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Originally Posted by moki
That stuff can certainly happen. But it can also happen to people who don't play poker. That's why I play now, because the rest of my life got so screwed up. A partial litany:
I have Attention Deficit Disorder, which wasn't diagnosed until I was 40. My theory is that having a MENSA IQ, along with ADD, causes each to mask the other. For a long time I muddled along. I wasn't a great student, but I graduated with my high school class, albiet with a 2.6 GPA.
I tried and tried, on and off for 20 years, to get a college degree. I could never quite do it. I gave it everything I had, including repeating a bunch of classes. But I was just too distractable and disorganized to do anything like research and write a major paper.
I got in all kinds of legal trouble for stupid stuff like forgetting to pay minor traffic tickets. Not paying tickets eventually turns into a suspended driver's license, which turns into a DWLS (driving while license suspended), which turns into jail.
Skipping ahead to the last 3 years, during which I was doing a pretty good job of cleaning my messes up:
I got a decent job.
I got in an auto accident and broke some bones.
About the time I was ready to go back to work, my employer folded.
So, no degree except for community college, very spotty job history, and not much money to work with. The unemployment rate in my city was one of the worst in the US, at 19%.
But I did have one thing going for me. I had a lot of time after my auto accident where I couldn't do much. But I could sit in front of a computer and play poker.
I got online with $50 and found out that I was pretty good it. My education didn't matter. I didn't have to convince someone to hire me. My ADD had been diagnosed and I knew what I was dealing with. I could minimize the distractions by playing when I was the only one up, when no one was home, or at 3 A.M. if I wanted.
Life can deal you a series of bad beats, but that isn't limited to poker players. In a situation like that, you only have 3 options.
1. Give up.
2. Try harder at what you were doing.
3. Try something else.
#3 seems to be working pretty well for me. I absolutely love being self-employed, and it would take a pretty good offer for me to do something else.