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Originally Posted by prana
Well now we've jumped from masturbating to "chronic secret masturbating". Where is the line drawn anyway? I don't usually masturbate on my deck.
Well the secret is pretty much a given. If it was just casual it wouldn't take eight years to find evidence of it.
Chronic I am just getting a vibe that most people are talking at least every other day if not daily. Maybe I'm misreading that but that is the impression I'm getting.
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Originally Posted by prana
On the same note, if we had gone without sex for weeks and I knew she was runnin off to do stuff like this, then I'd have issues. Not because I'm jealous or insecure but because she isn't fulfilling my needs.
Well I wouldn't expect you to be jealous of an inanimate object but in the end she choose it so there has to be a reason. If nothing else I'd at least expect an invitation to watch.
With respect to needs have you consider that OP's wife's needs are not being met as well. Women enjoy and want sex as much as men do yet the reason OP is masturbating is because he is not getting enough sex from his wife. Can you see how from the wife' perspective that could be him taking the easy way to his own sexual fulfilment rather than doing stuff to improve the joint sexual relationship.