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Originally Posted by onemoretimes
Anybody that thinks it's socially difficult to not lend other players money is an idiot. A simple "I don't lend money" does the trick.
The socially weird thing is idiots asking for money. They're ****ed in the head.
I wouldn't be surprised if the karma of the universe had online poker shutdown because these sponsored guys who were banking off it were scumbag idiots. **** all of them. Seriously, what % of them are broke now, except the ones who got away with robbery.
Ok so the spine of your points are tough to disagree with, I admit. My point was in high stakes games in particular where player pools are a lot smaller, getting instant access to funds present legitimate logistical issues, and people tend to have slightly deeper personal relationships... It can be socially awkward when put on the spot.
It was more a response to the accusation that money is often lent as a way to entice losing players to play on and lose more, anyone who has played even a modest amount of high stakes live poker will know the situations crop up fairly often where people ask to borrow money, and it's a socially difficult spot for some players to say no.
I think saying something as broad as, if you lend money you're an idiot, or anyone asking to borrow money is fu**ed in the head is just a lack of understanding of the situations.
In recent years, I've refused to lend people money in spots where in my early twenties I would have just buckled and said yes. Just because the right answer is "obvious" to someone not in the situation, doesn't make it easy to do the right thing.