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Originally Posted by Willd
Luckbox hasn't even slightly said that this is a grey area. His posts explicitly say that your usage is wrong and that it's not acceptable to refer to a large, non-discrete group of people as "the Xs", you just won't admit it because uke is the one who pointed it out.
At this point it's fairly obvious that you are deliberately using inappropriate/disrespectful language to troll uke. You might have had a point about uke being overly confrontational to begin with but you lost any credibility when you chose to be obstinate and trolly with your usage instead of making any effort to change.
People assume language use issues are crystal clear to everyone just because they think they are crystal clear to them.
My point about Luckbox's posts is not based on Results based Thinking and a conclusion but that some might talk it thru to see if and where it fits, if at all on a scale of appropriate to not.
Certainly it is not this clear cut thing you are pretending it to be. It was not clear to me.
And yes, once uke engages with me like that from the onset I am not going to cede him his 'wins' he is fishing for and trying to set up with his very first address that might has well said 'what about Hitler' as he alluded to every negative thing he could throw at it so that in any future engagement he can 'remind me about the last time I posted in a manner that had racism, gay bashing and xenophobia'.
I am not going to engage in uke with good faith as he does not warrant that.
And when you call that out, you should consider why you won't call him out for it, and only see the reaction to it as the negative when his behaviour is far more harmful, not only to discourse but in trying to educate or help anyone use language better.
uke is exactly the type of person who push otherwise well meaning people into polarized camps and is never part of helping bridge the differences and that makes me sad that he is a Uni Prof, but it certainly is indicative of what we hear is happening on campuses. Sad.