making a jopke.

I thought getting swiping until out of wipes every 24hrs and swiping 50-70% was the best for your acct. they say it changes every year but isnt that formula pretty muvh what everyone says?

Losing my touch. The joke went over my head. It’s not easy getting old.

There’s no formula that’s going to help you.

If you’re not sure about one of my posts just apply the AiMcLovin theorem that I’m most likely making a joke.

The basis for that post being a joke is that I keep up in OOT very much and so I’m in the know about rickroll and his abroad adventures.