The only thing I drink is Clear American Sparkling Water, 3+ liters/day. I eat way too much salt but I can fix that easily. I hope it's not the aspartame in the water because I'm addicted to the stuff.

I am here in Dutch-land. It is very pleasant, albeit hot as ****. I have noted a fair number of people at outdoor cafes totally barefoot.

I have a hot date tomorrow!

Blaze up homie

OMG! I don’t know if I am more upset with myself about this embarrassment, to which I will add I had to spell check myself on De Niro, or that I had no idea I was entitled to the good pain meds had I visited a doctor rather than wore a groove in the floor pacing around my kitchen island scaring my little dog with groaning and moaning.

Howard,

Fabian?

Rather Yak.


edit. No. I am basically sure it is gmlaw.

Cliffs on little dick Larry and chop spat in J's blog pls.

Actually, I have TWO hot dates.

I’m meeting my daughter for dinner tonight; she is dancing with the Netherlands dance theater. And, as ever, lapka is on the money.

I think lapka is a tad smarter than that dude who started the IQ thread!

27,

I'm happy to report I'm back in Sweden, far away from Dutch-land.

That one gets not enough attention.
https://www.space.com/41007-blood-mo...pse-guide.html

And I am reading-up on all esoteric stuff about it and thinking if I can call Maxwell demons to my windows with help of blood moon.

I heard that Larry combusted and it was artful and Chop agreed.

My bf was underwhelmed and went back to bed but it's been pretty cool Imo.

Fabian,

As Neuro-brothers, and might I add, both swingers of a big D, I feel this comment was unappropriate.

All,

Indeed, Howard and I will meet up tomorrow for a HOT date. I’ll be sure to remind him to check out of his (superfancy) hotel.

I don't think this is thread worthy on its own since I am not that invested in getting actual advice, but I am curious what others think about it.

Went out for a dinner with my fam, another family and a friend and when we sat down in the crowded restaurant my daughter told me she saw the father of one of her friends. He is another dad associated with a mother's social group my wife is involved with and their kids and mine spend time together. His wife and mine are slightly closer than acquaintances getting our kids together for playdates outside of the group a couple of times.

Because I am kinda antisocial, I don't know any of them and never remember their names or faces in person though I recognize the kid's names from conversations.

To cut to the chase, my wife sees him too and as you probably expect at this point, the woman he is with is not his wife, who I find out later often talks about him working out of town during the week. It is clear it is not a casual relationship. He does not see us at all AFAIK and may not recognize us if he did.

So now what? My daughter is 6, so she did not catch onto the dynamic, but she also may tell her friend that she saw her dad out next time they see each other. My wife is torn, as she would hope the other wife would tell her if she saw me with my goomah in public, but she also is not terribly close with this woman and doesn't feel like she really knows enough details to know how to approach it. There is certainly an element of MYOB that is the easiest path to stay out of drama, but that seems level-headed in some ways and cowardly in others. To continue down the path of cowardly motivations...if it does come to light that we saw him there through my daughter and his wife asks my wife about it, the way my wife would feel at that point kind of illuminates that keeping quiet is a questionable moral choice.

What you do?

My dear fellow big D friend,

How is it inappropriate to point out that Sweden and Dutch-land are far away from each other?

To be clear, I'm not saying I'm happy to report I'm far away from Dutch-land (I in fact think Dutch-land is a very cool place), I'm happy to report that I'm back in Sweden.

Johnny,

I make a gabagool sandwich and mind my own ****ing business.

Lol at ever saying anything

Swede with the XL D,

Cleared that right up for me. Neuro-brethren we remain.

absolutely none of your business.

This And this

TBC, I am for sure staying the **** out of it, my wife is making her own decision which at this point seems to be never say nothing to nobody, but it's gonna be awkward in the future for sure. She has the choice to either be nosey and disruptive or probably complicit in it when natural topics of conversation come up between her and the other wife.

**** that dude for complicating my life at all by going to a busy restaurant in town like I don't have enough moral dilemmas to beat myself up with. I should drop a dime just for involving me at all.

If you're looking to avoid being the scapegoat (via being held accountable for a lie by omission): you're more likely volunteering for it.

Dodger,

I feel like N1 right now but what are you saying? =)

ETA: I get it from the parentheses edit, and agree. That's why I included that part in my first post--and not so much because being held accountable is a real concern as much as the concern for how that would feel illustrates something about what is right and wrong here.

If your wife would want to be told then she should tell the wife.

Would anyone here who is advocating staying out of it not want to be told?

I would also.