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02-26-2010 , 10:06 AM
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Originally Posted by ggbman
You really thought it was legit to wait two days to go over yourself? A dude who you say you aren't super tight with lends you his car twice, you know you drained the battery, and you can't find the time to make it over there? It's honestly hard for me to give an opinion on what you owe b/c your initial handling was poor and disrespectful. You bustoed a guys ****ing car, your "personal stuff" has to wait until figure out the situation with the car.
This.
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02-26-2010 , 10:24 AM
you both sound like douches, so ultimately it does not matter what you decide to pay
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02-26-2010 , 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted by wdson01
I couldn't try jumping his car for two days after that just because I was busy as **** doing personal stuff,
This leaves you with zero sympathy.


Once I realize this semi-friend is the one who actually blew the alternator, I tell him to **** off, if he knew how to jump a car this wouldn't be an issue, but then again I wouldn't wait 2 days like an *******.
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02-26-2010 , 10:43 AM
I'm sure OP will realize he's wrong after reading everything that's been written, apologize to Friend B, pay in full, and emerge from this incident a better man.
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02-26-2010 , 11:01 AM
my bet is he comes in here defending his case, like 99% of past threads asking OOT for their advice.
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02-26-2010 , 11:26 AM
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Originally Posted by ggbman
You really thought it was legit to wait two days to go over yourself? A dude who you say you aren't super tight with lends you his car twice, you know you drained the battery, and you can't find the time to make it over there? It's honestly hard for me to give an opinion on what you owe b/c your initial handling was poor and disrespectful. You bustoed a guys ****ing car, your "personal stuff" has to wait until figure out the situation with the car.
This, plus you owe the guy the full amount for the repair and a case of beer on top for his inconvenience and your utter douchiness.
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02-26-2010 , 11:37 AM
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Originally Posted by LFS
I'm sure OP will realize he's wrong after reading everything that's been written, apologize to Friend B, pay in full, and emerge from this incident a better man.
I too have faith that this will happen.

Also, on an unrelated note, I have a great real estate opportunity that I just learned of, any interested OOTers should PM me (pic below).

http://www.tropicalisland.de/NYC_New...e_Center_b.jpg
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02-26-2010 , 11:49 AM
For the OP: http://artofmanliness.com/2008/09/11...p-start-a-car/

You could do well by studying the rest of the site in detail while you're at it.
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02-26-2010 , 11:55 AM
1. Edit text of OP and swap I/me and Friend B in all instances.
2. Reread OP
3. Don't get TOO pissed because remember it really happened to him, not you
4. Pay him the rest of the $$, bitch.
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02-26-2010 , 11:59 AM
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Originally Posted by punkass
my bet is he comes in here defending his case, like 99% of past threads asking OOT for their advice.
this thread won't be any good unless he does this. i suspect OP will bring up some obscure case where he did friend B some huge favor like pick him up at the airport two years ago and therefore believes himself entitled to some goodwill like borrowing his friend's car and draining the battery then not paying for it in full.
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02-26-2010 , 01:17 PM
It's *******s like this that make small claims court necessary.
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02-26-2010 , 02:31 PM
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Originally Posted by sightless
you both sound like douches, so ultimately it does not matter what you decide to pay
This, but I do think "all" is the worst option.
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02-26-2010 , 03:15 PM
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Originally Posted by wdson01
I couldn't try jumping his car for two days after that just because I was busy as **** doing personal stuff
Holy ****, **** you.

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This guy was trying to make me feel like the biggest **** from start to finish
Because you are!

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-We call AAA, the problem is that "friend" switched + and - when trying to jumpstart car, blew alternator fuse.
Sucks that your friend is stupid, but like likes like.

The jump wouldn't have happened if you weren't a careless ****head with regards to the lights initially.
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02-26-2010 , 03:18 PM
Fuses cost about $0.25 at most places. Be a good friend and chip in a dime or so.
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02-26-2010 , 03:19 PM
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Originally Posted by JStunna
This, but I do think "all" is the worst option.
HOW on earth can you justify any option other than "all"?
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02-26-2010 , 03:39 PM
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Originally Posted by SeanyJ
Why did you leave the lights on instead of asking your friend how to turn them off?
I never realized they never turned off, once again, my fault but it was not intentional.

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Originally Posted by ImsaKidd
You are a dick for taking 2 days to get over there and jump it.
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Originally Posted by ggbman
You really thought it was legit to wait two days to go over yourself? A dude who you say you aren't super tight with lends you his car twice, you know you drained the battery, and you can't find the time to make it over there? It's honestly hard for me to give an opinion on what you owe b/c your initial handling was poor and disrespectful. You bustoed a guys ****ing car, your "personal stuff" has to wait until figure out the situation with the car.
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Originally Posted by GoldenBears
Reading your OP I 100% understand why the guy was being a dick to you. You were probably being a complete douchebag the entire time.

You lose your keys
You borrow the guy's car
You blow out his battery
You demand that you won't pay **** until you can jump it yourself
You take TWO ****ING DAYS to get over there and try to jump it
You then determine that the time was wasted since the fuse is blown.

THEN YOU DEMAND HE PAYS HALF OF THE EXPENSES AND FEEL LIKE YOU'RE GETTING THE SHORT END OF THE STICK?

The guy was minding his own business, had a guy borrow his car, **** it up, leave him without wheels for two days, act like a dick towards him and then demand that he pay for half of his broken car? And you think he is somehow in the wrong?


I mean el oh freaking el. I know the 2p2 is filled with people who can barely interact with other humans, but your stance on this is like so far out of touch with reality it's stunning.


I don't mean to be a dick to you, but seriously, come on. Anyway, the answer to your question is "pay for everything, apologize for the inconvenience and do it a week ago."
Ok I did leave out info. When Friend B initially learned about the battery dying, Friend A called me and says I killed the car, I offered to go there and jump start it, Friend B says don't worry about it (I think I put that in the OP). A couple days after that when I started getting texts demanding for me to do something, I said I was busy for two days, but before I went to the city to do my ****, I will come over to his place to jump start/fix the car. We set up a meeting time at 7. When I went there that morning, I try calling/texting him, knocking on his door, but he never answered, so I left. 2 days after that is when I went over again to try to make the car work.
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02-26-2010 , 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by VoraciousReader
HOW on earth can you justify any option other than "all"?
OP wasn't the idiot that blew the fuse.
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02-26-2010 , 03:52 PM
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Originally Posted by ganstaman
OP wasn't the idiot that blew the fuse.
OP was the idiot that couldn't figure out how the lights worked, and instead of either 1) calling friend and asking how to turn the lights off or 2) at the bare minimum, shooting him a text message warning friend that the lights were on and he might want to stop off at the car himself and turn them off, acted like it just wasn't his problem that he was leaving a dead battery for someone that did him a favor.

Not that I think any of this ever happened, since OP claims that opinions were "mixed" about how to handle the situation. The only way that's possible is if OP's friends suck even worse than he does.
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02-26-2010 , 03:55 PM
you are a huge douche
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02-26-2010 , 04:08 PM
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Originally Posted by ImsaKidd
You are a dick for taking 2 days to get over there and jump it.
Absolutely.
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02-26-2010 , 04:10 PM
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Originally Posted by VoraciousReader
OP was the idiot that couldn't figure out how the lights worked, and instead of either 1) calling friend and asking how to turn the lights off or 2) at the bare minimum, shooting him a text message warning friend that the lights were on and he might want to stop off at the car himself and turn them off, acted like it just wasn't his problem that he was leaving a dead battery for someone that did him a favor.

Not that I think any of this ever happened, since OP claims that opinions were "mixed" about how to handle the situation. The only way that's possible is if OP's friends suck even worse than he does.
Why would I knowingly keep the lights on and let the battery die? When I took his car, I went to my house and messed with the lights there. When I returned to his house I didn't think about it, so they were left on.
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02-26-2010 , 04:12 PM
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Originally Posted by wdson01
I never realized they never turned off, once again, my fault but it was not intentional.

Ok I did leave out info. When Friend B initially learned about the battery dying, Friend A called me and says I killed the car, I offered to go there and jump start it, Friend B says don't worry about it (I think I put that in the OP). A couple days after that when I started getting texts demanding for me to do something, I said I was busy for two days, but before I went to the city to do my ****, I will come over to his place to jump start/fix the car. We set up a meeting time at 7. When I went there that morning, I try calling/texting him, knocking on his door, but he never answered, so I left. 2 days after that is when I went over again to try to make the car work.
pretty sure if this was true you would have put it in the op and not after you realized how much of a douche you were during the whole situation

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I first tell him I'm not paying a dime until I can try jumping the car myself and try to figure out what's wrong with the car.

I couldn't try jumping his car for two days after that just because I was busy as **** doing personal stuff, so 2 days later I finally got back to his apartment
is completely different than this

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A couple days after that when I started getting texts demanding for me to do something, I said I was busy for two days, but before I went to the city to do my ****, I will come over to his place to jump start/fix the car. We set up a meeting time at 7. When I went there that morning, I try calling/texting him, knocking on his door, but he never answered, so I left. 2 days after that is when I went over again to try to make the car work.
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02-26-2010 , 04:15 PM
easy question, you pay all. your fault. you pay.
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02-26-2010 , 04:23 PM
if you cross the +ve and -ve on an alternator, the smell is worse than a dozen rotten eggs when that resistor fries. The story has the same smell to it.
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02-26-2010 , 04:24 PM
I'm guessing from "halo"and all the stupidity that you guys like to get high?
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