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Is it really the consensus that people in long term relationships cheat because they "need more variety" or aren't "cut out for monogamy"?

I have no idea!

Nice four years of college, coke-bottles.

So how many times has he talked to you and you let him do his thang with another woman?

It obviously hasn't happened but I'm really loving 'do his thang.' lol. 'thang.'

Is this really so hard to believe?

Is what do what? I think the answer is 'yeah, kinda!' but I'm not sure what you're asking.

pongo normally I would be kinda mad that you slightly derailed a decent thread but then I realised OP is a lame poster who just happened to get lucky with this thread

OP you shouldn't date crazy bitches.

Yes. It seems pretty self-delusional to even think you'd be ok with it. You'd definitely be upset and no amount of logical thinking will stop that emotional response.

Those kinds of situations only really work when both parties want it like that from the jump. Having your husband tell you he wants to bang another girl would probably devastate you imo (and rightly so).

But nahhh you're probably right, you'd totally be ok with it.

I agree with you sir, i never heard anything as ****ed up as that dude said.. idiot tbh..

Youre an idiot, and you got no clue what so ****ing ever.

Cheating = instant dump and never talk to the ****ing bitch again, simple as that, if she goes **** someone else she can go kill herself, what do i care.

Cheating = disrespect and i dont care wtf any of you say, if you cheat, your simply not 100% in love. Simple as that.

Come on now, he also had a big hit with his "should I turn my cramped apartment into a large oven for pizzas?" thread too.

I agree, the thing with cheating is that it isn't something petty or lazy that's done in the spur of the moment. Usually there are hundreds of opportunities to back out of it. Whenever I've started to get into what would be a serious, exclusive relationship I've always made it very clear that I won't tolerate cheating of any kind because for me the issue of trust is so important in a relationship and I couldn't trust someone who cheated on me.

devastating is pretty lol. not everyone is super possessive and jealous. there are large communities of couples that are swingers and are completely open about this kind of stuff.

One day I'll be a hip 2p2 poster like Joe Camel.

How much is it for post coaching?
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On the subject, I think I have been cheated on not but it was during a LDR. I had met this chick who was getting ready to go to college while I was in highschool. Being one of my early relationships I was pretty stupid, and still am for the most part, so I figured I'd try to see how 'dem phone relationships work. Was cool for about a week or two then it slowly got redundant.

Anyways about a week into it, she'd flat out tell me she's going over to a guy's house. Got the point where she was going about 4-5 times a week. After the first few times she said he did coke and that she tried it for the first time. Didn't really bother me though as I had no real connection with her.

I still feel pretty gay for doing a LDR though.

Swinging =/= Cheating.

IMO, cheating implies that some sort of dishonest or wrongful act had to occur in the context of your specific relationship. Swingers and people in open relationships are exactly that, open. It's not dishonest to have sex with another person or people if the context of your relationship implies that this is OK.

Cheating doesn't even have to involve sex either. If I had a girlfriend, and I learned that she spent the night sleeping over at an ex's, and they just cuddled all night, that's cheating.

That scum cheated with egypt black guys while she was in relationship with me and there with family.
Sick life.

Isura, if I'm reading correctly, was responding to a post about "husband" telling Pongs he wants to **** other womens, not that he cheated on her.

This sounds like a whole load of hypothetical. If it ever happens, can we please please please get updates?

Badass vid

this

This was back in my college days (5 yrs ago) i was dating some Asian lady and things for the first several months where going really well. She was living on her own and gave me a house key. Just in case if i ever wanted to come visit. she lived 45 mins away me however we both went to same college by her house. So it would be convenient for me to stop at her place and chill once she came back from work.

anyways

around 7 months later I notice her attitude and affection (lack of sex) with me was changing. So, I thought maybe I can do something romantic and spice things up a bit. So while she was at work I went to her place with flowers,candles, and food. set everything up and waited for her to come back from work.

while waiting for her I notice that she left her phone in her bedroom. I couldn't help myself but look through her phone. I notice a bunch of text messages of her and ex b/f.. basically flirting with each other, and talking about how much they miss each other.

I was on life tilt.

should I yell at her?
confront her about this ****?

to make long story short she came down from work. I acted like everything was fine. we had sex and by "accident" gave her anal.. she wasn't to happy about it but i didnt give a ****..

a few days later we break up and the following week i see her hanging out with her ex-b/f at the mall.


cliff notes

-date Asian in college
-find out she's cheating or about to cheat
- still have sex with but gave her anal by accident
-break up few days later
-see her with ex-b/f a week later at the mall

You know what I think whenever anyone tells a story that includes surprise anal? That dude must have a small dick.