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Originally Posted by bgrif
The biggest take away from this thread, and recent battles between posters and Daniel/Daniels PR person, is the sad truth of how hard it is to be happy/content in the world of poker.
I don't really believe that. The same type of reasoning could be applied to any field. There are players in the NBA who make a quick fortune, coast on natural ability, retire, and live comfortably for the rest of their lives. There are players who work hard every day and use every last drop of energy and youth to achieve as much as they possibly can before their bodies fail on them. There are players who get caught up in clubbing, partying, and drugs, and ruin their lives and careers. There are players who manage to find a healthy balance of family, work, and fun.
The same is true for poker. It's possible for poker to have an unhealthy role in someone's life. It's also possible for it to be harmless or even beneficial. Blanket generalizations don't apply to everyone. You can see this with the WSOP winners over the years. Some of them took the money and abandoned the game (i.e. Pius Heinz, Jerry Yang). Not the exciting choice, but perhaps the best life choice in a lot of ways. Some of the winners took the money, gambled too much, and probably lost a lot of it back (Moneymaker and Eastgate both admitted to problematic gambling behavior after their wins). Some of the winners have seemingly found a healthy balance of maintaining a presence on the poker circuit without becoming raging degenerates (Cada, Reiss, and Duhamel seem to be doing well).
Poker is just a game. How it affects the individual is largely down to the individual. Someone with problematic addictions, impulsiveness, and money management problems is going to run into difficulties. People like Polk and perhaps DN who seek external attention and validation may find that the praise/attention/accolades are never quite enough to satisfy them, but that's not a poker problem, it's a psychological trap that occurs in any other field like business/sports/entertainment/etc.
Goal-setting behavior isn't inherently unhealthy though. Goals can help give you a sense of purpose and achievement, as long as you're self-aware enough to know that the next big score or milestone isn't going to magically "fix" whatever you don't like about yourself, your life, etc.