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Originally Posted by lozen
No one hear seems to be defining it one way. Im sure you could ask many politicians what Woke is and they would be silent. Its like asking a Democrat to define What a women is ?
OK I'll take the challenge.
Assuming you meant "woman" and not "women" I'm going to go with a woman is somebody who says they are a woman. Close to 100% of the time they will have a vagina. And close to 100% of the time they will have been born with their vagina.
I am not particularly comfortable with transgender stuff. Like I wasn't totally comfortable growing up about gay stuff.
I used to take the subway to school everyday from when I was in 7th grade through 12th grade. I was on the train about 45 minutes to an hour. Gay men tried to pick me up 21 times (though twice it was on a train from CT to Grand Central Station). I thought the tag on the back of a dress shirt was a "*** tag". I thought the word "****" was what should be used to describe a gay man.
The thing that bothered me the most was that taking showers at school after Gym classes I had no idea if I was being watched surreptitiously by a Gay kid. But I got the problem. The alternative was to force kids who were Gay to come out as Gay. Which isn't fair to them. They may be holding back because of potential parental abuse/control or worse, fear of being cast aside and thrown out of their home. Similarly, the treatment they would get from fellow students would likely be damning. So I lived with the shower situation. A little bit jealous really because I would have loved to be able to walk into a girl's Gym shower.
I think the Transgender situation now is more of the same. There is an unease in bathrooms and showers because is it possible that a woman isn't really a woman but a man who wants to be in the girl's shower? And will they be violent about it? It's not like rape isn't a thing in America. Like 25% of all woman claim they have been sexually abused at some point in their life. But the thing is the Transgender fake thing doesn't seem to be happening. There is also the problem of men turning into women in some cases will be far superior athletes (we had that problem with Renee Richards who went from a fairly average professional tennis man to a top 20 player world wide as a woman). There will be rules about testosterone that will potentially make it fairer. But in the end there will be exceptions to the rule. Life isn't going to be perfect.
What is happening is that often parents are more distraught that their child claims to be of the opposite sex than back in my day when parents were distraught about their kid being Gay. I probably would be in that camp at least subconsciously except that I knew a girl in my daughter's class at school who turned into a boy. I also am good friend's with his father. I saw the father love his child and call him a boy (and now a man) 100% of the time. It was hard for me to wrap my head around. But in the end what I got out of it is that either you love your child or you don't. And you either support them 100% or you don't. If it was my child I would support them 100%. No matter how uncomfortable it made me feel. And hopefully I would get over it quickly and welcome their significant others with open arms.
As for "Woke" I would rather be wide awake than asleep at the wheel. I really don't know what Woke means because I haven't really been paying attention. But I am getting that for the far right it is a way to blame Liberals/Democrats for making it clear to children the actual history of this country. Whether it be about slavery and racial injustice, gay rights, Abortion and birth control, etc. The theme seems to be that the learning will make their children feel bad about themselves and/or their parents. But really its just a further attempt to make sure the parent's values aren't compromised so that the children won't abandon the racial inequities built into our society, won't be Gay, won't have sex before marriage, won't get an abortion if they do. Good luck with that.
And stay awake (not Woke) because the children will end up doing what's right for them (if they don't commit suicide) - so if you want to stop it don't fall asleep at the wrong time.