P.S.

Cue the Internet/ Serious Business pic. That'd be very clever.

Ha, it IS pretty easy and I HAVE slept with a lot of woman. I'm just trying to get better at it. The city I live in has tens of thousands of foreigners, might not be completely comparable to rural laos!

thought you were gone - subscribed to thread obv

Here is where your self-limiting beliefs shine through. I live in effing Singapore. Roughly 1/4th of the population is foreign, of which about 80% is western (caucasian). This city had about 4.6 million people last time I checked.
Stiffer competition than what you encounter, yet I get laid like a rockstar, by just smiling, being friendly, and not overly eager.

WhoIam is right, it is NOT rocketscience, and you seem to overcomplicate a lot of things, based on your messages in the original thread. You are just being very insecure, and you need to work on *that*. Get *that* fixed and find out that just acting "normal" will also get you laid.

You say you already got laid a lot. I have seen the pics of your conquests, that have been done partially thanks to your new found tactics and techniques. Would you say these girls were hotter than the tons of girls you bedded before you started grabbing girls on their way to the toilet?

Yours is an intelligent and thoughtful post. I am compelled to respond.


I don't know AD from a row of ass holes but my impression from reading his posts is that he is a bit out there. This puts him on an even keel with at least half of the population.


I am in total agreement that he was putting on a show and likely pushing this whole journal thing to the max because it was giving him attention. What that means to me is that he likely embellished a lot of what he wrote for entertainment value and edited out some important info as well. The bottom line is the information he has given is skewed and so to call him a rapist is ******ed. Even better, to say that sooner or later he would have raped someone is even more ******ed.


This brings me to your point about defending him. I have no interest in defending him. He can stand on his own two feet with what he has done and the repercussions he has suffered from it. As far as AD goes I think posting the videos is what got his ass kicked for him and I hope he learned his lesson from it.


What I don't condone is people claiming rape in a situation where they don't have a ****ing clue. It is an irresponsible reaction. We don't need to hold the Salem witch trials over again do we?


You mention the forum as being culpable because of posters egging him on. This is a 2 way street. Imagine this very possible scenario:

1. AD posts about his exploits and exaggerates a bit because he is an attention whore.
2. Entire forum screams rape and thread explodes.
3a. Authorities get wind of thread and incarcerate AD
3b. Some local gets wind of thread believes the accusations and blows AD's head off.
4. AD's life is ruined because he is stupid not because he is a criminal.

im with henry+co. ive ****ed about 50 girls in my life (no, no hookers) and not in one single instance have i played the ****ing "no means yes" game. i have no idea how the girls i have found is so incredibly different from the girls you guys find. in my experience a "no" definitely means "no". you guys are doing something wrong in the bedroom ffs.

and yeah alan deserves all he can get. piece of ****.

Hey guys, I found an exclusive picture from AD's new blog.

It really bugs me to think that that dude has probably gotten laid about 100x more than me.

Because I go out and try.. sometimes I come across as creepy.. sometimes I harass girls near the bathroom.. sometimes I scare girls.. but i try and so sometimes I get laid.

I don't think he was talking about you.

Wait you're the dude in that picture?

Ha that image host is blocked in China i can't see whatever pic was posted...

that pic is from the look at this ****ing hipster website somebody linked in another thread.
latfh.com

Right, well the getting laid thing was about him.

The last 7 posts had me laughing out loud.

omg got mentioned in the pokercast <3

la la la
im so sexy

I see your point, but I think you're taking it too far. First, there's no collective 2 + 2 - I shouldn't feel guilty that other people on this forum said something. Second, AlanDyar can't say in his defence "well, some people on the forum liked it!". Other posters are not responsible for him, he's responsible for himself. Third, I didn't have to carry out a background search into your mental health before I made this post, and if we started worrying about that, we'd have to stop posting.

Ethnocentrism itt

I was thinking one part of my problem is I tend to get the girls back to my apartment too fast [since i'm lazy for traditional dating stuff and impatient to f***], within a few hours of meeting them, this probably contributes alot to their 'last minute resistance'.......

in before unconsciousness

That isn't it. It is how and where not when that is your problem.

Has anyone ever addressed the fact that AD comes off sort of like a robot? It almost seems like he gets no pleasure from sex - he just wants to **** a lot either because that's what he's supposed to do, or because he's conducting some sort of science experiment.

Also - I've noticed that a lot of 2+2ers move to Thailand, Singapore and the like. Is that an area for people to move who want to get laid a lot, but can't get laid in the "west"?

Pretty much right on all parts. Although a lot of people go to Thailand and such for other reasons too.