When I started out having sex I had watched way too much porn and thought that if I just pounded away like a maniac they were gonna love it.

I have found that the quickest way to make them cum is to have a deep emotional connection/communication going on, on the border of too intense. Technique won't matter as much then. Orgasm is more about mental/emotional state and comfort. Even as a guy I have gone limp inside the tightest most magnificent pussy I've ever had, physically it should have been great finish in 30secs thing but obviously I started thinking about poker hands or whatever. Obviously girls are different but I'm pretty sure they are similar in that way. You can **** her like a pro technically but sometimes nothing will happen. Make sure she's turned on by being a present man, things will just be auto. Some girls can climax just by fondling breasts when they're super turned on. Make her feel desired.

There is also a good position for stimulating her clitoris during intercourse that some girls (and I) enjoy a lot, it's like missionary with closed legs squeezing thighs together.

I think someone may have a thing for a certain Vulcan hand sign itt

Her lips are moving.

Given the chance to respond, Mrs. Haywood replied "what do I care what they think" and kept walking.

But I can confirm she needs little more than a hot look.

Very good post.

+2

Knowing ClarkNasty from his poker posts, there is no other speculation, this is IT!

I have been more of the pound the pussy and pray type but things will be different from now on...

Who says 2+2 is a waste of time? Never me and now certainly not my significant other

*mighty penis

and now

*pound the pussy.

Somebody's got to take the leap.

Well, that's just it, there is no "it". Different women prefer different things (some like it if you pound the pussy with your mighty penis), and individual women may prefer a different technique at different times since sexual sensitivity can fluctuate based on hormonal levels, stress, emotional comfort, etc. etc. etc.

Constant communication is really the only way to know for sure. That and just reducing expectations (you don't have to orgasm in order for sex to be a "success") and making sure both parties are enjoying themselves. Stress and trying too hard actually make orgasm more difficult to achieve.

+1, got a woman off just by stroking the back of her knee for 5 minutes or so (let's just say there was physical proof of getting her off, not just me guessing), it was kinda neat

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How does this situation even come up?

If a girl's faking it, she has a reason, so just leave it alone. In my experience, it means she doesn't want to hurt your feelings but she's given up on that particular session and she wants to signal that it needs to wrap up.

Foreplay, obviously

How do you access the back of her knee? I wanna try this.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m2kqFkpQP4c

Glad you two could get some joint pleasure out of it.

"Kneeing" is a 5 minute major penalty in hockey. Coincidence?!?!?!

I can always tell. If I care about her, I'm going to care if she cums or not.

Simple rule, really.

This really begs a better question, "how can you tell when a Canadian is having an orgasm?"

Their favourite hockey team scores a goal.

1. who cares?
2. ask her to make a sandwich after. if she says no she didn't have an orgasm. if she says yes it doesn't matter if she did or didn't because you just had sex and now you're eating a sandwich.

3.
actually, it's penazia.

Apparently inside is all swollen and tingly or something like that after an orgasm, and intercourse feels real good apparently.

It's often the case that once a woman has experienced one orgasm, subsequent ones are more easily reached, and since orgasm results in increased blood flow, if orgasm is going to occur through intercourse with only minimal other stimulation, that would be an optimal time to try, I would think.

Bear in mind, too, that there ARE women who can orgasm through intercourse alone, as well as women who reach orgasm very easily. If you're with one of those women, it probably doesn't matter what you are doing - it's going to work.

Why Howard, why do you have to make me imagine things I don't want to???

You needn't worry, imo, she looks happy to me.

I'm willing to bet there's a very correlation between men thinking that the idea most women don't have orgasms during vaginal intercourse without additional stimulation is a myth, and men not being able to tell when a woman is faking an orgasm.

Like, right around 100% among non-virgins.

god, I actually have a headache now.

Ugliest sentence award.