Yeah she should take care of me and make him watch for that.

That must be some sweet, sweet masturbation at the end of all that waiting

You mean all of the 10 seconds of it? lmao

That's the first two times.

It appears puppy is going to let this thread die. Sad.

After 3 days, my girlfriend released me for 24 hours. I came first time alone (masturbation), and the next two time during sex. We didn't bother with all the new toys we bought, I assume she was just as horny as me.

Its not too uncomfortable, getting used to it. Definitely feels like something is missing when I am NOT wearing it. Kind of like wearing a hat, you notice it when you initially put it on, but then later on, you only notice it when its off. I'm locked up again, I think for 10 days this time.

She really enjoyed all the attention I gave her while in the chastity. I must admit, I gave her alot less attention once I was released. I usually masturbate 2-3 times a day, so getting horny and frustrated really bothered me on day 2.

Only problem is hygiene. It can be a little hard to clean, so she will release me more often but only to clean under her supervision.

For those who think submissivedude is making stuff up, I am pretty sure he isnt. Plenty out there with that kind of lifestyle.

how was the sex?

ill take sentences i didnt expect to see in this thread for $200, alex

I came too quick Even the 2nd time around

she finally let you out but made you masturbate? was she in the room with you? wouldnt it have felt amazing to **** her instead?

also, has this affected the relationship at all? like has she taken on the "man" role in non-sexual activities?

Yeah she was in the room with me. Well since we are new, I guess she decided to release me early, I'm sure it will be much longer next time. I hear people not being released for a whole ****ing year!!! We agreed give or take 3-4 weeks max.

She definitely has not changed out of the bedroom, maybe happier and expects little things (eg: get me something from the fridge, etc...) which I do to please her. It feels like you just started dating this girl and you want to please and impress her all the time. You CAN be bothered talking to her on the phone, helping her get stuff that she can't be bothered, actually listening to what she says.

do you think about sex less or more?

Definitely not less, not just sex, but masturbating/orgasms as well.

You look like an absolute idiot when you use "sammich." You will also do a year in the gulag when I become emperor. And non-toasted is definitely the way to go on harder breads.

Yeah, I'm not quite sure what leads people to think I'm making it up. Your incredulity is based on the premise that such a male-female dynamic is impossible, but once you accept that such relationships exist, I don't see why you would doubt it in its extreme forms.

I think what Puppy said about feeling weird when NOT wearing a chastity belt captures the entire nature of BDSM relationships. The initial stages of training were difficult, humiliating, and even depressing but, as time passes, you become used to it and eventually defined by it.

And for those asking if I think she'd stay with me were I not showering her with gifts... of course not. We've entered a relationship where my unyielding servitude to her is assumed. Were we in a relationship that didn't intrinsically entail my financial, psychological, and physical devotion to her, I'd no longer be her slave. Have I lost any modicum of self-respect I may have once had? Yes, but that's the point! I'm her slave, and her desires are my desires.

Truly pathetic.

submissivedude, what is your job when you aren't away being someones bitch?

This is what worries me (assuming this is real). You intentionally put your entire sense of self-worth in this woman's hands through a difficult, demeaning process. What happens when she inevitably tires of you or finds a superior replacement? This kind of dependent personality is never healthy, regardless of the fact that you've found someone to enable it.

I own a boutique tutoring company in Manhattan.

so if there's a crisis at work and she's bossing you around, who wins out?

someone still needs to check your IP address, i still suspect you're the same guy who claims to bang random chicks without condoms.

regardless, you are truly pathetic as already mentioned. i haven't seen any bdsm relationships that involve financial devotion the way you describe. so if your business goes down the drain, she just throws you out on the street? this is not a relationship and you're not a slave, you're a sucker. a slave is sheltered by his master or mistress, not vice versa. as i've already suggested, get your life back together and start buying yourself bdsm hookers. you will at least get some sexual gratification.

I'ma cuckold both of these panty-wastes gigity gigity goo.

Good chance he wants that.

"it was a million to one shot, doc, a million to one"

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updates on chastity belt?

There's an entirely different thrill to be had by infringing on societal taboos than by just having sex.

Like, ever had sex outdoors or in a public place? Or done anal? Very mild compared to this kind of stuff, but along the same lines of deviancy from 'acceptable' or 'normal' sexual activity and definitely enjoyable for the thought of what you're doing as well as just the physical act, right? It's worth exploring the depths of your sexuality.

You'd be surprised how different somebody can be in the bedroom and in public, too. If you rooted through all your acquaintances' wardrobes I'm sure you'd find a rubber gimp suit or fisting glove or home surgery kit in at least one of them.